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Episode #34 - You'll take the high road and I'll take the low. Discussing how our brain processes information.

14 min · 29. mar. 2026
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🎙️ You Take the High Road and I’ll Take the Low Road In this episode of The Better Humans Project Podcast, Greg Pfeiffer explores the two pathways that shape how we respond to life in real time: the fast, emotional “low road” and the slower, more deliberate “high road.” You’ll learn how your brain is wired to react before it thinks, why that’s not always a bad thing, and how to create space between reaction and response. Through relatable, everyday examples, this episode breaks down how these two systems influence your decisions, relationships, and ability to stay aligned with your values. More importantly, it gives you practical tools to recognise your automatic reactions, pause, and choose a more intentional response—helping you move from impulsive to purposeful living. 👥 This episode is for people who: * React quickly and sometimes regret it later * Struggle with anger, stress, or emotional triggers * Want to improve communication and relationships * Feel stuck in overthinking or “paralysis by analysis” * Want to become more intentional and in control of their responses 🔥 Weekly Challenge: Practice the “Pause and Label” technique—notice your reaction, name it, and choose your response.   If you found this episode valuable, please share with somebody who might need to hear it or on your socials. If you want to reach out for more information, a copy of the worksheet or want to share your story, you can email me at contact@thebetterhumansproject.com [contact@thebetterhumansproject.com]

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