What Real Leadership Looks Like Behind the Title | S2023

What Real Leadership Looks Like Behind the Title | S2023

What happens when your entire life gets packed into a duffel bag and sent across an ocean at 17 years old? In this conversation, I sit down with Billy Ekofo, Vice President of Global Growth and Member Success at Leading Real Estate Companies of the World, to explore a story that starts with political upheaval in the Democratic Republic of the Congo and unfolds into a powerful lesson about human connection, trust, and service. Billy shares how being evacuated from his home, learning English from scratch, and navigating life in a new country taught him the value of accepting help from others. We talk about compassion, mentorship, leadership, and why the people who believe in us often change the course of our lives. This conversation is a reminder that success is rarely a solo journey. The breakthroughs that shape us often come through the kindness, courage, and belief of other people. Key Takeaways: · Why accepting help is often the fastest path through life's biggest barriers. · How challenging your assumptions can completely change the way you see people and opportunities. · What great leaders do differently when they genuinely care about the people they serve. · How small moments of intentional connection can create lifelong impact. · Why the future belongs to people who use technology to strengthen human relationships, not replace them. About Guest: Billy Ekofo, MA, MBA Vice President | Global Growth & Member Success Leading Real Estate Companies of the World® You can follow him @billyekofo on his social channels. About Rebecca: In 2008, I blew up my life in spectacular fashion. I left a cult, got divorced, and for a time, lost even the few people I had leaned on. I thought greener grasses awaited me. I was wrong. Despite building a wildly successful digital marketing business, remarrying and growing my family to four kids, I felt nothing but dread each morning. Then came what I now call Epiphany Town. It was that electric moment when I stopped defining my life by what happened to me and began building on purpose. That phase lit me up in a way I had never felt. Now I devote every ounce of my energy to guiding others through their own version of Epiphany Town. I help them find the barriers that are actually holding them back, finally let go of self-sabotaging stories, and leap into a life that is meaningful and deeply fulfilling. I believe each of us has a story to tell, a gift to offer, and a life worth waking up for. Whether your goal is to impact one person or a million, I am here to help you see your place, claim your voice, and live your life on your terms. https://rebeccamountain.ca/ [https://rebeccamountain.ca/] Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

How to Keep Going When You Feel Like Giving Up | S2022

There’s a moment most people hit when life keeps punching and nothing seems to be working anymore. You’ve been grinding for months, maybe years, and suddenly your brain starts whispering, “Maybe I’m the problem.” I wanted to talk about that moment because I see too many talented people quit right before things start turning around again. The market shifts. Relationships get hard. Business slows down. And if we’re not careful, we start making external struggles deeply personal. That’s where people lose their momentum, their confidence, and eventually their ability to keep moving. In this episode, I break down four simple strategies that help you keep going when your motivation starts falling apart. I talk about shifting from achieving to becoming, why breaking goals into tiny “I can do that” steps changes everything, how the stories you tell yourself can either fuel you or destroy you, and why tracking actions instead of outcomes puts your power back in your own hands. I also share personal stories from launching a business during the pandemic, the danger of waiting to “feel ready,” and why motivation only shows up after movement starts. If you’ve been feeling exhausted, discouraged, or close to giving up, this one is for you. Key Takeaways: · Learn how to stop tying your self-worth to external results and bring your focus back to what you can control. · Discover why “becoming” creates stronger long-term motivation than chasing achievements alone. · Understand how breaking overwhelming goals into tiny actions helps rebuild momentum fast. · Hear why most people quit right before things shift and how to avoid becoming one of them. · Find out how tracking actions instead of outcomes creates confidence, consistency, and resilience. About Rebecca: In 2008, I blew up my life in spectacular fashion. I left a cult, got divorced, and for a time, lost even the few people I had leaned on. I thought greener grasses awaited me. I was wrong. Despite building a wildly successful digital marketing business, remarrying and growing my family to four kids, I felt nothing but dread each morning. Then came what I now call Epiphany Town. It was that electric moment when I stopped defining my life by what happened to me and began building on purpose. That phase lit me up in a way I had never felt. Now I devote every ounce of my energy to guiding others through their own version of Epiphany Town. I help them find the barriers that are actually holding them back, finally let go of self-sabotaging stories, and leap into a life that is meaningful and deeply fulfilling. I believe each of us has a story to tell, a gift to offer, and a life worth waking up for. Whether your goal is to impact one person or a million, I am here to help you see your place, claim your voice, and live your life on your terms. https://rebeccamountain.ca/ [https://rebeccamountain.ca/] Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts

The Stories We Tell Ourselves | S2021

We all have stories we tell ourselves that sound harmless on the surface. “I work better under pressure.” “I’ll start Monday.” “This is just who I am.” But those stories quietly become prisons. In this solo episode, I pull apart the blind spots and self-sabotaging patterns that keep high performers stuck, stressed, and spinning their wheels. I share why smart, capable people are often the hardest to help because they’ve become masters at justifying avoidance while calling it productivity. I walk through the trigger-behavior-reward loop that drives procrastination, perfectionism, doom scrolling, binge watching, overworking, and control issues. I also unpack why willpower usually fails and why curiosity works better when it comes to breaking habits that no longer serve you. From the RAIN process to the hidden cost of “one more hour won’t hurt,” this conversation is about learning to face the uncomfortable truth underneath your habits so you can finally stop bulldozing your way through life and start moving with less friction, more awareness, and a hell of a lot more freedom. Key Takeaways: · Learn why procrastination and self-sabotage are often protection mechanisms, not laziness. · Discover the hidden reward loops driving habits like doom scrolling, overworking, and avoidance. · Understand why high performers and entrepreneurs are especially vulnerable to blind spots. · Hear how the RAIN process helps break destructive patterns without relying on willpower. · Explore the stories you repeat that may be quietly limiting your growth, relationships, and success. About Rebecca: In 2008, I blew up my life in spectacular fashion. I left a cult, got divorced, and for a time, lost even the few people I had leaned on. I thought greener grasses awaited me. I was wrong. Despite building a wildly successful digital marketing business, remarrying and growing my family to four kids, I felt nothing but dread each morning. Then came what I now call Epiphany Town. It was that electric moment when I stopped defining my life by what happened to me and began building on purpose. That phase lit me up in a way I had never felt. Now I devote every ounce of my energy to guiding others through their own version of Epiphany Town. I help them find the barriers that are actually holding them back, finally let go of self-sabotaging stories, and leap into a life that is meaningful and deeply fulfilling. I believe each of us has a story to tell, a gift to offer, and a life worth waking up for. Whether your goal is to impact one person or a million, I am here to help you see your place, claim your voice, and live your life on your terms. https://rebeccamountain.ca/ [https://rebeccamountain.ca/] Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

The Reason You’re Still Stuck (And Why You Can’t See It) | S2020

There’s a ceiling most high performers never see… and I’ll tell you right now, it’s not about skill, strategy, or motivation. It’s about the stories you’re telling yourself that feel so true you don’t even question them. I’ve lived this. I’ve held onto things, justified them, and watched them quietly shape my results without realizing it. The uncomfortable truth is that the smarter you are, the better you get at hiding your own blind spots. In this conversation, I walk you through how these invisible patterns form, why your brain protects them, and how they quietly keep you stuck at the same level. We talk about the “invisible ceiling” that shows up when you’re working harder but not getting better results, and why effort, information, and willpower won’t fix it. If you’ve ever said “that’s just who I am,” this is your wake-up call. You don’t have a motivation problem. You have a visibility problem. And once you see the pattern, everything can change. Key Takeaways: * You don’t have a motivation or strategy problem. You have a visibility problem, and until you see the pattern, nothing changes. * The smarter you are, the easier it is to justify the behaviors that are actually holding you back. * Your brain protects patterns by giving you reasons that sound logical, even when they’re costing you growth. * If you keep getting the same results, it’s not bad luck. It’s a pattern you haven’t identified yet. * You can’t fix what you can’t see, which is why outside perspective is often the fastest path to a breakthrough. About Rebecca: In 2008, I blew up my life in spectacular fashion. I left a cult, got divorced, and for a time, lost even the few people I had leaned on. I thought greener grasses awaited me. I was wrong. Despite building a wildly successful digital marketing business, remarrying and growing my family to four kids, I felt nothing but dread each morning. Then came what I now call Epiphany Town. It was that electric moment when I stopped defining my life by what happened to me and began building on purpose. That phase lit me up in a way I had never felt. Now I devote every ounce of my energy to guiding others through their own version of Epiphany Town. I help them find the barriers that are actually holding them back, finally let go of self-sabotaging stories, and leap into a life that is meaningful and deeply fulfilling. I believe each of us has a story to tell, a gift to offer, and a life worth waking up for. Whether your goal is to impact one person or a million, I am here to help you see your place, claim your voice, and live your life on your terms. https://rebeccamountain.ca/ [https://rebeccamountain.ca/] Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.

Productive Procrastination: Why Staying Busy Is Keeping You Stuck | S2019

You’re not behind. You’re just really good at staying busy. I see this all the time with high performers. Your calendar is full. Your inbox is clean. You’re checking boxes all day long. And yet… nothing meaningful is actually moving forward. That’s productive procrastination. It looks like progress on the surface, but underneath, it’s avoidance. Your brain is trying to keep you safe from risk, judgment, and failure. So it keeps you busy instead of moving you forward. What changed everything for me and my clients is learning how to catch the pattern and break it. First, you build awareness of what you’re doing instead of the real work. Then you strip things down to one small, clear action and remove decision-making entirely. No guessing. No overwhelm. Just one task. When you do this consistently, the noise quiets down, the fear loses its grip, and you start building real momentum again. That’s how you get back to the version of you that actually gets results. Key Takeaways: · Why staying busy can secretly keep you stuck · How your brain turns growth into perceived danger · The hidden loop between avoidance and shame · What your “go-to distraction” reveals about your fear · How to break big goals into simple daily actions About Rebecca: In 2008, I blew up my life in spectacular fashion. I left a cult, got divorced, and for a time, lost even the few people I had leaned on. I thought greener grasses awaited me. I was wrong. Despite building a wildly successful digital marketing business, remarrying and growing my family to four kids, I felt nothing but dread each morning. Then came what I now call Epiphany Town. It was that electric moment when I stopped defining my life by what happened to me and began building on purpose. That phase lit me up in a way I had never felt. Now I devote every ounce of my energy to guiding others through their own version of Epiphany Town. I help them find the barriers that are actually holding them back, finally let go of self-sabotaging stories, and leap into a life that is meaningful and deeply fulfilling. I believe each of us has a story to tell, a gift to offer, and a life worth waking up for. Whether your goal is to impact one person or a million, I am here to help you see your place, claim your voice, and live your life on your terms. https://rebeccamountain.ca/ [https://rebeccamountain.ca/] Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you are enjoying the show, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts.