EP.16 EMDR Encore | What to expect during a session

EP.16 EMDR Encore | What to expect during a session

After our first conversation with Alana Trevino about EMDR therapy, one thing became clear… people wanted to know more. * What actually happens during EMDR? * Do you have to relive traumatic events? * What does a session really feel like? * And why are so many first responders finding healing through this process? In this encore episode of Code Forty4, Amy Cortez welcomes Alana Trevino back for a deeper conversation focused specifically on what to expect during EMDR therapy and how it helps the brain and nervous system process trauma in a healthier way. Together, they discuss: * What happens during a typical EMDR session * Whether you have to talk through every traumatic detail * How EMDR helps “unstick” trauma from the nervous system * Why trauma affects the body, emotions, and beliefs * The role of eye movements and bilateral stimulation * Why first responders often suppress trauma to survive the job * How healing can happen without re-traumatization This episode is especially important for: * Law enforcement officers * First responders * Spouses and family members * Anyone carrying unresolved trauma EMDR is not about erasing memories. It’s about helping the brain properly process painful experiences so they no longer control your nervous system, emotions, relationships, or daily life. If you or someone you love has ever been hesitant to seek therapy because of fear, uncertainty, or stigma, this episode offers a real, honest look into what healing can actually look like. 🎧 Not familiar with EMDR? Listen to Episode 9 first with Alana Trevino for a foundational understanding of EMDR. 🎙️ Code Forty4 exists to help first responders and their families recognize, respond, and support mental health before the line breaks. RESOURCES:  Contact Alana Trevino:  https://www.frontlinewellnessllc.com/contact [https://www.frontlinewellnessllc.com/contact] Frontline Wellness: https://www.frontlinewellnessllc.com/ [https://www.frontlinewellnessllc.com/] Find a EMDR specialist in your state:  https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/ [https://www.emdria.org/find-an-emdr-therapist/] #EMDR #FirstResponderMentalHealth #LawEnforcement #TraumaHealing #PTSD #MentalHealthAwareness #CodeForty4 #FirstResponderWellness #EMDRTherapy Chapter:  02:03 - What exactly is EMDR? 04:05 - Does EMDR erase memories? 07:00 - Walking through a typical EMDR session: 09:40 - Can I avoid reliving trauma during therapy? 12:30 - Addressing complex trauma and multiple incidents: 16:00 - How physical sensations manifest during EMDR sessions 20:00 - What does emotional processing look like? 24:00 - The importance of closure and containment in therapy sessions 28:00 - Client control: stopping or pausing EMDR at any moment 33:00 - What to expect after a session: 37:00 - Supporting loved ones after EMDR: respecting their process 42:00 - Quick relief in a single session for specific triggers? 45:00 - Healing versus coping: what does long-term recovery look like? 50:00 - Can EMDR make trauma disappear? 55:00 - EMDR for spouses and children 60:00 - Success stories of transformative healing among first responders 65:00 - Ongoing maintenance and the importance of continued support 68:00 - EMDR as a normal part of mental health care

Ep. 15 Hidden Link Between Vitamin Deficiencies and the Nervous System

What if the mental health struggles many law enforcement officers experience aren’t only psychological — but physiological? In this episode of Code Forty4, Amy Cortez sits down with holistic physician Dr. Heather Heck to explore an often overlooked factor in first responder wellness: nutrition and the body’s ability to recover from chronic stress. First responders are trained to live in constant high alert. But when the nervous system never fully comes out of fight-or-flight mode, the body begins to suffer, burning through critical nutrients, disrupting sleep, and increasing inflammation. Dr. Heck explains how chronic stress can lead to: • Vitamin and nutrient deficiencies • Gut health disruption • Cortisol imbalance • Sleep problems and fatigue • Increased inflammation in the body • Difficulty processing trauma For spouses and families trying to support the first responder they love, this episode offers a new lens: supporting the body may be one of the first steps toward supporting mental health. You’ll also learn practical steps that can make a difference including common deficiencies seen in first responders and simple nutritional strategies that can help the nervous system recover. Because sometimes healing doesn’t start with a major life change. Sometimes it starts with understanding what the body needs to recover. IN THIS EPISODE: • Why chronic stress drains critical nutrients • How gut health affects mood and mental health • The role cortisol plays in stress and recovery • Why vitamin deficiencies are common in first responders • The connection between inflammation and mental health • Simple nutritional steps families can consider Resources:  Connect with Dr. Heather Heck Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drheatherheck/ [https://www.facebook.com/drheatherheck/] Website: www.drheatherheck.com [http://www.drheatherheck.com] Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@drheatherheck [https://www.youtube.com/@drheatherheck] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drheatherheck/ [https://www.instagram.com/drheatherheck/] Chapters 00:00 Introduction – The Hidden Link Between Nutrition and Mental Health 01:22 Meet Dr. Heather Heck 03:30 What Dr. Heck Sees Physically in First Responders 06:00 Why Nutrition Is Often Ignored in Mental Health Conversations 09:00 Chronic Stress and the Body’s Fight-or-Flight Response 12:10 Cortisol, Hypervigilance, and the Nervous System 16:00 The Gut: Your Second Brain 20:00 Common Nutrient Deficiencies in First Responders 23:40 Magnesium and the Body’s Stress Response 27:30 Omega-3s and Brain Health 30:20 Vitamin D and Why Many Officers Are Deficient 33:30 Alcohol, Coping, and Nutrient Depletion 38:30 Small Changes That Can Help the Body Recover 42:00 Practical Nutrition Steps for Families 45:00 Final Thoughts: Healing Starts in the Body 48:00 Prayer and Closing #LawEnforcement #FirstResponderHealth #PoliceMentalHealth #FirstResponderWellness #CodeForty4

EP.14 Why Your L.E.O. Can’t “Just Relax”| And What Actually Helps

Did you know something as simple as breathing can shift your nervous system? NOT YOUR MINDSET. NOT POSITIVE THINKING. YOUR ACTUAL NERVOUS SYSTEM. LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICERS LIVE IN CHRONIC FIGHT-OR-FLIGHT MODE. HYPERVIGILANCE ISN’T OPTIONAL  IT’S REQUIRED FOR SURVIVAL. BUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THAT SYSTEM NEVER RESETS? IN THIS EPISODE OF CODE FORTY4, AMY SITS DOWN WITH CHRISTINA KARKOUTA, FOUNDER OF BREATHLAB, TO UNPACK THE SCIENCE OF FUNCTIONAL BREATHING AND WHY MOST FIRST RESPONDERS DON’T ACTUALLY KNOW HOW TO RECOVER FROM STRESS. IF YOUR SPOUSE: • IS IRRITABLE OR EMOTIONALLY DISTANT • STRUGGLES WITH SLEEP • NUMBS OUT OR SHUTS DOWN • SAYS “I’M FINE” BUT FEELS OFF THIS CONVERSATION IS FOR YOU. CHRISTINA EXPLAINS: • WHAT CHRONIC STRESS DOES TO THE BODY • WHY “JUST TAKE A DEEP BREATH” DOESN’T WORK • HOW DYSFUNCTIONAL BREATHING FEEDS ANXIETY • THE CONNECTION BETWEEN BREATHING AND HEART RATE REGULATION • HOW BREATH RETRAINS THE NERVOUS SYSTEM • A PRACTICAL BREATHING RESET YOU CAN TRY IMMEDIATELY BREATHWORK IS NOT THERAPY. IT’S NOT “WOO WOO.” IT’S PHYSIOLOGY. AND FOR OFFICERS WHO AREN’T READY FOR COUNSELING YET, THIS MAY BE A SAFE FIRST STEP. IF YOU’RE A SPOUSE LISTENING AND THINKING, “THIS SOUNDS FAMILIAR…” YOU ARE NOT IMAGINING IT. AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE. ---------------------------------------- 🔹 ABOUT CODE FORTY4 CODE FORTY4 EXISTS TO HELP LAW ENFORCEMENT FAMILIES: RECOGNIZE. RESPOND. SUPPORT. BEFORE THE LINE BREAKS. ---------------------------------------- 🔹 RESOURCES LEARN MORE ABOUT CHRISTINA & BREATHLAB:  Christina Karkouta Founder, Breathing Instructor Breath Lab | Strength in Every Exhale www.breathlabhq.com [http://www.breathlabhq.com] IG: @christinakarkouta [https://www.instagram.com/christinakarkouta] Email Christina: christina@breathlabhq.com [christina@breathlabhq.com] BONUS: 7 Day Free Trial - https://www.breathlabhq.com/ [https://www.breathlabhq.com/] Scroll down and look for "Stop the Scroll and Breath" section IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU LOVE IS IN CRISIS, PLEASE CALL OR TEXT 988 (U.S.) FOR IMMEDIATE SUPPORT. Chapters: 00:00 – WHY BREATHING MATTERS FOR LAW ENFORCEMENT FAMILIES 01:13 – CHRISTINA’S STORY: FROM ANXIETY TO BREATHLAB 06:18 – WHAT CHRONIC HYPERVIGILANCE DOES TO THE BODY 10:00 – THE NERVOUS SYSTEM EXPLAINED (IN REAL LIFE TERMS) 15:00 – “JUST TAKE A DEEP BREATH” – WHY THAT ADVICE FAILS 18:30 – THE SCIENCE: DIAPHRAGM, HEART RATE & STRESS RESPONSE 22:00 – Rewiring the Stress Loop 24:45 – Guided Breathing Exercise (Follow Along) 35:30 – ALIGN, RESET AND TRANSFORM: A BREATHING METHODOLOGY 38:30 – FINAL ENCOURAGEMENT FOR SPOUSES

EP.12 What Suicide Teaches Us About Prevention

Today’s episode is not about headlines,  It’s not about statistics. It’s about the quiet moments at home. The subtle shifts. The silence we feel but can’t quite name. In this deeply vulnerable conversation, I sit down with Anna Ulinski, a law enforcement spouse who lost her husband, Ohio State Highway Patrol Sergeant Jared Ulinski, to suicide nearly five years ago. Anna is not a clinician. She is not an expert. She is a wife. A mother. A widow. And she is choosing to speak so that other families might not have to learn this the hard way IN THIS EPISODE WE DISCUSS: * The subtle behavioral shifts that are easy to dismiss * Silence and emotional withdrawal at home * Drinking patterns that slowly increase * Guilt carried by suicide widows * Why “He would never do that” can become a dangerous assumption * How stigma keeps officers silent * How spouses can speak up without shame * What prevention actually looks like in real life * At Code Forty4, we believe prevention begins at home. Recognize. Respond. Support……. Before the line breaks. If you are listening and thinking, “This feels familiar…” You are not overreacting, you are not imagining things, And you are not alone! If you or someone you love is struggling, help is available through the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline or local first responder wellness resources. Chapters 00:00 – A Difficult but Necessary Conversation 03:00 – Meet Anna: Life Before Everything Changed 07:00 – “It’s Just Part of the Job” 11:00 – The Drinking Shift 12:43 – The Silence at Home 20:11 – The Comment by the Pool 22:30 – The Day Everything Changed 24:40 – Suicide Is Not Weakness 30:05 – Speaking Up Without Betrayal 38:55 – If You’re Listening and It Feels Familiar #suicideawareness #lawenforcementfamilies #breakthestigma #mentalhealthmatters #codeforty4podcast

EP.11 A Bridge Between Health and Home

In this episode, Amy Cortez interviews Mick Yinger, a retired police officer and co-founder of First Responders Bridge, a nonprofit organization dedicated to supporting the mental health of first responders and their families. Mick shares his personal journey, the motivation behind starting the organization, and the structure of their retreats designed to provide a safe space for healing and connection. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community, the role of spouses, and the ongoing support available through the Healing Bridge program. Real stories of transformation highlight the impact of these initiatives, while addressing the stigma surrounding mental health in the first responder community. Takeaways * The organization focuses on mental health support for first responders and their families. * Spouses play a crucial role in the healing process of first responders. * The retreats aim to create a safe and confidential environment for attendees. * 85% of first responders experience mental health issues, highlighting the need for support. * The Healing Bridge program offers six free counseling sessions post-retreat. * Community and connection are vital for healing in the first responder community. * Stigma around mental health can prevent individuals from seeking help. * Real stories of transformation demonstrate the effectiveness of the retreats. * The organization is committed to providing resources without financial barriers. View Agenda and Register for First Responders Bridge: https://firstrespondersbridge.org/ [https://firstrespondersbridge.org/] Contact Mick: https://firstrespondersbridge.org/contact/ [https://firstrespondersbridge.org/contact/] Chapters 00:00 Introduction to First Responders Bridge 04:38 Mick's Personal Journey and Motivation 06:50 Understanding Mental Health in First Responders 09:11 The Role of Spouses and Significant Others 11:38 Structure and Goals of the Retreats 14:06 The Environment and Experience at the Retreats 16:41 Addressing Stigma and Awareness 19:34 Cost and Accessibility of the Program 25:05 The Importance of Confidentiality in Support 28:36 Creating a Safe Space for First Responders 30:55 Introducing Healing Bridge: Ongoing Support 33:47 Real Stories of Transformation