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What Are You Really Teaching Your Kids About Money? | Breaking Financial Chains Ep.46

30 min · 13. maj 2026
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What Are You Really Teaching Your Kids About Money? | Breaking Financial Chains Ep.46. In this episode of Breaking Financial Chains, I explore how we unconsciously pass our money wounds on to our children through the behaviours we model every single day. From the phrases we repeat ("we can't afford that", "money doesn't grow on trees") to how we react when bills arrive, our kids are absorbing financial lessons long before we sit them down for "the money talk". I look at the two extremes most parents swing between - raising children who fear money or who worship it - and why both create adults who struggle. Whether it's the scarcity mindset that breeds under-earning and avoidance, or the achievement-driven identity that leaves high earners feeling emotionally broke, these patterns start in childhood. But this isn't about guilt. It's about awareness and making small, intentional shifts. In this episode, you'll hear about: * Why your children learn more from your behaviour than your words * The fear-based and worship-based money lessons we accidentally teach * How phrases like "I want never gets" can shape adult financial decisions * Practical ways to talk about money openly without stress * Teaching delayed gratification and safe decision-making with money * Why presence matters more than presents * Separating love from spending (and the guilt trap for high earners) * The emotional legacy you're leaving your children Today's reflective question: What money belief from my own childhood am I most at risk of accidentally passing on to my children? Chapters 00:00 Modeling financial behavior for kids 04:52 Discussing money and parenting 09:24 Cultural beliefs about money 11:08 Understanding childhood money beliefs 16:15 Teaching kids about finances 18:50 Teaching Kids Financial Discernment 22:57 Teaching kids money lessons 26:41 Teaching kids about money beliefs 29:00 Reflecting on generational money beliefs #BreakingFinancialChains #MoneyMindset #FinancialFreedom #ParentingAndMoney #MoneyBeliefs #FinancialEducation #RaisingKids #MoneyWounds #FinancialLegacy #GenerationalWealth Useful Links Website: www.financialwingwoman.com Email: tanya@financialwingwoman.com LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/financialwingwoman Instagram: www.instagram.com/thefinancialwingwoman Facebook: www.facebook.com/thefinancialwingwoman If this episode brings up difficult feelings, please reach out to appropriate support services in your area. #FinancialAbuse #FinancialFreedom #WomenEmpowerment #MoneyMindset #BreakingFinancialChains #FinancialControl #PersonalStory #PodcastLife #FinancialIndependence #ThinkMedia

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