The Modern Motherload

Midlife Career Crisis: What It's Really Like to Change Careers as a Mom

In today's episode, Maggie and Lili talk about what it's really like to change careers as a mom with little kids and busy schedules. We discuss the mental roadblocks that they had to overcome, the logistical details of having childcare coverage and support, and the reality of being back in school and dealing with lost income or societal expectations. This conversation will resonate with you if you've been feeling burned out and considering trying something new.  Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-modern-motherload--6726776/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-modern-motherload--6726776/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss].

Building a Summer We Love

In this episode, we’re talking about the chaos of trying to “settle in” and actually build a life at the same time. From ongoing house projects that are never quite finished, to the mental load of making a home feel functional (and not just lived-in), we’re deep in that stage of life where everything is a work in progress—especially us. We also get into what it really looks like to build community as moms in a new season: connecting with new neighbors, making swim team friends, and reconnecting with old friends to keep our friendships alive. It’s a mix of home life, new routines, and the ongoing attempt to create a sense of belonging in the middle of it all. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-modern-motherload--6726776/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-modern-motherload--6726776/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss].

Can A Cruise Change Your Life? A NurseCon at Sea 2026 Recap

What started as a fun getaway to NurseCon at Sea 2026 turned into something neither of us expected: a decision to change a career path. But before we get into the life-changing part, we have to recap the absolute chaos that got us there including a terrifyingly turbulent landing, struggling to find food after arriving at our hotel exhausted, and Maggie’s suitcase literally breaking mid-trip because apparently the universe wanted to humble us immediately. Once we finally made it onto the ship, though, something shifted. In this episode of The Modern Motherload, we talk about the moments, conversations, and emotions that made Lili seriously consider pursuing a career in nursing in her late 30s. From watching nurses show up for one another to realizing how deeply motherhood has changed what she wants out of life and work, this trip was the tipping point. In this episode we get into:  * The emotional impact of being surrounded by women reinventing themselves * The fear of starting over later in life * Whether this is a passing “vacation high” or a real calling If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s too late to change your life, this episode is for you. Because apparently some people come home from cruises with souvenirs and some come home questioning their entire future. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-modern-motherload--6726776/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-modern-motherload--6726776/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss].

How We Manage the Motherload of Mother's Day

In this episode, we discuss what feels like one of the most loaded holidays: Mother's Day. How do we set clear expectations so that we do not feel disappointed (we've been there!) and what do we do for our own mother's and MILs. We also share some fun facts about the origins of Mother's Day (they may surprise you!) and do a quick this or that quiz. Grab Lili's Google Doc for a wonderful Mother's Day here: Steps for a Perfect Mother's Day [https://docs.google.com/document/u/1/d/1E2q33-ybJOcab1uRaqk_ZdHJG1NbUc4MfoNV_RmOkHo/copy] Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-modern-motherload--6726776/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-modern-motherload--6726776/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss].

What to Expect When You're Expecting... to Raise Kids with A.I.?

Where is the book "What to Expect When You're Expecting...to Raise Kids in an A.I. Era?" I, for one, would like to opt out. But what do you do when you can't just bury your head in the sand and pretend that A.I. an tech will not substantially affect your kids and their childhoods? We dive into this conversation by starting off with a recap of other current events we are having a hard time wrapping our minds around, followed by a history of our own social media/tech/A.I. usage and then what are we doing to put in the safeguards around these advancements when the world has failed to. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-modern-motherload--6726776/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-modern-motherload--6726776/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss].