people pleasing is selfish

you dont need to know what you're doing you just have to start

having everything figured out really is kinda fake. knowing what you're doing only comes after you start taking messy action. if you're scared to start i get it, but nike lowkey ate with the just do it thing. just TRY it, just DO it, just START! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

hating yourself doesn't make you a good person

we are taught that not "showing off" is a good thing, that being humble makes you a good person, that downplaying your accomplishments is admirable. i FEARRRRR its not the vibe guys. loving yourself loudly is a good thing!! you're allowed to know you're good at what you do. you're allowed to know you're pretty, funny, kind... literally all of it. you're also allowed to want more... guys i have a lot to say in this one. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

fear of cringe is killing your future

guys i cant STANNDDDDD people who actually think cringe exists. fear of being cringy can actually genuinely rob you of your dream life. we're breaking it downnnnn cuz it actually is that deep i fear See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

people pleasing is selfish

people pleasing is SO much easier to fight when you actually know where it's coming from. i've said it before and i'll say it againnnn people pleasing is selfish. its really just you trying to protect yourself from the discomfort that comes with potential conflict. the sooner you are honest with yourself and the people around you the sooner you find freedom. i fear it is that deep See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].

how hidden toxic people can destroy your mindset

your circle is SO important and the mindset of the people around you affects you more than you realize. in order to give yourself the headspace you need to become your best self, you need to be protective over what words enter your mind. this episode we talk about how to identify the hidden toxicity and how to set boundaries that help you drown out the noise. submit your advice questions to realdeepproductions@gmail.com :) luv u See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy [https://art19.com/privacy] and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info].