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187. The Cycle of Confidence

9 min · 19. maj 2026
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Most women believe confidence comes first. They think only confident people take action but the truth is, people become confident BECAUSE they took action. Confidence is built through evidence. Evidence that you can trust yourself. Evidence that you can follow through. Evidence that you can survive discomfort and still keep moving. Every time you take action scared, you build self trust. And self trust changes the way you see yourself. You stop seeing yourself as someone who hides, waits, and second guesses everything and you start becoming the woman who backs herself. That’s the cycle of confidence. Action → Self trust → Confidence → Bigger action → A bigger life!!! This episode is about understanding how confidence is actually built and why waiting to “feel ready” is keeping so many women stuck. Ready to take action? Join us in the '21 Day Confidence Boost' here - https://elishatamasi.simplero.com/confidence

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