You cannot over-love someone into staying (Polygamist Netflix series reflections)

You cannot over-love someone into staying (Polygamist Netflix series reflections)

Based on the polygamist Netflix series . It reminds us that you cannot over-love someone into staying . Reevaluate how you have shown love , how you receive love and also how hard you have worked to earn love . Our patterns of life experiences also contribute to how we resonate with toxicity from people we choose to have relationships with , whether its family , friends , romantic partners . Through healing you start understanding that it’s okay for people not to choose , but choose you . Love and light 🤍

Not everything is spiritual ,check your nervous system

This episode explores African spirituality, particularly how we often view traumatic life experiences as spiritual lessons rather than mere events requiring healing.

Why do people/adults overshare ?

This episode speaks about adults that over shame. They have not learned thethe necessary boundaries to keep personal intimate information to themselves without asking for external validation. This is at times driven by anxiety to always fill in silent spaces. It is also driven by a desire to connect and be understood. Enjoy love and light

I have never been happy ….

Happiness is not a destination and we loose out on beautiful moments because we are waiting to reach a destination. At times our happiness cups don’t get full because we keep thinking achieving or moving from one thing to another will finally bring us joy . We spend years search for external happiness when we should be looking within and practically learning what makes us happy . Sad moments come but also happy moments . Enjoy Love and light .

What makes people in healthy relationships and marriages stay in them?

This episode is based on healthy relationships and marriages and why people stay in them. It also speaks to common values, principles, long-term goals, realising that your partner is evolving. Long-term marriages and relationships allows for your partner to be imperfect as long as they are not abusive. It is not your partner‘s full responsibility to make you happy. It’s also about consciously making a decision to stay and grow the relationship. It’s about healing your inner wounds so that’s your partner doesn’t have to be responsible for them. Love and lights.