The Cari Farver Case and the Twists that Just Kept Coming

The Cari Farver Case and the Twists that Just Kept Coming

One bad date. One missing woman. Thousands of terrifying messages. When 37-year-old Cari Farver disappeared after spending the weekend with a man she'd just started dating, everyone believed she had simply become an obsessive ex-girlfriend. For years, friends, family, and investigators received bizarre texts, emails, and Facebook messages that appeared to come directly from Cari. She seemed determined to make everyone's lives miserable. But nothing was what it seemed. In this episode, we unravel one of the most unbelievable true crime cases in recent history—a story filled with deception, manipulation, digital evidence, and a killer who hid in plain sight. ⚠️ Content Warning This episode contains discussions of murder, stalking, domestic violence, arson, psychological abuse, and harassment. 🕵️ What We Cover • The seemingly casual relationships that derailed out of control • The years of relentless texts and emails that convinced everyone Cari had become obsessed • The investigation that kept hitting dead ends • The digital forensic evidence that changed everything • The shocking truth investigators eventually uncovered • The trial and conviction that finally brought justice 💬 Join the Conversation Do you think you would have figured out what was really happening before investigators did? Or did this case completely fool you? Let us know your thoughts—we'd love to hear them. 📚 Sources ABC News. (2017, September 22). 2 women dating the same man cross paths, sparking a web of deceit and murder: Part 1 [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9OnC8sBAJP0 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9OnC8sBAJP0] Associated Press. (2017, August 15). Iowa woman gets life sentence in Omaha cold case killing. https://apnews.com/ef7c4e0f71f24efc89813337e2dca889 [https://apnews.com/ef7c4e0f71f24efc89813337e2dca889] Butterfield, M. (2024, February 16). 'Lover, Stalker, Killer': Disturbing love triangle turned deadly hits Netflix. Global News. https://globalnews.ca/news/10297718/lover-stalker-killer-netflix-documentary-liz-golyar-dave-kroupa-cari-farver/ [https://globalnews.ca/news/10297718/lover-stalker-killer-netflix-documentary-liz-golyar-dave-kroupa-cari-farver/] Forensic Analysis of the Cari Farver Homicide: Digital Impersonation, Behavioral Pathology, and Cyber-Forensics. (n.d.). [Document]. Rule, L. (2020). A Tangled Web: A cyberstalker, a deadly obsession, and the twisting path to justice. Citadel Press. State v. Golyar, No. S-17-955 (Neb. 2018). https://caselaw.findlaw.com/court/ne-supreme-court/1962008.html [https://caselaw.findlaw.com/court/ne-supreme-court/1962008.html] ☕ Support the Show If you’re enjoying Crime Chats and want to support more deep dives like this: * Share this episode with someone who would find it interesting * Buy our merch on Amazon! * Follow/subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next * https://streamelements.com/crime-chats/tip [https://streamelements.com/crime-chats/tip] * buymeacoffee.com/crimechats [http://buymeacoffee.com/crimechats]

The Fall of Ted Bundy (Part 4 of a 4-Part Series)

This final chapter sees Ted Bundy coming unglued. His violence ramps up but, he also starts to make big mistakes. On this episode, we follow Ted from Chi Omega to the grave. 📚 Sources Bundy v. State. (n.d.). Justia Law. Retrieved June 22, 2026, from https://law.justia.com/cases/florida/supreme-court/1985/59128-0.html [https://law.justia.com/cases/florida/supreme-court/1985/59128-0.html] Carol DaRonch. (2022, July 11). Various clips Ted Bundy at Kimberly Leach trial. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ifh46-oodP8 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ifh46-oodP8] Crime Feed. (2015, June 18). 10 Dark and twisted confessions from Ted Bundy. The Lineup. https://the-line-up.com/10-dark-and-twisted-confessions-from-ted-bundy [https://the-line-up.com/10-dark-and-twisted-confessions-from-ted-bundy] Jeca Taudte, Gowen, G., & Francis, E. (2019, February 13). Chi Omega survivor of Ted Bundy murders: “I was asleep” when evil opened door “and attacked me.” ABC News. https://abcnews.com/US/chi-omega-survivor-ted-bundy-murders-asleep-evil/story?id=60894306 [https://abcnews.com/US/chi-omega-survivor-ted-bundy-murders-asleep-evil/story?id=60894306] Jenephyr, J. (2024). Ted Bundy | EBSCO. EBSCO Information Services, Inc. https://www.ebsco.com/research-starters/history/ted-bundy [https://www.ebsco.com/research-starters/history/ted-bundy] Ortman, K. (2021, November 9). Episode 84: Cheryl Thomas, Ted Bundy survivor. Nyu.edu [http://Nyu.edu]. https://www.nyu.edu/life/safety-health-wellness/campus-safety/you-matter--podcast/episodes/episode-84--cheryl-thomas--ted-bundy-survivor.html?challenge=d06e90d7-4d8f-4b88-9d8c-10b73beb60f1 [https://www.nyu.edu/life/safety-health-wellness/campus-safety/you-matter--podcast/episodes/episode-84--cheryl-thomas--ted-bundy-survivor.html?challenge=d06e90d7-4d8f-4b88-9d8c-10b73beb60f1] PhD, A. K. (2020, September 11). Dr. James Dobson’s apologia for Ted Bundy: How evangelical Christianity became a safe space for…. Medium. https://austinkocher.medium.com/dr-james-dobsons-apologia-for-ted-bundy-how-an-evangelical-christianity-became-a-safe-space-for-e68ab401285 [https://austinkocher.medium.com/dr-james-dobsons-apologia-for-ted-bundy-how-an-evangelical-christianity-became-a-safe-space-for-e68ab401285] Ted Bundy: A Killer in the Archives. (2022, September 6). Ted Bundy’s closing statement in the Kimberly Leach trial; Feb. 12, 1980. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BrkCVshzKEg [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BrkCVshzKEg] Vasilinda, M. (2019, July 26). Federal government resumes death penalty one day after the 40th anniversary of Ted Bundy’s sentencing. Https://Www.wjhg.com [Https://Www.wjhg.com]; WJHG. https://www.wjhg.com/content/news/Federal-Government-Resumes-Death-Penalty-One-Day-After-the-40th-Anniversary-of-Ted-Bundys-Sentencing-513267771.html [https://www.wjhg.com/content/news/Federal-Government-Resumes-Death-Penalty-One-Day-After-the-40th-Anniversary-of-Ted-Bundys-Sentencing-513267771.html]

The Hunt for Ted Bundy (Part 3 of a 4-Part Series)

In Part 3 of our Ted Bundy deep dive, we turn back the clock a bit to his time as a law student in Utah who enjoyed the occasional winter break trip to Colorado. We see him back at his old tricks, making women disappear, in a new locale. We'll discuss the murders in Colorado, how they were finally linked to the monster, how he was caught, and how he escaped justice TWICE. What should have been the end of one of America's most prolific serial killers instead became the beginning of a nationwide manhunt. 🔎 What We Cover * The Colorado murders * Ted Bundy's extradition from Utah to answer for his violent crimes * His first escape through a jail library window * His second escape through a hole in the ceiling of his cell * His insistence on being his own defense team 🧠 Key Discussion Points * How, how, how was this man able to escape law enforcement's clutches two times * The sad truth about adults that go missing 📚 Sources Caroline. (2019, March 26). “The very definition of heartless evil”: Ted Bundy in Colorado. Denver Public Library Special Collections and Archives. Colorado Bureau of Investigation. (2026). Denise Lynn Oliverson (Agency Case #: 75-01585). Colorado Cold Case Files. Colorado Bureau of Investigation. (2026). Julie L. Cunningham (Agency Case #: 75-0806). Colorado Cold Case Files. Gnech, C. (2023, May 5). Serial killer Ted Bundy – Part 3: His first escape from prison. Gnech & Associates. Gnech, C. (2023, May). Serial killer Ted Bundy – Part 4: His second escape from prison. Gnech & Associates. Iversen, K. (2018, March 5). When death came to Golden. The American Scholar. Ott, T. (2021, August 12). Ted Bundy killings: A timeline of his twisted reign of terror. bio. (Biography). ☕ Support the Show If you’re enjoying Crime Chats and want to support more deep dives like this: * Share this episode with someone who would find it interesting * Buy our merch on Amazon! * Follow/subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next * https://streamelements.com/crime-chats/tip [https://streamelements.com/crime-chats/tip] * buymeacoffee.com/crimechats [http://buymeacoffee.com/crimechats]

The Rise of Ted Bundy (Part 2 of a 4-Part Series)

In Part 2 of our four-part Ted Bundy series, we move from the making of Ted Bundy to the beginning of his deadly criminal career. We examine the disappearance of his first known victims in the Pacific Northwest, the terrifying escalation of his violence, and the investigation that slowly began to close in on one of America's most notorious serial killers. This episode covers the disappearances and murders of several young women, the growing list of witness accounts involving a charming man named "Ted," and the critical mistakes that eventually led to Bundy's first arrest. 🔎 What We Cover * Ted Bundy's first victims in Washington and Utah * His MO and terrifying escalation of violence * The divine intervention that finally got him behind bars for the first time 📚 Sources Carol DaRonch. (2024, November 3). 1974 Search for Ted Bundy Lake Sammamish victims Denise Naslund Janice Ott. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-A9Nz9L0LKw [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-A9Nz9L0LKw] Davies, A. (2019). The Ted Bundy Tapes: Who is Ted Bundy’s girlfriend Diane Edwards? In express.co.uk [http://express.co.uk]. https://www.express.co.uk/showbiz/tv-radio/1078851/Ted-Bunny-tapes-who-is-girlfriend-Diane-Edwards-conversations-with-a-killer-netflix [https://www.express.co.uk/showbiz/tv-radio/1078851/Ted-Bunny-tapes-who-is-girlfriend-Diane-Edwards-conversations-with-a-killer-netflix] Jean, T. (2020, July 1). Taylor Mountain, 1975. Killer in the Archives. https://killerinthearchives.blog/files-taylor-mountain-1975/ [https://killerinthearchives.blog/files-taylor-mountain-1975/] Press, A. (2000, August 20). Officer recalls Bundy’s ’75 capture. Deseret News. https://www.deseret.com/2000/8/20/19524726/officer-recalls-bundy-s-75-capture/ [https://www.deseret.com/2000/8/20/19524726/officer-recalls-bundy-s-75-capture/] Ted Bundy’s car. (2010, July 30). Flickr; Ted Bundy’s car | Trust me, this is NOT "Herbie, the Love … | Flickr. https://www.flickr.com/photos/greyloch/4842459860/# [https://www.flickr.com/photos/greyloch/4842459860/#] Van Sambeck, B. (2021, April 12). Bite marks and prison escapes — What led to the capture and conviction of Ted Bundy. Oxygen Official Site. https://www.oxygen.com/crime-news/ted-bundy-how-he-was-caught-crucial-evidence [https://www.oxygen.com/crime-news/ted-bundy-how-he-was-caught-crucial-evidence] Whyman, T. (2019, February 5). The myth of Ted Bundy as a charming guy. The Outline. https://theoutline.com/post/7043/ted-bundy-netflix-efron-handsome [https://theoutline.com/post/7043/ted-bundy-netflix-efron-handsome] ☕ Support the Show If you’re enjoying Crime Chats and want to support more deep dives like this: * Share this episode with someone who would find it interesting * Follow/subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next * https://streamelements.com/crime-chats/tip [https://streamelements.com/crime-chats/tip] * buymeacoffee.com/crimechats [http://buymeacoffee.com/crimechats]

The Making of Ted Bundy (Part 1 of a 4-Part Series)

In Part 1 of our Ted Bundy Deep Dive, we're going all the way back to the beginning. Before the infamous murders, media frenzy, and courtroom spectacles, there was a young man whose early life has been scrutinized for decades in an attempt to understand how one of America's most notorious serial killers came to be. In this episode, we explore Ted Bundy's childhood, complicated family history, schooling, early relationships, and the warning signs that appeared long before his crimes became public knowledge. We discuss the circumstances surrounding his birth, the confusion about his parentage, his upbringing in the Pacific Northwest, his academic journey through college and law school, and the significant romantic relationships that shaped his young adult years. While no single event can explain the horrific crimes Bundy would later commit, examining his early life helps provide important context for understanding the man behind the headlines. 🔍 What We Cover * Ted Bundy's birth and early family circumstances * His relationship with his mother and grandparents * Childhood behaviors that, in hindsight, were definite warning signs * Bundy's move from Vermont to Washington * His experiences in school and college * His enrollment in law school * "Stephanie Brooks" and their influential relationship * Elizabeth Kendall, the single mother who became Bundy's long-time girlfriend 💭 Key Discussion Points * Whether childhood "warning signs" can reliably predict future violence (Hilary shares an anecdote from her time as a middle school teacher) * How Bundy carefully cultivated a public image of success and normalcy * The impact his romantic relationships may have had on his self-image * The contrast between Bundy's outward appearance and his hidden behavior 📚 Sources Another Bundy Blog. (2025, May 7). Ted Bundy, School Related Information. Daimee, A. (n.d.). Ted Bundy. Smore Newsletters. Dash Hrecos Org. (2026). Ted Bundy Early Childhood: The Foundations of a Notorious Life. Kettler, S. (2025, November 24). How Ted Bundy's Education Facilitated His Career as a Serial Killer. Biography. Kulkarni, B., & Singh, S. (n.d.). TED BUNDY: BORN CONGENITAL OR ALTERED BY ENVIRONMENT. International Journal of Creative Research Thoughts (IJCRT). LawBirdie. (2025, February 2). The Ted Bundy Case Study in Criminal Psychology. Nixon, C. (2025, August 19). Ted Bundy and the History of The Elizabeth Lund Home. Iconic Magazine Online. PaperHelp. (n.d.). Ted Bundy Biography: Upbringing and Unraveling. A Study of Motivation. PapersOwl. (2024, June 17). The Formative Years of Ted Bundy: Analyzing the Early Influences on a Notorious Serial Killer. Rorke, R. (2020, January 24). ‘Ted Bundy: Falling for a Killer’: Ex-girlfriend opens up in documentary. New York Post. ☕ Support the Show If you’re enjoying Crime Chats and want to support more deep dives like this: * Share this episode with someone who would find it interesting * Follow/subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next * Check out our Crime Chats merch on Amazon! * https://streamelements.com/crime-chats/tip [https://streamelements.com/crime-chats/tip] * buymeacoffee.com/crimechats [http://buymeacoffee.com/crimechats]