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Redefining Success: Healing My Inner Child and Saying Yes to My Dreams

28 min · 4. juni 2026
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When you think of the word "nourishment," what comes to mind? Is it the food you eat, the rest you get, or the way you move your body? This month on the podcast, Colleen and Ashlee are diving deep into what it truly means to nourish ourselves. In this special solo episode, Ashlee shares a deeply personal, beautifully unexpected way she recently chose to nourish her own nervous system: by finally saying yes to a dream she’s carried for decades. This episode drops a week before the official launch day of Success Redefined, a co-authored book featuring a chapter written by Ashlee alongside 10 other incredible women. Ashlee pulls back the curtain on the real, raw journey of writing this chapter. From the initial instinct to downplay her achievement and let her inner critic take the wheel, to the profound moment she realized this wasn't just a project—it was an act of profound inner child healing. Ashlee opens up about growing up feeling unsafe around other girls, always choosing to do things entirely alone, and how this book allowed her to finally heal that programming by trusting, sharing, and being cheered on by a community of safe women. In this intimate solo episode, Ashlee shares: * The 30-Year-Old Journal Entry: Looking back at the moment she first admitted she wanted to write a book, and how life and additional responsibilities almost made her bury the dream entirely. * Overcoming the Inner Critic: How she stopped downplaying her success ("it's just a chapter") and shifted her mindset from comparison to pure self-celebration. * Healing Through Sisterhood: Releasing the old programming that women aren't safe, and leaning into the deeply regulating power of female community. * A Sneak Peek Inside: Ashlee reads a few short passages straight from her chapter, sharing the exact ways breathwork changed—and saved—her life from chronic survival mode. Your dreams aren't a burden, and they aren't something to put off until life is "perfect." This episode is your warm invitation to look at what you’ve been denying yourself for decades and finally claim it. If you are ready to stop letting your inner critic run your life, peel back the layers of your own programming, and see what is possible when women lock arms to redefine what success looks like, we want you to read this book. * Purchase Your Copy Today: Support Ashlee and the other incredible co-authors by grabbing your copy right now! [ Purchase Success Redefined Here [https://www.ashleelivingstone.com/product-page]] * Join the Launch Celebration: If you're listening to this before June 11th, Ashlee is stepping onto the stage to celebrate this milestone live. Grab your copy, join the energy, and let's honor our dreams together! [Join Here [https://www.themonarchandco.com/success-redefined-book-launch-party]] Connect with us on Instagram - we love to hear your feedback: ⁠Ashlee⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/ashlee.livingstone/] & ⁠Colleen⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/colleen_mindfullynourished/] And we encourage you to share this with one person you know who could benefit from this conversation.

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