185. "Am I Enough?"… Compared To What?

9 min · 5. maj 2026

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When you say, “I don’t feel like I’m enough…” …compared to what? Because that feeling is built on standards you didn’t consciously choose. Standards that tell you to be smaller, be better, be more, be different and no matter what you do, it still doesn’t feel like enough. In this episode, I’m breaking down: * why “not enough” is actually a comparison * who you’re really measuring yourself against * and the question that will shift everything for you Because you don’t need to become more to be worthy. You need to question what you’ve been taught “enough” even means. Listen now if you’re ready to stop chasing and start backing yourself. Join the "So Extra Sisterhood" and get your free Unlearn Your Insecurities training here - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/share/g/17qNMd8RWj/?mibextid=wwXIfr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/share/g/17qNMd8RWj/?mibextid=wwXIfr⁠⁠⁠] Stay in the loop here - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/soextra.co⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/soextra.co]

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