Girls Chase Podcast

This month, Chase Amante interviews Skills, the natural turned pickup artist and a long-time pillar of the modern seduction community. Listen as Skills discusses how he developed his game, overcame language barriers, and made his home in seduction. • 00:00:58: how Skills learned to seduce • 00:11:23: Skill’s struggle with becoming ‘anti-game’ after club attendance fell • 00:13:57: when Skills started using seduction gambits – then lays became TOO predictable • 00:17:03: how Skills recovered from his disappointment after routine game killed the fun • 00:19:07: picking up Generation Z girls – differences, auto-rejection • 00:24:02: how Skills got involved in the seduction community and met Alek and Jeff • 00:29:52: Skills talks humor: uses & misuses in seduction • 00:34:18: one big mistake many PUAs make with humor • 00:35:23: naturals’ tendency to be dismissive of unfamiliar techniques • 00:41:54: the importance of subcommunication to game • 00:44:34: how to use openers to evaluate girls (then calibrate) • 00:46:37: Skills on neo-direct (‘no game’ approaches) vs. direct • 00:48:52: the importance of building relationships with venue staff + how to do • 00:58:03: naturals with Madonna-whore complex • 01:04:25: monogamy guys vs. hardcore polyamory guys • 01:10:18: singing as an attractive honest signal to girls • 01:14:21: Skills’s ‘competition’ frames for getting with girls • 01:19:57: Skills’s custom adaptation of Alek Rolstad’s sex talk routines • 01:27:28: Skills’s approach to building plausible deniability for the pull to his place: “My dog has to like you.” • 01:28:16: how Skills popularized Alek Rolstad’s 8 Types of Orgasm routine • 01:31:03: more on Skills’s archetype frame: “being with a Latin guy” • 01:31:51: how sex talk squares the circle of Gunwitch’s Three Keys • 01:34:17: the weakness of direct sexual game vs. sex talk seduction • 01:39:36: “the game is played with the yellows” • 01:46:14: how changing conditions have made it harder for new guys to get into seduction • 01:49:33: Skills explains his Autobiography Technique • 01:53:48: quirks of dealing with Generation Z: comfort, skittishness, sexy yet conservative • 01:58:30: looksmaxxers at the club, standing around getting no women • 02:06:33: how the looksmax movement began: an offshoot of the seduction community • 02:11:46: ways the mentalities of incels/black pill/red pill men prevent them from success • 02:16:08: why many guys don’t get second encounters with women they sleep with • 02:17:25: how Skills developed his text flirtation method • 02:20:43: Skills’s current approach to texting • 02:24:58: soft vs. hard closes: what they are + how to use them • 02:27:50: using callback references as a text opener • 02:29:25: the importance of strong initial interactions to better texting later on • 02:31:27: when to go for the soft close + how to deal with resistance while texting Listen on Girls Chase and find links to Skills’s guides and materials here: https://www.girlschase.com/article/skilled-seducer-month-march-2025-skills Find Skills on the Skilled Seducer Forum: https://www.skilledseducer.com/ Or on his website, The Skills Method: https://www.theskillsmethod.com/

Chase Amante interviews Skilled Seducer James D, a long-time Girls Chase reader who's enjoyed copious seduction success with girls he met in college, at bars, and most recently through day game. The two talk vibe, overcoming sticking points, and recognizing (and capitalizing on) DTF girls during the day. • Introduction: James D’s teenage successes experimenting with Girls Chase material (sexy smile, sexy walk, conversation tips) • What James D’s vibe is like now (05:33) • How James D got his start in the game: high school + uni (07:55) • “Out of the dorms, I was a nobody” – James D learns night game (10:31) • James D transitions from night game to day game (12:16) • Hitting on girls as the “well-dressed fat guy” (15:59) • More on James’s experience with the 4 approaches per day challenge (17:02) • What James’s game looks like currently: authority frame approaching (18:08) • James’s first day game cold approach lay: Physicist Touches the Seventh Sky (24:25) • James talks about the “best article ever written on game”: the Floors and Ceilings Method (26:43) • James’s next lay report: “Bridge to Bed” in a love motel (29:15) • How James overcame some sticking points to break a dry spell (31:53) • What James’s experience has been like using Alek Rolstad’s sex talk with girls (33:15) • On how sex talk is not just for night game (36:38) • James’s relationship with a “young Monica Belluci lookalike” (37:17) • James discusses an infamous lay report and spotting/acting on same-day lay opportunities (38:37) • James discusses his recent dry spell and how he broke it (42:04) • Experimenting with telling women you’re in a relationship (45:13) • What’s in the future for James, romance-wise (46:35) Listen on Girls Chase and find links to James D's reports & more here: https://www.girlschase.com/article/skilled-seducer-month-january-2025-james-d

Listen as Girls Chase founder Chase Amante interviews May 2024’s Skilled Seducer of the Month, Kvothe. Included in this conversation: • Introduction to Kvothe (00:01:00) • Why it took Kvothe 5 years to finally jump into seduction (00:02:28) • How Kvothe feels looking back about his early-on approach anxiety (00:06:02) • Direct vs. indirect opening styles (00:10:20) • Making things feel natural rather than showcasing the process (00:13:02) • The difference between ‘magic-feeling approaches’ vs. ordinary ones (00:15:55) • Kvothe’s experience having fits and starts beginning with seduction (00:22:45) • Guys being amazed seeing you approaching hot girls even if it bombs (00:27:35) • Building preselection via harmless conversations with hot girls (00:29:32) • Falling asleep after a late night out (00:32:34) • Kvothe’s 2nd return to seduction; coaching with Alek Rolstad; laying girls in Miami (00:33:52) • Kvothe’s 3rd return to seduction; coaching with Hector Castillo; laying more girls in Miami (00:41:58) • Alek Rolstad & Hector Castillo: very different styles yet gentlemanly courtesy; Chase’s article breaking down Hector’s game (00:48:36) • Kvothe’s experience picking up girls in different cities: NYC, Miami, Barcelona, Madrid (00:50:24) • How Kvothe connected with his wingmen & friends Devilicious and Skippy (00:57:57) • Kvothe’s approach to selecting new elements to add to his seduction toolbox (01:02:55) • Focusing on eliciting interesting things from women vs. being interesting yourself (01:09:17) • Kvothe talks about recent obstacles he’s had calibrating sex talk – and what the likely causes and solutions are (01:11:28) • When kissing girls on dates and pickups helps you get laid vs. when it hurts your chances (01:15:39) • Girls relaxing or removing clothing items in public as a sign of comfort (01:21:46) • What’s next for Kvothe (01:26:19) Listen on Girls Chase and find links to Kvothe’s reports & more here: https://www.girlschase.com/article/skilled-seducer-month-may-2024-kvothe

Michael Chief joins Girls Chase founder Chase Amante in this interview following Mike’s return to seduction. In the interview, we discuss: • How Mike got his start in seduction (Mike found seduction as a teenager in 2003) • What his experience picking up women as a short, introverted, Asian man has been • Observations on introvert vs. extrovert styles of approaching & game • Mike’s experiences as a coach and what he’s observed in different clients • The secret to cold approaching girls without making it feel like an “approach” • Ways Mike uses his position in the seduction community to intrigue & bed women • Mike’s exploration of feminism & feminist theory and how it’s made him a better seducer • How discussing consent makes women feel safer (& more open to fast hookups) • The importance of leadership (plus how Mike sets himself up to lead) • Mike’s experience with the polyamory community & how it affects his pickups Lastly, Mike discusses his new book, Never Lonely: The Uncensored Guide on How to Attract and Be Loved by Women. You can learn more about the book and pick up your copy here: https://www.amazon.com/Never-Lonely-Uncensored-Guide-Attract/dp/B0CTG9CX1Z/ref=nosim?tag=girlschasecom-20 View the transcript for this interview here: https://www.girlschase.com/article/michael-chief-getting-lots-love-women

The higher your meet-to-lay ratio, the more of the women you meet end up in bed. What’s it take to RAISE your meet-to-lay ratio though… how do you get really, really good? In this webinar, we discuss the mechanics of good game with the most technically skilled pick up artist in the field today, Alek Rolstad. Alek has bedded hundreds of women across Europe and beyond with his patented Sex Talk Method and irresistibly seductive Sexual Prizing. He breaks down how he does it inside. As you listen, you’ll discover: • How lockdowns in Europe have affected Alek’s game (01:19) • How Alek’s bounced back quickly from lockdowns and laid new girls right away each time lockdowns are lifted (02:33) • Why do most guys who cold approach women have to deal with so much rejection? (04:53) • When girls reject guys they actually like (07:26) • On guys being either TOO sexual with women… or not nearly sexual ENOUGH (08:57) • The need for efficiency AND consistency in your sexual approach toward women (12:45) • Doing sex talk PROPERLY and avoiding the “sex talk didn’t turn her on” problem (14:04) • How long does it take Alek’s students to get SMOOTH using sex talk? (15:56) • Alek’s story: how he became one of the most prominent & skilled seducers in the world (19:07) • Alek’s one regret after 16 years in the game (22:20) • What stays fresh and exciting in a pickup even after many years picking up new girls (24:13) • Most guys stop picking up after a while to have girlfriends, start families, and so on. What’s kept Alek at seduction for so long? (25:01) • What is meet-to-lay ratio? How has Alek’s changed over the years? What does he see happen with his students’ meet-to-lay ratios over time? (26:29) • Sex Talk Rule #2: Be dirty, but not too much. How can beginners gauge how much is too little or too much? (29:37) • Sex Talk Rule #7: Leave a girl wanting more (more sex talk, that is). How do you do this? (32:30) • What a Seduction Gambit is, and exactly why it’s so important students get used to using them (35:53) • The “secret sauce” behind Alek’s ability to weave new, powerful sex talk gambits that ENAMOR women (39:16) • Sexual Prizing: what it is and just HOW it works to get women CHASING you for sex (42:33) • What women DO once you’re sexually prized; how to recognize a girl is now chasing you to hook up (45:39) • Alek discusses some of the RESULTS students of his have achieved in the past (49:38) • “Perverted Purity” Gambit: a brand new fused sex talk gambit (55:17) • What Alek has students focus on (beyond just the words) when teaching them sex talk gambits (59:45) • Alek’s “BSL” method for getting girls HOOKED into conversation with you (62:23) • Why students so often NEGLECT the very crucial pickup step of Locking In (66:29) • Alek lays out what types of students would NOT be qualified for coaching with him (67:32) • Alek’s ideal student: the kind of student who will get the most out of training with Alek (70:02) • A summary of everything students get when coaching with Alek (73:34) To sign up for a free 10-minute discovery call for coaching with Alek Rolstad, please visit: https://www.girlschase.com/coaching/phone/alek