Holistic Trauma Healing with Lindsey Lockett

In this episode, Lindsey speaks directly to men about a common pattern in emotionally intimate relationships with women: the instinct to fix instead of feeling. Lindsey dives deep into why men often respond with solutions or shutdown when their partner is emotional, what emotional capacity actually looks like, and practical ways to stay present instead of seeking control. Topics Covered: * Why the instinct to fix emotional distress in women doesn't actually work. * Understanding emotional capacity vs. emotional intelligence or maturity. * How cultural conditioning leaves men with low emotional capacity. * Practical, real-life strategies to build your emotional capacity. * Three simple, powerful steps to respond to your partner’s emotions differently. * A special invitation to Lindsey’s men's cohort of Feel Without Fear, beginning June 19th. Key Insights: * The need to fix is often a nervous system defense mechanism, not malicious intent. * Emotional presence means being with feelings, not immediately fixing or escaping them. * Low emotional capacity shows up as defensiveness, withdrawal, anger, or shutting down—but it's not emotional immaturity; it's overwhelm. * Building emotional capacity is about practicing awareness, regulation, and staying present even when uncomfortable. Practical Tips for Men: 1. Regulate before responding: Slow your breath, notice sensations in your body, and ground yourself. 2. Reflect and validate: Instead of advice, reflect feelings back to her ("That sounds really hard.") and validate her experience. 3. Clearly ask for space while staying connected: Communicate your needs without severing emotional connection. Join Lindsey’s Men’s Cohort: Enrollment is open for Feel Without Fear, starting June 19th, 2025. This program guides men in expanding emotional capacity, becoming more emotionally present partners, and improving relationships through body-based nervous system training. Links Mentioned: * Join Feel Without Fear (Men’s Cohort) [https://lindseylockett.com/men/] Thanks for listening! Share this episode with a man you respect or love who could benefit from building emotional capacity and presence.

In this episode, Lindsey and Chelsea strip away the gloss of influencer culture to reveal what it really takes to build a conscious, integrity-driven business. From the primal survival wiring around money to the shame we carry when our bank balance dips, they share the unspoken struggles that every service-based entrepreneur faces — and how leaning into that discomfort becomes the alchemy of true growth. What You’ll Learn * The Myth of Followers = FortuneWhy a six-figure audience doesn’t guarantee six-figure earnings, and what really moves the needle. * Money as Survival CodeHow childhood wounding shows up in your relationship with cash and the inner work to rewire it. * Embodying Wealth in All FormsThe five domains of “wealth” (financial, relational, time, nervous-system, and soul), and why you’re already richer than you think. * The Entrepreneurial AbyssA guided free-fall into your worst-case scenario, and how hitting rock-bottom can spark your most creative breakthroughs. * Behind-the-Scenes Real TalkIntimate confessions about bank statements, savings thresholds, team paychecks, and the hidden rituals that keep Chelsea and Lindsey moving forward. Resources & Next Step * Chelsea's Somatic Coach Certification Program — Learn to lead from embodied wisdom [https://www.healingembodied.com/get-certified]. * Chelsea's Rock Solid Relationship — Learn to open your heart to love and life [https://healingembodied.kartra.com/page/jxJ167]. * Stay Connected — Hit "Follow" above so you never miss the unfiltered conversations that matter. Connect with Us * Chelsea: @healing.embodied [https://www.instagram.com/healing.embodied] * Lindsey: @iamlindseylockett [https://www.instagram.com/iamlindseylockett]

Links: One Thread At A Time: A Somatic Mini-Course For Shifting Relational Patterns [https://lindseylockett.com/product/one-thread-at-a-time/] Lindsey Lockett's Instagram @iamlindseylockett [https://www.instagram.com/iamlindseylockett/] LindseyLockett.com [https://lindseylockett.com/] In this episode, I’m joined by Drew Wild for a raw and layered conversation about what it really means to be authentic — especially in relationships that are shaped by trauma, addiction, and nervous system dysregulation. We dive into the web of relational dynamics — how our survival patterns play out in intimacy, how addiction can be a form of self-regulation, and why co-authenticity (not just self-authenticity) is essential for real connection. We unpack the difference between rupture and harm, the danger of bypassing emotional truths, and why vulnerability isn’t just a buzzword — it’s a necessary practice for relational healing. This isn’t a fluffy convo about “better communication.” It’s a deep dive into the messy, sacred, uncomfortable work of being seen, staying open, and choosing truth over performance — even when rejection or disconnection is on the table. We talk about:— The nervous system’s role in how we relate— Why couples work is such potent terrain for transformation— How to tell when it’s time to stay … or go— Letting go of surface-level “connection” and choosing depth instead— Confronting self-abandonment, emotional shutdown, and the protective parts of us that avoid intimacy— What it takes to build trust through conflict and disagreement This episode is a wide, honest, and unfiltered exploration of relational healing — woven with metaphor, emotion, and lived experience. If you’re craving deeper connections, more honesty, and a map for navigating relational complexity… this one’s for you.

In this episode, Lindsey Lockett dives into the frustrating reality that many people face in their healing journey: why does healing still feel so damn hard? Even after years of therapy, self-work, nervous system education, and deep intellectual understanding, many still feel stuck in the same patterns. Lindsey challenges the mainstream approach to healing, revealing that it’s not a lack of knowledge that’s holding you back—it’s your nervous system. She explains how your body, not your mind, determines whether healing is possible and how perfectionism, pressure, and an overemphasis on cognitive awareness can keep you on an endless healing hamster wheel. If you've ever felt like you're doing all the "right things" but still aren’t seeing the change you want, this episode is a must-listen. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: 🔹 Why your nervous system may actually be blocking your healing. 🔹 The difference between knowing about healing and actually embodying it. 🔹 How trauma, safety, and familiarity shape your nervous system’s resistance. 🔹 The four key areas necessary for true healing: cognitive, somatic, energetic, and relational. 🔹 Why healing isn’t about eliminating triggers or always being regulated. 🔹 The difference between genuine safety and perceived safety in the body. 🔹 How healing needs to feel like permission, not pressure. 🔹 Why your healing journey is NOT about perfection or “finishing” healing. Special Invitation: Join Lindsey for her FREE Masterclass on February 27th at 12 Noon Central: "Why Your Nervous System Won’t Let You Heal (Yet)". This live workshop will go deeper into the blocks that keep you stuck, how to shift from intellectualizing healing to embodying it, and practical tools for moving forward. 🔗 Sign up here: https://LindseyLockett.com/heal/ [https://LindseyLockett.com/heal/] Connect with Lindsey: 🌐 Website: LindseyLockett.com [https://www.lindseylockett.com] 📸 Instagram: @iamlindseylockett [https://www.instagram.com/iamlindseylockett]

In this deeply insightful and raw conversation, Lindsey Lockett and Kat Lee come together tounpack the complex layers of codependency—what it feels like in the body, how it shapes our relationships, and how we can begin to break free from its patterns. Drawing from personal experiences, childhood conditioning, and real-life relationship dynamics, Lindsey and Kat dive into: * Why codependency often shows up infamily relationships and partnerships * Howchildhood survival responses (like fawning, people-pleasing, and dissociation) shape adult relational patterns * Whatcodependency feels like somatically in the body * Thenuanced difference between genuine support and codependent enmeshment * The importance ofboundaries, personal responsibility, and differentiation in healing from codependency * Howauthenticity is the antidote to codependency Resources & Links: 🔗Follow Kat Lee:Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/kat.hosoo.lee/] |Website [https://bio.site/empoweredcuriosity] 🔗Follow Lindsey Lockett:Instagram [https://instagram.com/iamlindseylockett] |Website [https://lindseylockett.com] 🔗Check Out Lindsey’s Book:Nourish Your Nervous System –Click here [https://lindseylockett.com/nourish]