3 girls and a mic

In this episode we cover our experiences pertaining to leaving jobs. If you’ve employed one of us and feel that we were critiquing you, it’s not personal. It is what it is. But also, welcome to your tape 🙂 (13 reasons why reference). Sandra was pet-sitting while we were recording this episode. Apologies for any cats that might be heard meowing in the background.

Inspired by Khadija Mbowe's video analysis of Netflix's The Ultimatum, the girls talk about love and possessiveness, hierarchy within love relationships, how the concept of "the one" stems from a scarcity mindset and much more. Cindy also expounds a little more on relationship anarchy, polyamory and ethical non monogamy. (PS// while editing another episode, Cindy mistakenly tampered with this one and deleted a short segment. A really short one, like 1, maybe 2 seconds. My sincerest apologies) Resources:  You don't own your partners 😗 The Ultimatum, love and possession analyzed by Khadija Mbowe The Ultimatum' & Supported Self-Sabotage by Tee Noir  All About Love by bell hooks Many Love: A Memoir of Polyamory and Finding Love(s) by Sophie Lucido Johnson Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good by by Adrienne Maree Brown.

The girls talk house parties, from the craziest ones they’ve been to, who’s on their guest list, food and drinks, to exist strategies, and so much more!

For this episode, we’re graced by Kesie, an aspiring popstar and a young Kenyan living in Germany, taking on the world one day at a time. We got to interview her and delight in her intelligence. We hope you enjoy this episode as much as we enjoyed recording it. Questions asked: What do you think your life will be like in the future? How would you change the world if you could? If you switched places with your teacher tomorrow, what would you teach the class? If you could set one rule for the family that we all have to follow, what would it be?  What do you feel are the most important things to living a great life? Of all the things you’re learning, what do you think will be most useful as an adult? If you could write a letter to your your future self to know, what would you like to ask/tell them? If you could travel back in time 3 years, what advice would you give yourself?  Do you ever get stressed, what stresses you (if you do) and how does it affect your normal functioning? How’s your relationship with your caregivers, how do you see life and what are you enjoying at the moment? What do you do when you can’t sleep at night?  If you were told you would live forever, what would you change about your life?

We are joined by Tracy Omani [https://instagram.com/tracy_omani?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=], host of kelele za jikoni podcast [https://linktr.ee/Kelelezajikoni] and a fitness enthusiast, as we discuss intentional friendships. We talk about how we show up in friendships, how the ways we show up for ourselves influences our relationships, maintaining friendships on these internet streets, and of course, boundaries “Love as political resistance” in Pleasure Activism by Adrienne Maree Brown “the pleasures of deep, intentional friendships” in Pleasure Activism Liberated relationships in Pleasure Activism A chapter in All About Love, by bell hooks titled community (chapter 8) There were a few audio glitches, please bear with us.