Measuring Love & Male Delusion (w/ Tracie Thoms)

Sharing Trade (w/ Willam Belli)

Drag queen icon Willam [https://www.instagram.com/willam] (Drag Race S4, host of Race Chasers [https://www.everybodysaymom.com/shows/race-chaser]) returns! She joins Nicole to break down the mathematical formula for the optimal orgy, the proper etiquette for passing good trade around to your drag sisters, and what really goes down inside LA's underground sex dungeons. Willam also reveals her pro tips for scheduling multiple hookups in one night and confesses the absolute kinkiest thing she's ever done. Plus, hear the hot story of how she met her 6'6" lawyer ex-husband at the door of Micky's, why she turned to OnlyFans to pay her two mortgages, and why she simply has to stop hooking up with the contestants on her new dating show, Love's a Drag [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NuyKR7w9Fvs]. Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast] Support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: • Firstleaf [http://TryFirstleaf.com/DATEME]: Get personalized wines, delivered. Head to TryFirstleaf.com/DATEME [http://TryFirstleaf.com/DATEME] to sign up and you'll get 50% off your first box PLUS free shipping for an entire year • Cash App [https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/3v6r90n6]: Download Cash App Today: https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/3v6r90n6 [https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/3v6r90n6] #CashAppPod Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Cash App Visa® Debit Flex Cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC, and The Bancorp Bank, N.A., pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. See terms and conditions for the Sutton prepaid card, Sutton debit flex card, and Bancorp debit flex card. Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures. • Audible [http://audible.com/headswillrollseries]: Listen to Heads Will Roll: Heir Apparent, available now on Audible. Go to Audible.com/headswillrollseries [http://audible.com/headswillrollseries] to start listening today. • Wayfair [http://Wayfair.com]: Ready to upgrade your home for way less? Head to Wayfair.com [http://Wayfair.com] right now to shop all things home and get your space ready for less. Check out all of our sponsors and discount codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors [http://wwydm.notion.site/sponsors]. Follow: All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme [https://linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme] Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken [http://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken] YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast] TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod [https://www.tiktok.com/@whywontyoudatemepod]  Instagram: @nicolebyer [https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/] X: @nicolebyer [https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en] This is a Headgum [https://headgum.com/] podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? [https://gumball.fm/shows/why-wont-you-date-me-with-nicole-byer] via Gumball.fm [http://gumball.fm/]. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

My Career Ruined my Relationships (w/ June Jambalaya)

Drag queen June Jambalaya [https://www.instagram.com/junejambalaya] (Drag Race S14) joins Nicole to discuss hiding her drag career from her dates, being engaged twice, and leaving her fiancé to compete on Drag Race. Plus, Nicole and June discuss the best city to be depressed in, reveal the wildest things they've done to impress a man, and June shares her amazing date after being set up by Kerri Colby. Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast] Support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: • Warby Parker [http://warbyparker.com/DATEME]: Our listeners can buy one prescription pair and get 20% off any additional pairs at WarbyParker.com/DATEME [http://warbyparker.com/DATEME] — and using our link helps support the show. #WarbyParker #ad • Squarespace [http://squarespace.com/DATEME]: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME [http://squarespace.com/DATEME] to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME. • Audible [http://audible.com/headswillrollseries]: Listen to Heads Will Roll: Heir Apparent, available now on Audible. Go to Audible.com/headswillrollseries [http://audible.com/headswillrollseries] to start listening today. • Planned Parenthood [http://plannedparenthood.org/defend]: Donate to support Planned Parenthood now at PlannedParenthood.org/defend [http://plannedparenthood.org/defend] Check out all of our sponsors and discount codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors [http://wwydm.notion.site/sponsors]. Follow: All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme [https://linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme] Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken [http://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken] YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast] TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod [https://www.tiktok.com/@whywontyoudatemepod]  Instagram: @nicolebyer [https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/] X: @nicolebyer [https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en] This is a Headgum [https://headgum.com/] podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? [https://gumball.fm/shows/why-wont-you-date-me-with-nicole-byer] via Gumball.fm [http://gumball.fm/]. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

Hiring a Zoom Stripper (w/ Liza Treyger)

Comedian and friend Liza Treyger [https://www.instagram.com/glittercheese/] (Night Owl [https://www.netflix.com/title/81766092], host of That's Messed Up [https://www.exactlyrightmedia.com/thats-messed-up]) returns to the podcast! She shares her sobering experience hiring a Zoom stripper for a bachelorette party, how Heated Rivalry changed her life, and the struggle of making friends easily while her dating life remains in the dumps. Liza tells the story about how she got scammed by a stylist while making her Netflix special, her goal to quit weed for a relationship, and why she believes it's an actual safety hazard to date a man who isn't completely obsessed with you. Watch Liza's special, Night Owl [https://www.netflix.com/title/81766092] on Netflix. Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast] Support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: • BetterHelp [http://betterhelp.com/dateme]: This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit betterhelp.com/dateme [http://betterhelp.com/dateme] today to get 10% off your first month. • Audible [http://audible.com/headswillrollseries]: Listen to Heads Will Roll: Heir Apparent, available now on Audible. Go to Audible.com/headswillrollseries [http://audible.com/headswillrollseries] to start listening today. Check out all of our sponsors and discount codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors [http://wwydm.notion.site/sponsors]. Follow: All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme [https://linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme] Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken [http://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken] YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast] TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod [https://www.tiktok.com/@whywontyoudatemepod]  Instagram: @nicolebyer [https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/] X: @nicolebyer [https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en] This is a Headgum [https://headgum.com/] podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? [https://gumball.fm/shows/why-wont-you-date-me-with-nicole-byer] via Gumball.fm [http://gumball.fm/]. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

Tossing Shade (w/ Bosco)

Drag queen icon Bosco [https://www.instagram.com/hereisbosco/?hl=en] (Drag Race S14, All Stars S10) makes her return to toss even more shade. She shares why the secret to polished drag is having mean friends, how to filter out dumb men in your dating life, and trades stories with Nicole about their most questionable fashion eras. They also discuss facial feminization surgery (and the boy queens getting it) and why we all need some more razzle dazzle in our lives. Plus, Nicole has become a human white noise machine for the nice man in her life. See Bosco on tour! Get tickets at dragfans.com [https://www.dragfans.com/bosco-tour-2026/]. Buy 2 tickets, get the 3rd free. The whole polycule can come! Check out Bosco's new Magic The Gathering show, Spell Slayers [https://www.youtube.com/@SpellSlayers] on YouTube. Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast] Support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: • Warby Parker [http://WarbyParker.com/DATEME]: Our listeners can buy one prescription pair and get 20% off any additional pairs at WarbyParker.com/DATEME [http://WarbyParker.com/DATEME] — and using our link helps support the show. #WarbyParker #ad • Chime [http://Chime.com/DATEME]: Chime is not just smarter banking, it is the most rewarding way to bank. Join the millions who are already banking fee free today. Head to Chime.com/DATEME [http://Chime.com/DATEME]. • Squarespace [http://squarespace.com/DATEME]: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME [http://squarespace.com/DATEME] to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME. • Audible [http://Audible.com/headswillrollseries]: Listen to Heads Will Roll: Heir Apparent, available now on Audible. Go to Audible.com/headswillrollseries [http://Audible.com/headswillrollseries] to start listening today. Check out all of our sponsors and discount codes at wwydm.notion.site/sponsors [http://wwydm.notion.site/sponsors]. Follow: All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme [https://linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme] Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken [http://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken] YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast] TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod [https://www.tiktok.com/@whywontyoudatemepod]  Instagram: @nicolebyer [https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/] X: @nicolebyer [https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en] This is a Headgum [https://headgum.com/] podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? [https://gumball.fm/shows/why-wont-you-date-me-with-nicole-byer] via Gumball.fm [http://gumball.fm/]. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

Creatively Building a Family (w/ Sabrina Jalees)

Comedian Sabrina Jalees [https://www.instagram.com/sabrinajalees] (Mating Season) returns to the podcast! Sabrina talks about how she and her wife made a family, including picking out a sperm donor and performing a home insemination using a dog catheter. They break down the recent news about websites hosting non-consensual "sleep content" and the terrible networks of men coaching each other on how to assault their partners. Sabrina shares her attempt at a magic trick proposal while her partner dealt with a bathroom emergency, and they discuss: Can 2 butches make a right? Plus, why we need to rethink how we speak about pregnancy loss, and Sabrina makes a strong case for freezing your eggs. Check out Mating Season [https://www.netflix.com/title/81772673] on Netflix. Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast] Support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: • FirstLeaf [http://tryfirstleaf.com/DATEME]: Get personalized wines, delivered. Head to TryFirstleaf.com/DATEME [http://tryfirstleaf.com/DATEME] to sign up and you'll get 50% off your first box PLUS free shipping for an entire year • Cash App [https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/3v6r90n6]: Download Cash App Today: https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/3v6r90n6 [https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/3v6r90n6] #CashAppPod Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. Cash App Visa® Debit Flex Cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC, and The Bancorp Bank, N.A., pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. See terms and conditions for the Sutton prepaid card, Sutton debit flex card, and Bancorp debit flex card. Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures. Follow: All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme [https://linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme] Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken [http://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken] YouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast] TikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod [https://www.tiktok.com/@whywontyoudatemepod]  Instagram: @nicolebyer [https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/] X: @nicolebyer [https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en] This is a Headgum [https://headgum.com/] podcast. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? [https://gumball.fm/shows/why-wont-you-date-me-with-nicole-byer] via Gumball.fm [http://gumball.fm/]. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].