Girl Stop Talking

HACK The Patriarchy Ft. The Baddest B*tch in the Building with Neeki Motabar

I’m joined by the one and only Neeki Motabar, host of The Baddest B*** in the Building Podcast*, and we’re diving deep into the world of dating power plays — from singles who are in their soft girl but strategic era, to the girlies navigating long-term relationships and learning how to keep the balance of love and leverage.Neeki shares how she reimagined The 48 Laws of Power into her own 28 Girly Laws of Power — rules every woman should know to date smarter, lead with confidence, and challenge the patriarchy without ever breaking a sweat.We’re talking attraction, energy shifts, emotional control, and how to hold your power in any dating scenario — whether you’re out here playing the field or building an empire with your partner.So grab your drink, adjust your crown, and let’s learn how to be The Baddest B*** in the Building*… one power move at a time.Find Us HERE:https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/ [https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/]https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/ [https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/]https://www.youtube.com/@baddestBinthebldg [https://www.youtube.com/@baddestBinthebldg]

Compartmentalize Your Friends

This week’s episode is all about friendships, boundaries, and showing up with grace.I’m diving into the art of compartmentalizing friendships — because let’s be honest, not every friend plays the same role in our lives (and that’s totally okay). From The Therapist, The Party Starter, The Planner, The Ghost Texter, The Drama Magnet, to The Mom Friend — we all have our people who serve different purposes, and that’s what makes friendship so special.I’m also getting real about how I personally compartmentalize my friendships, how to strengthen communication for deeper, more vulnerable connections, and how to navigate it all with love, self-awareness, and grace.Grab your drink, text your group chat, and let’s talk about how to show up for our people and ourselves — even when it’s hard. https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast]

What Would Tatum Do?! Birthday Recap

116- This week’s episode is giving chaos, honesty, and birthday energy! I’m answering What Would Tatum Do? — ten hilarious (and slightly unhinged) scenarios my friends came up with to see if they could guess how I’d really react. I’m reading them for the first time on the podcast, so you’re getting my unfiltered, real-time reactions. You’ll also get clips from my birthday weekend — the hibachi dinner, confessional moments, and even a few bloopers at the end. So stick around, because it’s giving party meets podcast. And of course, I had to dig into the Hoe Bag — pulling random dating and relationship questions and answering them as raw and real as it gets. Plus, I’m spilling what really went down on my birthday (because you know there’s always a story). Grab your drink, get comfy, and let’s get into the madness that is What Would Tatum Do?

Expectations, Friendships & Drama

This week’s episode is all about the expectations we put on friendships—especially me, because girl, I’ve had some lessons to learn.I’m getting real about how I’ve lost friendships because of unrealistic expectations and how much I’ve grown from those moments. We’re also diving into your poll answers and write-ins about the struggles that come with adult friendships—because let’s be honest, it’s not always easy figuring out who’s in your corner.And of course, I’m sharing some story times from the girls and their experiences, because what’s a “Girl Stop Talking” episode without a little drama, a little heart, and a whole lot of honesty?Hang in until the end for some bloopers. I really struggled sharing honestly with this without oversharing experiences that are close to me, don't worry there's more to come.

30 Lessons By 30

113- This week’s episode is extra special because we’re closing the chapter on my 20s and stepping into a whole new era. You know birthdays have always been a big deal for me — but this one hits different.I’m diving into childhood memories, why I’ve always celebrated birthdays like they’re my personal Super Bowl, and sharing the 30 lessons I’ve learned in 30 years. From love and friendships to career chaos and self-growth — nothing is off-limits. We’re talking about why the bare minimum is NOT effort (say it louder for the people in the back ), how red flags don’t magically turn green, why therapy isn’t the problem you are, and why your 20s are for learning but your 30s? Baby, they’re for living. So grab a drink, come laugh (and maybe cry a little) with me, and let’s toast to lessons learned, bad hangovers survived, friendships redefined, and stepping into our glow-up era with confidence.