The Story I'm Telling Myself
Who Are You Pretendiing To Be?
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From Overachieving to Authentic Self-Care with Gerri Sapinoso Hudson Grab the complimentary self-reflection guide for this episode. [https://vod.hbportal.co/public/6966ae2985755800334a023c] In this episode of The Story I'm Telling Myself, host Rita sits down with Gerri Sapinoso Hudson, a self-care coach and the founder of Vision Bridge Leadership, to discuss the high cost of the "hyperachiever" lifestyle and the journey to reclaiming personal agency. Gerri shares a vulnerable look at her life as a first-generation Asian American woman navigating the "third culture"—a space pulled between roots and the American dream of academic achievement and corporate success. The Performance of Perfection For decades, Gerri lived by a script of obligation, believing that following the rules and achieving milestones would ultimately lead to happiness. She describes "growing up in corporate America," where she thrived in hierarchical systems by being compliant, respectful of authority, and careful not to take up too much space while making others look amazing. This perfectionism and "automatic pilot" mode created an idyllic-looking life from the outside that masked a lack of true self-knowledge. The 48-Hour Collapse The turning point of Gerri’s story is a harrowing 48-hour window that shattered her sense of safety. On a Tuesday morning, just before leading a corporate team off-site, her husband revealed a long-standing secret addiction. The very next day—her birthday—she learned she was being laid off. This total collapse stripped away the identity she had built around her career and family, forcing her to confront a life without the markers of value she had relied upon for 30 years. Reclaiming the Power to Choose Gerri details her arduous path through recovery, moving from the "victim story" and anger to a realization that she had been choosing to hold on for the wrong reasons. She highlights the transformative power of the proverb "let go or be dragged," emphasizing that true healing began when she reclaimed her power to choose her own path rather than following a predetermined social blueprint. A New Toolkit for Self-Care Moving beyond superficial self-care like "mani-pedis" or spa days, Gerri shares the modalities that provided true nourishment: Intense Exercise: Using CrossFit to process anger and change her physical state. Mindfulness & Meditation: Finding stillness to separate herself from "spinning thoughts". Journaling & Writing: Discovering her voice as an author and published article writer. Community: Reaching out to recovery groups and friends to learn she was not alone in her suffering. Know yourself deeply: Take the time to understand what actually works for you, regardless of societal expectations or social media trends. Healing is a journey, not a destination: It is never too late to start again or try something new. Forgiveness is for you: Choosing to forgive is a path to personal healing and happiness. Key Takeaways for Listeners: Listen now to discover how to find "safety in your own skin" and transition from a life of autopilot to one of radical authenticity. If this story resonates with you, please leave a five-star review and share the episode with a friend who may be struggling with their own "one story" trap. Connect with Gerri [https://bridgetoabetterway.com/] Grab Gerri's gift to you, her 7 day jumpstart [https://7dayjumpstart.blissselfcare.com/freejumpstartdownload]to start your self-care journey. Connect with your host, Rita Ernst [https://www.igniteextraordinary.com/]
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