Falling in Love With My Life Again | Reflections from Hoi An

Falling in Love With My Life Again | Reflections from Hoi An

For four months, I’ve been travelling through Asia searching for… something. Sri Lanka showed me what I didn’t want. Bali showed me how connection can sometimes become distraction. And then Hội An slowed me down enough to finally hear myself again. In this episode, I reflect on the routines, rituals, loneliness, insights, and uncomfortable truths that surfaced during this chapter of my life. We talk about: * building routines that genuinely support you * the difference between presence and performance * why even our passions can become pressure * contact improv and the idea of the “third entity” * self-love that isn’t performative * jealousy, comparison, Instagram spirals * learning to stay with yourself when things feel uncomfortable * and the strange distance between digging a hole at the beach feeling completely free… and waking up the next morning scrolling your phone for two hours This isn’t a polished transformation story. It’s a reflection on a process that’s still unfolding. And maybe that’s the most honest thing I can share right now. If this episode resonates with you, I’d genuinely love to hear from you. Share it with someone who might need it, leave a review, or send me a message on Instagram. Until next time — Follow your intuition, do everything with love, and just see where it takes you.

The Person You're Still Becoming | Danny Rahim on Purpose, Growth & Sobriety

Danny Rahim's story begins with adversity. Growing up with a mother facing severe mental health challenges and experiencing profound loss at a young age, Danny was forced to confront difficult realities long before most people do. In this conversation, we explore how those experiences shaped the person he became—and how they eventually led him toward coaching, purpose, and a deeper understanding of himself. We dive into Danny's Sober 365 journey, the social pressure surrounding alcohol, and what happens when you remove a coping mechanism that society has largely normalised. Rather than focusing solely on sobriety, this conversation explores identity, habits, self-awareness, and the stories we tell ourselves. We also discuss Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTS), the power of self-talk, the impact of ADHD on behaviour and decision-making, and why the people we surround ourselves with have such a profound influence on our lives. Throughout the episode, Danny shares practical insights on creating lasting change, finding joy in everyday life, and navigating both success and struggle with perspective. Topics we explore: • Growing up through adversity and its lasting impact • The link between childhood experiences and adult behaviour • Danny's Sober 365 journey • Why alcohol is so deeply embedded in modern culture • Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTS) • ADHD, self-awareness, and personal growth • Habits, consistency, and long-term change • The importance of your environment and social circle • How the words we use shape our reality • Finding purpose and meaning in your work • "All of us will die, but not all of us will live" • "This too shall pass"—for both difficult and beautiful moments Connect with Danny: Instagram: @dannyrahimcoaching Website: dannyrahimcoaching.com Learn more about Danny's coaching, the Sober 365 journey, and the Elev8 Human Performance community through the links above. — If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who might benefit from the conversation, leave a review, and subscribe to Grow with the Flo for more honest conversations about growth, anxiety, identity, connection, and what it means to live a life that actually feels like yours.

How I Overcame (Toilet) Anxiety (And Reclaimed My Freedom)

Two years ago, I couldn’t walk twenty minutes from my front door without knowing there was a toilet nearby. Today, I’m travelling through Asia with no fixed plans, no mapped-out exits, and no certainty about what comes next. In this deeply personal solo episode, I open up about my experience with anxiety and toilet anxiety — the shame, the isolation, the avoidance, and the long process of slowly rebuilding trust with my body and nervous system. This isn’t a “5 steps to fix your anxiety” episode. It’s an honest conversation about what actually helped: * Understanding the gut-brain connection * Exposure and facing fear * Breathwork and nervous system regulation * Acupuncture, movement, journalling and community * Learning to sit with uncertainty instead of fighting it Most importantly, this episode is about the relationship we build with anxiety over time. Because freedom isn’t the absence of anxiety — it’s learning that fear no longer gets to run your life. If this has been part of your story too, I’d genuinely love to hear from you. Follow your intuition, do everything with love, and just see where it takes you. #Anxiety #MentalHealth #ToiletAnxiety #PersonalGrowth #HealingJourney #Podcast #GrowWithTheFlo #Agoraphobia #MentalHealthAwareness

Is Stress the Price of Success? | Aline Werner

In this episode, I sit down with Aline Werner, someone who’s been navigating two worlds that don’t naturally seem to fit together. On one side: corporate structure, pressure, performance. On the other: yoga, personal growth, well-being, and spirituality. For a long time, these worlds felt separate — almost incompatible. But Aline is now stepping into what she calls the “Business Hippie”… someone trying to bridge both. We started this conversation with a question that stuck with me: Is stress actually a sign of success? And interestingly… we never really came back to answer it. Maybe because the answer isn’t that simple. We talk about the pressure to perform, the identity behind being “busy,” and the subtle ways stress can become something we hold onto — even when it’s draining us. This isn’t a conversation about eliminating stress. It’s about understanding our relationship to it. About noticing when ambition turns into tension. And questioning whether the life we’re building actually feels good to live. What I appreciated most is how honestly Aline speaks about navigating both worlds — without pretending to have it all figured out. Aline is a lawyer by background and has spent years working in corporate environments, including compliance and internal auditing. Alongside this, she has built a path in fitness, coaching, and personal development. She describes herself as a “Business Hippie” — someone who doesn’t want to choose between ambition and well-being, but instead explores how both can coexist. Her work today includes coaching, speaking, and creating spaces that support both professional and personal growth. About Aline WernerKey Takeaways * Stress can become part of our identity — not just a reaction * Being “busy” often feels like progress, even when it isn’t * Balancing ambition and well-being isn’t about choosing one over the other * Awareness is the first step to changing your relationship with stress If you’ve ever felt like slowing down means falling behind, this conversation invites you to question that belief — and maybe redefine what success actually looks like for you. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_businesshippie?igsh=MTN6aG84a3JtZG54cA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Website: https://alinewerner.com/

I Thought I Wanted Freedom… Now I’m Drowning in It

I thought I was creating freedom by letting go of everything—my job, my relationship, my routine. But instead, I found myself drifting. In this episode, I explore what happens when you lose all your anchors, why too much freedom can feel overwhelming, and what it actually takes to rebuild stability without feeling trapped.