Are Men Allowed To Grieve - MENtality With Ebuka, Ft. Banky W, Ali Baba & Samuel Otigba

There is an Addiction Epidemic | MENtality with Ebuka, Banky W & Aproko Doctor.

In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu [https://www.instagram.com/ebuka/] is joined by co-host Banky Wellington [https://www.instagram.com/bankywellington/], alongside medical doctor, health advocate and digital creator Aproko Doctor [https://www.instagram.com/aproko_doctor/], for a deeply insightful conversation on addiction and the hidden ways men cope with pressure, pain and emotional overwhelm. The discussion explores how addiction, whether to alcohol, drugs, gambling, work, sex, social media, success, or validation, often hides beneath the surface of male coping mechanisms. For many men, addiction is not always loud or obvious; sometimes, it looks like overworking, emotional avoidance, chasing constant approval, or using substances and distractions to escape unresolved pain. Against the backdrop of Nigeria’s growing substance abuse challenge, with about 14.4% of Nigerians aged 15–64 reportedly using drugs, nearly three times the global average, the episode examines addiction not simply as a moral failure, but as a response to pressure, silence, trauma, loneliness, and the expectations placed on men to “be strong” without support. Together, the conversation unpacks the relationship between masculinity and escapism, the shame that prevents men from seeking help, and the importance of recovery, accountability, honesty, and healthier coping systems. The episode also challenges men to confront the things they run to when they are unable to speak about what they are running from. Connect with the Hosts: * Ebuka – Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/ebuka/?hl=en], X [https://x.com/Ebuka] * Banky W – Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/bankywellington/] * Aproko Doctor – Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/aproko_doctor/] * MENtality Podcast – Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mentalitywithebuka/] Listen & Subscribe: * YouTube – Link [https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka] * Apple Podcasts – Link [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentalitywithebuka/id1849980716] * Spotify – Link [https://open.spotify.com/show/69LySGBsWsHGEcfY7BXDcu?si=f5b4d54bab6140cb] Join the Conversation: * Use #MENtalityWithEbuka * Rate & Review the show MENtality With Ebuka is a production of Knight & Sheriff and EME.

Are Men Allowed To Grieve - MENtality With Ebuka, Ft. Banky W, Ali Baba & Samuel Otigba

In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu [https://www.instagram.com/ebuka/] is joined by co-host Banky Wellington [https://www.instagram.com/bankywellington/], alongside comedy icon and media entrepreneur Ali Baba [https://www.instagram.com/alibabagcfr/] and entrepreneur Samuel Otigba [https://www.instagram.com/samuelotigba/], for a deeply reflective conversation on grief and emotional suppression among men. The discussion examines how men are often conditioned to internalize pain, despite experiencing profound losses, whether through bereavement, relationships, identity shifts, or missed opportunities. The episode unpacks how this silence shapes emotional wellbeing and long-term mental health outcomes for men across Nigeria and the broader African context. Grief is not a weakness, it is a human experience. This episode challenges long-held beliefs about masculinity and calls for a cultural shift toward emotional openness, healthier coping mechanisms, and redefining what it truly means to be strong as a man. Connect with the Hosts:  • Ebuka – Instagram, [https://www.instagram.com/ebuka/?hl=en] X [https://x.com/Ebuka]• Banky W – Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/bankywellington/?hl=en] • MENtality Podcast – Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mentalitywithebuka/] Listen & Subscribe:  • YouTube – Link [https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka] • Apple Podcasts - Link [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mentalitywithebuka/id1849980716] • Spotify – Link [https://open.spotify.com/show/69LySGBsWsHGEcfY7BXDcu?si=f5b4d54bab6140cb] Join the Conversation:  • Use #MENtalityWithEbuka  • Rate & Review the show MENtality With Ebuka is a production of Knight & Sheriff and EME.

Masculinity & Fatherhood – MENtality with Ebuka, ft Banky W, Sonariwo, IK Osakioduwa & Murewa

Boys today are growing up in a world very different from what many adults knew. In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, Host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu and Co-Host Banky W are joined by IK Osakioduwa, the MD of Lite Radio, and Host and Co-host of “Menisms” Podcast, Sonariwo On Deck and Murewa to explore how gaming, social media, isolation, online dating, and rising incel culture are shaping young boys. Why are so many boys struggling quietly? Who and what are they listening to? And what do they actually need from the men and families around them? MENtality with Ebuka is a production of The She Tank Studios and EME. Connect with the Hosts:  • Ebuka – Instagram, [https://www.instagram.com/ebuka/?hl=en] X [https://x.com/Ebuka]• Banky W – Instagram, [https://www.instagram.com/bankywellington/?hl=en] X [https://x.com/BankyW]• MENtality Podcast – Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mentalitywithebuka/]  Listen & Subscribe:   • YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka [https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka]  • Apple Podcasts – Link [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/masculinity-money/id1849980716?i=1000734472174]  • Spotify – Link [https://open.spotify.com/show/69LySGBsWsHGEcfY7BXDcu?si=2925511704bc4094] Join the Conversation:  • Use #MENtalityWithEbuka  • Rate & Review the show

Masculinity & Fatherhood – MENtality with Ebuka, ft Banky W, Timi Dakolo & Hermes Iyele

Becoming a father changes a man in ways few people talk about. In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, Host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu and Co-Host Banky W are joined by Artiste, Timi Dakolo and Dancer, Actor, Influencer, Hermes Iyele for an honest conversation about fatherhood – what shapes it, what challenges it, and what it demands. How did their own upbringing influence the fathers they’re becoming? What does being present truly look like today? And how do men balance discipline, love, emotional safety, sacrifice, and the everyday pressures of raising children? A grounded conversation about the realities of modern fatherhood  and how men can approach it with intention. MENtality with Ebuka is a production of The She Tank Studios and EME. Connect with the Hosts:  • Ebuka – Instagram, [https://www.instagram.com/ebuka/?hl=en] X [https://x.com/Ebuka]• Banky W – Instagram, [https://www.instagram.com/bankywellington/?hl=en] X [https://x.com/BankyW]• MENtality Podcast – Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mentalitywithebuka/]  Listen & Subscribe:   • YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka [https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka]  • Apple Podcasts – Link [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/masculinity-money/id1849980716?i=1000734472174]  • Spotify – Link [https://open.spotify.com/show/69LySGBsWsHGEcfY7BXDcu?si=2925511704bc4094] Join the Conversation:  • Use #MENtalityWithEbuka  • Rate & Review the show

Masculinity & Friendships – MENtality with Ebuka, ft Banky W & Alexander Ikemefuna

In this special episode of MENtality with Ebuka, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu [https://www.instagram.com/ebuka/?hl=en] sits with Co-Host Banky Wellington [https://www.instagram.com/bankywellington/?hl=en] and Creative Consultant & Music Executive Alexander Ikemefuna [https://www.instagram.com/ikemefuna1/?hl=en]for an honest, vulnerable, and deeply reflective conversation about male friendships – how they form, why they break, and the unspoken emotional world men rarely discuss. From growing through boyhood labels and early rivalries, to ego, loyalty, distance, marriage, vulnerability, and the quiet ways men show love, the trio unpack the joys and complexities of male friendships. MENtality with Ebuka is a production of The She Tank Studios and EME. Connect with the Hosts:  • Ebuka – Instagram, [https://www.instagram.com/ebuka/?hl=en] X [https://x.com/Ebuka]• Banky W – Instagram, [https://www.instagram.com/bankywellington/?hl=en] X [https://x.com/BankyW]• MENtality Podcast – Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/mentalitywithebuka/]  Listen & Subscribe:   • YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka [https://www.youtube.com/@Ebuka]  • Apple Podcasts – Link [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/masculinity-money/id1849980716?i=1000734472174]  • Spotify – Link [https://open.spotify.com/show/69LySGBsWsHGEcfY7BXDcu?si=2925511704bc4094] Join the Conversation:  • Use #MENtalityWithEbuka  • Rate & Review the show