Making More Money Won’t Fix Messy Money with Stephanie Peirolo

How Alignment Creates Financial Confidence with Kristan Swan

The Smell of Money is where multi-passionate female entrepreneurs learn to stop avoiding their numbers, organize their cash flow, and build a healthier relationship with money without shame, confusion, or overwhelm. Inside, you'll learn how to give every dollar a job, understand what your money is telling you, and create calm, confident cash flow that supports your business, your life, and your future wealth. It's time to OWN Your Money: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2 [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2] If you're making money but still feel scattered, overwhelmed, or afraid to trust yourself, your money story may be running your business more than you realize. In this episode of iDateMoney®️, Lisa Drennon sits down with former business coach turned life and spiritual guide Kristan Swan for an honest conversation about the hidden beliefs that quietly shape our financial decisions. They explore how childhood scarcity, people-pleasing, fear of judgment, and misalignment can keep entrepreneurs working harder while moving further away from the life they truly want. Kristan shares how she transitioned from business coaching into helping people reconnect with themselves through intentional reflection, journaling, and values-based living. Together, she and Lisa discuss why success begins with awareness, how slowing down can actually accelerate your growth, and why building wealth starts by understanding the stories you tell yourself about money. About our guest: Kristan Swan is a former business coach turned life and spiritual guide who helps people discover their truth, clarify their values, and cultivate a more intentional way of living. Through guided journals, workshops, and retreats, she empowers people to create aligned lives built on self-awareness instead of fear. Connect with Kristan at KristanSwan.com [http://KristanSwan.com]. In this episode, you'll learn: Why your money story influences every financial decision you make How childhood scarcity patterns continue to affect entrepreneurs today Why working harder isn't always the solution to financial stress The power of journaling and brain dumps for creating clarity How people-pleasing keeps women financially and emotionally exhausted Why alignment creates more sustainable success than hustle Practical ways to pause, reflect, and reconnect with what truly matters How community and simple daily practices help build lasting confidence Timestamped Key Moments 00:00 Why entrepreneurs panic when unexpected tax bills arrive 02:20 Meet Kristan Swan and her journey from business coach to spiritual guide 05:00 Growing up with scarcity and how inherited money beliefs shape adulthood 10:00 Why awareness is the foundation for both business and personal growth 13:20 The power of slowing down instead of pushing harder 15:00 Brain dumps, journaling, and uncovering hidden money patterns 18:30 Community, accountability, and taking small aligned actions 20:15 Why women struggle to prioritize themselves without guilt 23:15 The biggest mistake Kristan made when changing careers 27:50 How to connect with Kristan and begin your own alignment journey Thank you for tuning into this week's episode of iDateMoney®️! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

Making More Money Won’t Fix Messy Money with Stephanie Peirolo

The Smell of Money is where multi-passionate female entrepreneurs learn to stop avoiding their numbers, organize their cash flow, and build a healthier relationship with money without shame, confusion, or overwhelm. Inside, you’ll learn how to give every dollar a job, understand what your money is telling you, and create calm, confident cash flow that supports your business, your life, and your future wealth. It's time to OWN Your Money: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2 [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2] Making more money online will not create wealth if your money decisions are still being driven by fear, stress, old money stories, and survival mode. In this episode of iDateMoney®️, Lisa sits down with executive coach and author Stephanie Peirolo for a powerful conversation about money stories, decision-making, divorce, debt, burnout, and what it really takes to build financial stability as a woman. Stephanie shares how childhood scarcity, gender roles, single motherhood, and financial shame shaped her relationship with money, and how she eventually rebuilt financial security while learning to make decisions from alignment instead of panic. Together, Lisa and Stephanie unpack why messy money is rarely just a math problem. It is often tied to the stories we inherited about work, worth, success, and what women are allowed to have. They also talk about the pressure to overwork, the cost of financial instability after divorce, and why women need to stop sacrificing their own financial well-being to rescue everyone else. About our guest: Stephanie Peirolo is a board-certified executive coach, author of The Saint and the Drunk, and host of The Bad Boss Brief. She helps leaders make intentional decisions, lead with clarity, and build lives that align with their values. Connect with Stephanie at spayrolo.com [http://spayrolo.com] IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: * Why messy money is often a relationship problem, not just a budgeting problem * How childhood scarcity and family money stories shape adult financial decisions * The hidden financial impact of divorce, caregiving, and being a single mother * Why more income does not automatically create peace, profit, or stability * How women can stop over-giving financially and protect their own future * Why decision-making gets easier when you understand your values, responsibilities, and reality * How to define wealth on your own terms instead of chasing someone else’s number TIMESTAMPED KEY MOMENTS 00:00 Messy money, money shame, and why women avoid their numbers 02:00 Stephanie’s book The Saint and the Drunk and decision-making with intention 04:00 Money narratives, inherited scarcity, and cultural conditioning 07:00 Divorce, single motherhood, and financial survival mode 11:00 Career choices, writing dreams, and making practical money decisions 13:45 Shame, systemic barriers, and forgiving yourself for past money struggles 15:40 How Stephanie got out of debt and built financial security 19:25 What women need to stop doing with money immediately 20:00 Redefining success and choosing your own wealth number 22:00 Stephanie’s shift into executive coaching and intentional leadership 24:40 Where to connect with Stephanie and get the book THANK YOU FOR TUNING INTO THIS WEEK’S EPISODE OF I DATE MONEY! REMEMBER, IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW MUCH MONEY YOU MAKE; IT'S WHAT YOU DO WITH IT 🗝️🌬️💖💸

How High-Earning Women Lose Money Without Realizing It with Nandita Mahadevan

The Smell of Money is where multi-passionate female entrepreneurs learn to stop avoiding their numbers, organize their cash flow, and build a healthier relationship with money without shame, confusion, or overwhelm. Inside, you’ll learn how to give every dollar a job, understand what your money is telling you, and create calm, confident cash flow that supports your business, your life, and your future wealth. It's time to OWN Your Money: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2 [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2] Making more money online does not create wealth if your money still disappears the moment it lands in your account. In this episode of iDateMoney®️, Lisa sits down with Nandita Mahadevan for an honest conversation about what happens when high income, stress, divorce, health struggles, and unhealed money patterns collide. Nandita shares her story of moving to the U.S. at 21, building a successful corporate career, earning multiple six figures, and still ending up in debt because no one taught her how to manage money, save intentionally, or build wealth. She opens up about the pressure to keep up appearances, the emotional side of overspending, and how perimenopause, burnout, and a major life reset forced her to rebuild her health, identity, and relationship with money from the ground up. Lisa and Nandita talk about why debt is often a money relationship problem, not just a money management problem, and why more income alone will never solve financial chaos without a real plan. About our guest: Nandita Mahadevan is the co-founder of Soul Women, a company helping women navigate perimenopause and menopause through functional medicine, education, and support. Connect with Nandita at solwomen.com [http://solwomen.com] and on Instagram at @thesolwomen. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: * Why making more money does not automatically create financial stability * How lifestyle creep and status spending quietly destroy profit * The emotional root of debt, overspending, and financial avoidance * What perimenopause, burnout, and brain fog can do to your confidence and decision-making * Why alignment, purpose, and simple financial systems matter more than hustle * How to start shifting from scarcity to abundance without ignoring the numbers TIMESTAMPED KEY MOMENTS * 00:00 Why more women are turning to debt relief and bankruptcy * 02:20 Nandita’s move to the U.S. and her first money experiences * 05:00 Building credit, overspending, and the tax mistake that changed everything * 07:10 Debt as a money relationship problem * 09:00 Lifestyle inflation, status spending, and keeping up with appearances * 13:00 The breaking point: divorce, health struggles, and financial wake-up calls * 15:00 Scarcity vs. abundance and how to spend with intention * 18:00 Leaving a high-paying corporate career to start over * 22:30 Perimenopause, identity shifts, and why health impacts wealth * 27:00 How to connect with Nandita and Soul Women Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of iDateMoney®️! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

How to Stop Playing Small with Renee Carbone Fleming

The Smell of Money is where multi-passionate female entrepreneurs learn to stop avoiding their numbers, organize their cash flow, and build a healthier relationship with money without shame, confusion, or overwhelm. Inside, you’ll learn how to give every dollar a job, understand what your money is telling you, and create calm, confident cash flow that supports your business, your life, and your future wealth. It's time to OWN Your Money: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2 [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2] ______________________________________________________________ I make good money, but I have no idea where it goes. If you've ever said that, this episode will help you build the confidence, visibility, and financial clarity needed to create lasting wealth. In this powerful conversation, Lisa Drennon sits down with Renee Carbone Fleming, founder of Badass Queen, personal branding strategist, podcast host, author, and multi-million dollar sales leader. Renee shares how divorce became the catalyst that transformed her life from stay-at-home mom to building a multi-million dollar organization while helping women create confidence, visibility, and multiple income streams. Together, Lisa and Renee explore the connection between personal branding, financial confidence, entrepreneurship, and the mindset shifts required to stop playing small. They discuss how women can overcome imposter syndrome, embrace their authentic voice, build a personal brand that creates opportunities, and stop allowing fear to dictate financial decisions. About Renee Carbone Fleming Renee Carbone Fleming is a personal branding strategist, speaker, author, podcast host, and founder of the Badass Queen brand. She helps women over 40 increase visibility, build confidence, monetize their expertise, and create multiple streams of income. Connect with Renee: https://www.instagram.com/reneecarbonefleming [https://www.instagram.com/reneecarbonefleming] https://badassqueen.com [https://badassqueen.com] This Episode You'll Learn: • Why divorce became Renee's greatest opportunity for growth • How to build confidence when everyone doubts you • The power of the "Watch Me" mindset • Why personal branding matters more than ever • How to overcome imposter syndrome • The truth about creating multiple income streams • Why making money is easy but keeping it requires a plan • How to build an "effort fund" and enjoy your success • The role authenticity plays in business growth • How to monetize your expertise and life experience KEY MOMENTS 00:00 Why successful women still don't know where their money goes 03:45 Renee's divorce story and entrepreneurial beginning 08:55 The difference between women who succeed and those who quit 10:20 Personal branding before personal branding was popular 13:20 Building confidence and visibility online 16:05 Overcoming imposter syndrome 19:25 Why money disappears without a strategy 22:05 The three-legged stool strategy for business growth 24:00 The Watch Me framework explained 27:00 How to connect with Renee ---------------------------------------- Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of iDateMoney®️! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you have; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

The 6-Pillar Method to Stop Money From Disappearing with Leah Hadley

Find $500–$2,000 in hidden money leaks, organize your cash flow, and create a money system that actually works with the Money Hunt found inside the Smell of Money Community.  Join here: https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about] That held-breath moment at the checkout: "will this card go through?" It's one of the scariest parts of not knowing where your money is. This week Lisa sits down with Leah Hadley, founder of Intentional Wealth Partners and author of Intentional Money, on how women move from money panic to money ownership. Leah shares her 6-pillar Intentional Money Method, and why your best investment is always you. In this episode 00:00  The grocery-store panic: "Will my card work?" 01:00  Book a complimentary Profit Power Hour 02:04  Teacher in student-loan debt → senior wealth advisor 04:12  Why money sounds like a foreign language 04:55  Master financial literacy by giving yourself grace 06:11  Why we date money — the psychology piece 06:50  Leah's divorce: "who gets stuck with the house" 08:30  Building a business for flexibility as a single mom 09:07  Earning with intentionality 10:27  The lies we believe going through divorce 11:56  The Intentional Money Method: the 6 pillars 14:21  The best advice: invest in yourself 14:41  Shiny object syndrome — the silent money leak 16:05  401(k)s, portfolios, and fee-only planning 17:09  How to connect with Leah + get the book 17:41  It's not how much you have — it's what you do with it Key takeaways * Financial illiteracy is common. Nobody is born knowing money, give yourself grace and ask for help. * Be proactive instead of reactive. Put yourself in the driver's seat; it's a choice you make again and again. * The Intentional Money Method runs on six pillars: clarity, values, mindset, strategy, action, support. * Your education and your belief in yourself are the one investment no one can take. * Shiny object syndrome is a money leak. A real system, not another budget plugs it. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily