What The System Calls “Normal”

What The System Calls “Normal”

Family law attorney David Pissara joins Deadbeat Dad by Design for a powerful conversation about fathers fighting to stay present in their children’s lives, the realities of family court, and the tools dads need when they are walking through the trenches. We also talk about his book, Dad’s Child Custody Action Plan, and why it can be such an important resource for fathers trying to understand their next steps.

The Parent That Did Everything Right And Still Lost

A raw conversation about the parent who followed the rules, showed up, stayed quiet, paid the price — and still got pushed out. This one is for every parent who did everything they were told to do… and still lost time they can never get back. Deadbeat Dad by Design Subscribe, share, and join the conversation.

Advocating For Fathers in a System That Pushes Back

What’s it really like to speak up for fathers… as a mom? In Episode 17, Rachel sits down with Lauren “The Dadvocate” to talk about the reality behind the labels, backlash, and constant pushback that comes with advocating for dads in today’s system. From being called names to being dismissed entirely, they break down why this fight matters—and why they refuse to stay quiet. This conversation is raw, honest, and one a lot of people aren’t ready to have… but need to hear.

The Myth of the “Best Interest” Standard

Is it really about the “best interest” of the child… or something else? In Episode 16 of Deadbeat Dad by Design, we break down the history of the “best interest” standard—where it started, how it’s being used today, and where it may have gone wrong. This episode brings real insight, real questions, and a perspective you won’t hear everywhere.

The Court Rewards Compliance Not the Truth

What if the system isn’t built to find the truth… but to control behavior? In this episode of Deadbeat Dad by Design, we break down how family court often rewards silence, compliance, and appearance over facts and reality. If you’ve ever felt like telling the truth wasn’t enough—this one’s for you. Featuring special guest Zac Martin, creator of Kids Deserve Dads Real talk. Real experiences. Real impact.