You Don’t Have to Have It All Figured Out / Episode 59

You Don’t Have to Have It All Figured Out / Episode 59

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2453442/fan_mail/new] Have you ever felt like everyone else has life figured out except you? In this episode of I Am Spice – The Podcast, we’re talking about the pressure to have all the answers before taking the next step. Society tells us that confidence comes from certainty—but the truth is, confidence is built through action, not perfect clarity. If you’ve been waiting for the “right time,” questioning every decision, or feeling like you’re falling behind, this episode is your reminder that no one truly has it all figured out. Growth isn’t about knowing every answer. It’s about trusting yourself enough to take the next step anyway. Today we’ll talk about: • Why uncertainty is a normal part of life • The difference between confidence and certainty • How perfectionism keeps us stuck • Why action creates clarity • Learning to trust yourself one decision at a time You don’t need every answer. You just need enough courage to take the next step. If this episode speaks to your heart, please share it with someone who needs the reminder that they’re doing better than they think. Thank you for being here. With love, Spice

No Tienes Que Tener Todas las Respuestas / Episodio 59

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2453442/fan_mail/new] ¿Alguna vez has sentido que todo el mundo parece tener su vida resuelta… menos tú? En este episodio de I Am Spice – El Podcast, hablamos sobre la presión de sentir que debemos tener todas las respuestas antes de dar el próximo paso. La realidad es que nadie tiene la vida completamente resuelta. La confianza no nace de la certeza. La confianza se construye caminando, incluso cuando todavía no vemos todo el camino. Hoy conversamos sobre: • La diferencia entre confianza y certeza • Cómo el perfeccionismo nos mantiene estancados • Por qué actuar trae claridad • Aprender a confiar en nosotros mismos • Soltar la necesidad de tener todas las respuestas No necesitas saberlo todo. Solo necesitas el valor para dar el siguiente paso. Si este episodio tocó tu corazón, compártelo con alguien que necesite escucharlo. Con mucho cariño, Spice

You’re Allowed to Become Someone You’ve Never Been / Episode 58

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2453442/fan_mail/new] Have you ever felt like you’ve lost yourself? What if you haven’t lost yourself at all? What if the person you’re searching for isn’t someone you misplaced—but someone you’ve never been given the chance to become? In this episode of I Am Spice – The Podcast, we continue the conversation from Episode 57 and explore what comes after survival. Healing isn’t only about understanding your past. Eventually, it asks something new of you: Who are you choosing to become? Together we’ll explore how survival shapes our identity, why so many of the traits we call our personality are actually protective patterns, and why curiosity—not judgment—is the key to lasting growth. If you’ve ever struggled with self-worth, people-pleasing, fear of change, or wondering whether you’re allowed to become someone different, this conversation is for you. In this episode we discuss: • Why “finding yourself” may be the wrong goal • The difference between surviving and becoming • Why healing eventually looks toward the future • How your identity is still being written • Breaking free from labels you’ve given yourself • Learning to choose who you’re becoming every single day • Giving yourself permission to evolve Remember… The goal was never to find yourself. The goal has always been to give yourself the courage to become.

Tienes Permiso de Convertirte en Alguien Que Nunca Has Sido / Episodio 58

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2453442/fan_mail/new] ¿Alguna vez has sentido que te perdiste? ¿Y si nunca te perdiste? ¿Y si la persona que tanto buscas no es alguien que olvidaste, sino alguien que nunca tuviste la oportunidad de convertirte? En este episodio de I Am Spice – El Podcast, continuamos la conversación del episodio anterior para hablar sobre lo que sucede después de sobrevivir. Sanar no consiste solamente en entender tu pasado. Llega un momento en que la sanación te hace una nueva pregunta: ¿Quién estás eligiendo ser? Hablaremos sobre cómo nuestras experiencias moldean nuestra identidad, por qué muchas de las cosas que creemos que son “nuestra personalidad” en realidad fueron mecanismos de protección, y cómo la curiosidad hacia nosotros mismos puede transformar nuestra vida mucho más que el juicio. En este episodio hablamos sobre: • Por qué encontrarte quizá nunca fue el verdadero objetivo • La diferencia entre sobrevivir y convertirte • Cómo dejar de vivir desde el pasado • Cómo construir una nueva identidad • Soltar etiquetas que ya no te representan • Darte permiso para evolucionar Recuerda… Nunca se trató de encontrarte. Siempre se trató de darte el permiso para convertirte.  SPOTIFY (ENGLISH) Have you ever wondered if you’re trying to find someone who never actually existed? Maybe life isn’t about finding yourself. Maybe it’s about becoming. In Episode 58 of I Am Spice – The Podcast, we explore what happens after survival, why healing eventually asks us to stop looking backward, and how giving ourselves permission to evolve may be one of the greatest acts of self-love. If you’ve been questioning who you are or who you’re becoming, this conversation is for you.

The Life You Had to Survive Isn’t the Life You Have to Keep Living / Episode 57

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2453442/fan_mail/new] What if the version of you that helped you survive isn’t the version that’s meant to lead the rest of your life? In Episode 57 of I Am Spice – The Podcast, Spice explores one of the most overlooked parts of healing: realizing that many of the habits, fears, and beliefs we still carry were created simply to help us survive another day. Maybe you became a people pleaser because conflict never felt safe. Maybe you became a perfectionist because mistakes weren’t allowed. Maybe you learned to stay quiet because your voice wasn’t welcomed. Those behaviors weren’t weaknesses. They were survival. But survival has a way of overstaying its welcome. This episode is an invitation to recognize the difference between who you had to become and who you’re free to be today. It’s about honoring the version of yourself that got you here while giving yourself permission to finally put down the emotional backpack you’ve been carrying for far too long. Because healing isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about coming home to yourself. If this episode spoke to your heart, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need this reminder today. Remember… Stay Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Unstoppable