The Mental Load Is Real: What It's Actually Doing to Your Mind & Body with Dr. Minisha Ghimire Ep 134

The Mental Load Is Real: What It's Actually Doing to Your Mind & Body with Dr. Minisha Ghimire Ep 134

This episode is brought to you by Legendairy Milk. [https://www.legendairymilk.com/products/shes-flowing-lactation-drink-mix] Use code NEWMOM15 at checkout to get 15% off She's Flowing [https://www.legendairymilk.com/products/shes-flowing-lactation-drink-mix]. You've fed the baby, done the laundry, remembered the pediatrician appointment, mentally scheduled tomorrow's daycare drop-off, and somehow still feel like you're forgetting something. Sound familiar? That's the mental load — and for new mothers, it rarely gets talked about the way it should. In this episode, Mariela sits down with Dr. Minisha Ghimire, physician in internal medicine and obesity medicine, and founder of Momkinz, to have an honest, eye-opening conversation about the invisible weight so many mothers carry — and what it's actually doing to their health. This one hits different. Whether you're in the thick of the newborn stage or years into motherhood and still feeling it — you'll want to listen to this. In This Episode, We Cover: 🧠 What the mental load actually is — and why it's so much deeper than just being busy or exhausted 🧠 Why new mothers so often become the "default parent" — and whether that's a choice or something that quietly happens over time 🧠 The real long-term impact of carrying the mental load on a mother's mental and physical health — from a physician's perspective 🧠 Why "just ask for help" doesn't work — and what kind of support actually moves the needle 🧠 Realistic things moms can do to lighten the load — plus the bigger systemic conversation we can't ignore About Our Guest: Dr. Minisha Ghimire is a physician training in internal medicine and obesity medicine, and the founder of Momkinz. She is a passionate advocate for postpartum mothers and believes that supporting moms goes far beyond the six-week checkup. Her work sits at the intersection of medicine and maternal wellness, and she brings both clinical insight and genuine compassion to every conversation about motherhood. Connect with Dr. Minisha Ghimire: * Official Website: www.momkinz.com * YouTube: @momkinz mental load of motherhood, new mom mental health, default parent, postpartum mental health, invisible labor motherhood, emotional labor moms, postpartum anxiety, mom burnout, maternal mental health podcast, postpartum support, what is the mental load, fourth trimester mental health, mom overwhelm, Dr. Minisha Ghimire, Momkinz, motherhood and mental health, postpartum physician, internal medicine postpartum, new mother support, breastfeeding, legendairy milk, nursing, pumping, milk production www.NewMomTalk.com [https://newmomtalk.com/] Buy Me A Coffee [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/mamawearsathleisure] IG: @NewMomTalk.Podcast [https://www.instagram.com/newmomtalk.podcast/] YouTube: @NewMomTalk [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQZH_AmrVDn7cdGHROIQH6Q] Mariela@NewMomTalk.com Interested in being a guest? Shoot us an email! - best parenting podcast - best new mom podcast - best podcasts for new moms - best pregnancy podcast - best podcast for expecting moms - best podcast for moms - best podcast for postpartum - best prenatal podcast - best postnatal podcast - best podcast for postnatal moms - best podcast for pregnancy moms - new mom  - expecting mom - first time mom

The Organized Home is Possible: Real Systems for Busy Moms with Blair Mohr Ep. 133

If you've ever looked around your house at 7pm and felt completely defeated by the clutter, the to-do list, and the sheer volume of stuff that comes with raising little ones — this episode is for you. Mariela sits down with Blair Moht, mom of two boys and owner of The Organized Mommy Co., a professional organizing company built specifically for families. Blair's approach isn't about having a Pinterest-perfect home — it's about creating systems that actually work for real life, reducing the daily decision fatigue that quietly drains moms, and building habits that stick even when your schedule is packed and your energy is low. If you've ever thought "I'm just not an organized person" — Blair is about to change your mind. In This Episode, We Cover: 🏠 The most common ways disorganization shows up in family homes — and why it's not a personal failure 🏠 The foundational systems every household should have in place, and the best place to start when everything feels overwhelming 🏠 How to build habits that actually stick — even with young kids, a full schedule, and zero mental energy to spare 🏠 Small, realistic shifts families can make right now that have the biggest impact on daily stress and decision fatigue 🏠 The best tools, apps, and systems for busy families — and how to figure out which ones are actually worth your time About Our Guest: Blair Mohtris a mom of two boys and the owner of The Organized Mommy Co., a professional organizing company dedicated to helping families — especially moms — create better systems so they can love their home and feel less stressed in their spaces. Blair believes that an organized home isn't a luxury, it's a game changer for your mental health, your relationships, and your daily quality of life. Connect with Blair Mohr: * Official Website: www.theorganizedmommyco.com * IG: @theorganizedmommyco * Save on course with code NEWMOMTALK https://www.theorganizedmommyco.com/the-organized-mommies-club [https://www.theorganizedmommyco.com/the-organized-mommies-club] home organization for moms, family organization systems, how to organize your home with kids, reducing mom stress at home, habit building for busy moms, decision fatigue moms, professional organizer for families, home systems for families, organized home tips, mom burnout home chaos, how to declutter with kids, family routine systems, organization apps for families, The Organized Mommy Co., Blair Moht, postpartum home organization, toddler home organization, minimizing household stress, family productivity systems, mom mental load home organization www.NewMomTalk.com [https://newmomtalk.com/] Buy Me A Coffee [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/mamawearsathleisure] IG: @NewMomTalk.Podcast [https://www.instagram.com/newmomtalk.podcast/] YouTube: @NewMomTalk [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQZH_AmrVDn7cdGHROIQH6Q] Mariela@NewMomTalk.com Interested in being a guest? Shoot us an email! - best parenting podcast - best new mom podcast - best podcasts for new moms - best pregnancy podcast - best podcast for expecting moms - best podcast for moms - best podcast for postpartum - best prenatal podcast - best postnatal podcast - best podcast for postnatal moms - best podcast for pregnancy moms - new mom  - expecting mom - first time mom

Your Placenta Might be the Postpartum Recovery Tool You Haven't Considered Yet with Samantha Davis Ep 132

Placenta encapsulation is one of those postpartum topics that gets a lot of raised eyebrows — but also a lot of passionate advocates. In this episode, we're getting into the what, the how, and the why behind turning your placenta into capsules, and whether it might be worth considering as part of your postpartum recovery plan. From the nutrients and hormones it contains to how it may support your mood, energy, and healing in those early weeks, this is the conversation that might just change how you think about what your body grew. What You'll Learn: Samantha breaks down exactly what placenta encapsulation is and how the process works from delivery to capsule. She covers the most commonly reported benefits — from mood and energy support to postpartum recovery — and dives into the specific nutrients and hormones in the placenta that may play a role. She also gets honest about who tends to be a great candidate for encapsulation, and when it might not be the right fit. About Our Guest:  Samantha — CEO, NuHealth Placenta Samantha supports new moms through postpartum recovery with education and placenta encapsulation services. She's passionate about helping women feel more like themselves again after birth. Connect with Samantha Davie * Official Website: www.nuhealthplacenta.com * Info@nuhealthplacenta.com * IG: @nuhealth_placentaencapsulation * TikTok: @nuhealth.placenta * (213) 245-1497 placenta encapsulation benefits, what is placenta encapsulation, placenta pills postpartum, placenta encapsulation process, postpartum recovery tips, placenta hormones and nutrients, placenta encapsulation mood support, placenta encapsulation energy, postpartum healing, is placenta encapsulation safe, who should try placenta encapsulation, fourth trimester recovery, placenta encapsulation specialist, NuHealth Placenta www.NewMomTalk.com [https://newmomtalk.com/] Buy Me A Coffee [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/mamawearsathleisure] IG: @NewMomTalk.Podcast [https://www.instagram.com/newmomtalk.podcast/] YouTube: @NewMomTalk [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQZH_AmrVDn7cdGHROIQH6Q] Mariela@NewMomTalk.com Interested in being a guest? Shoot us an email! - best parenting podcast - best new mom podcast - best podcasts for new moms - best pregnancy podcast - best podcast for expecting moms - best podcast for moms - best podcast for postpartum - best prenatal podcast - best postnatal podcast - best podcast for postnatal moms - best podcast for pregnancy moms - new mom  - expecting mom - first time mom

The postpartum investment you didn't know you could plan for with Kathryn Keener from One Moon Doula Ep. 131

Postpartum doula support can be one of the most meaningful investments a family makes — but most people don't think about the cost, logistics, or timing until after the baby is already here. In this episode, we're breaking down everything you need to know to plan ahead: what postpartum doulas actually do (and how they differ from birth doulas), what it realistically costs, and the creative ways families are making it more accessible — from FSA/HSA dollars to baby registry funds to sliding scale packages. Kathryn walks us through the difference between a birth doula and a postpartum doula, what families can realistically expect to spend, and why this support is worth prioritizing in your birth budget — not saving for later. She also shares the creative ways families are making it work financially (think FSA/HSA funds and registry contributions), plus exactly when to start looking and what to ask when you're vetting someone for this role. About Our Guest Kathryn — Owner & Director, One Moon Doula Services Founded in 2013, One Moon is a boutique doula agency matching Southern California families with 30+ vetted postpartum doulas and newborn care specialists. onemoondoula.com Connect with Kathryn Keener * Official website: https://onemoondoula.com/ * IG: @onemoondoula * Youtube: @onemoondoula postpartum doula cost, what is a postpartum doula, postpartum support budget, newborn care specialist, birth doula vs postpartum doula, FSA HSA postpartum doula, postpartum doula registry fund, fourth trimester support, how to hire a postpartum doula, Southern California doula agency, when to book a postpartum doula, postpartum planning pregnancy www.NewMomTalk.com [https://newmomtalk.com/] Buy Me A Coffee [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/mamawearsathleisure] IG: @NewMomTalk.Podcast [https://www.instagram.com/newmomtalk.podcast/] YouTube: @NewMomTalk [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQZH_AmrVDn7cdGHROIQH6Q] Mariela@NewMomTalk.com Interested in being a guest? Shoot us an email! - best parenting podcast - best new mom podcast - best podcasts for new moms - best pregnancy podcast - best podcast for expecting moms - best podcast for moms - best podcast for postpartum - best prenatal podcast - best postnatal podcast - best podcast for postnatal moms - best podcast for pregnancy moms - new mom  - expecting mom - first time mom

Bedtime Blueprint: Building Baby & Toddler Sleep Foundations with Meghan Kemna Ep. 130

In this episode pediatric sleep consultant Meghan Kemna (former educator) breaks down the foundations of healthy sleep for babies and toddlers so families can move from exhausted and overwhelmed to confident and well-rested. We cover what a true sleep foundation looks like across the first few years, realistic expectations by age (newborn, 4–6 months, 6–12 months, toddler), and when to seek support. Meghan also explains the key elements of consistent routines—timing, environment, and cues—plus small, practical changes that produce big improvements, how sleep supports development and parental well‑being, and low-stress strategies for families with unpredictable schedules or multiple children. What you’ll learn * Age-by-age sleep expectations and common red flags to watch for * Core components of an effective sleep routine (timing, cues, environment) * Simple tweaks that quickly improve nighttime and nap outcomes * How better sleep supports developmental milestones and parental mental health * Low-effort strategies for chaotic schedules and sibling households About Our Guest Meghan Kemna is a former educator turned pediatric sleep consultant on a mission to help families go from exhausted and overwhelmed to confident, rested, and sleeping through the night. She offers compassionate, evidence-informed guidance tailored to real family life. Connect with Meghan Kemna * mkemna@sleepwiseconsulting.com * IG: @meghan.sleepwise baby sleep foundations, toddler sleep tips, pediatric sleep consultant, infant sleep expectations, sleep routine for babies, newborn sleep guide, naps and nighttime sleep, sleep tips for multiple children, Meghan Kemna, how to improve baby sleep, sleep consultant, sleep training, baby sleep training, newborn sleep www.NewMomTalk.com [https://newmomtalk.com/] Buy Me A Coffee [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/mamawearsathleisure] IG: @NewMomTalk.Podcast [https://www.instagram.com/newmomtalk.podcast/] YouTube: @NewMomTalk [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQZH_AmrVDn7cdGHROIQH6Q] Mariela@NewMomTalk.com Interested in being a guest? Shoot us an email! - best parenting podcast - best new mom podcast - best podcasts for new moms - best pregnancy podcast - best podcast for expecting moms - best podcast for moms - best podcast for postpartum - best prenatal podcast - best postnatal podcast - best podcast for postnatal moms - best podcast for pregnancy moms - new mom  - expecting mom - first time mom