Moving After Divorce: Finding Home, Community, and a More Sustainable Life

Moving After Divorce: Finding Home, Community, and a More Sustainable Life

What happens when you make a big move after divorce, hoping for a fresh start, only to realize the new place does not feel like home? In this episode of Real Estate Connections, Mary Foerster talks with Amy Bolduc, host of the Grounded in Maine podcast, about sustainability, relocation, starting over, and the courage it takes to keep searching for a place that truly fits. Amy shares how her journey from Maine to southern Virginia, and eventually back to New England, was shaped by divorce, affordability, remote work restrictions, her desire for more land, and her dream of building a life closer to gardening, food preservation, and community. She also talks about why “proof of concept” is helpful when considering a move, but not always realistic for people with limited resources, pets, family responsibilities, or an urgent life transition. This is a conversation about much more than real estate. It is about how we decide when to take a leap, how we respond when a move does not go as planned, and why telling people what you are looking for can open unexpected doors. Amy also shares her personal approach to sustainability: you do not have to be perfect. You simply have to care for the piece of the world you occupy and do the best you can with the resources you have.  What You Will Hear *  What sustainability means to Amy  *  Why sustainability does not require perfection  *  How Amy started gardening, making jam, and preserving food  *  The story behind Grounded in Maine  *  Moving after divorce and needing a fresh start  *  Why Amy moved from Maine to Virginia  *  What she wishes she could have done before the move  *  The value of a “proof of concept” move  *  Why affordability can make trial moves impossible  *  Buying a home after only a short visit  *  Why the right property can matter as much as the right house  *  The dream of farming, land, tiny homes, and intentional community  *  Solar panels, composting, community solar, and practical sustainability  *  Why sharing what you need can lead to unexpected opportunities  *  How relationships can open doors during a move  GUEST BIO Amy Bolduc is the host of Grounded in Maine, a podcast featuring open conversations about sustainability, food, gardening, community, homesteading, practical climate action, and how people show up for the world. A self-described wannabe farm girl, Amy currently lives in Maine with her dog and two cats. She loves cooking, baking, gardening, preserving food, birdwatching, and learning from people with different experiences and perspectives. Amy’s sustainability journey grew from gardening, food preservation, volunteering at an organic farm, and launching a jam business in 2020. She started Grounded in Maine in 2022 as a place for honest conversations about creating a better future through everyday choices.  In this episode, Amy shares her own relocation story, including moving after divorce, purchasing a home in Virginia, realizing the area was not the right fit, and returning to New England while continuing to search for a more sustainable, community-centered way of living.  GUEST LINKS Grounded in Maine Podcast and Website  https://www.groundedinmaine.com/1952444 [https://www.groundedinmaine.com/1952444] Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/groundedinmainepodcast_?igsh=cjMyYzhqem9ucmxi&utm_source=qr [https://www.instagram.com/groundedinmainepodcast_?igsh=cjMyYzhqem9ucmxi&utm_source=qr] Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2553466/fan_mail/new] This episode is intended for informational purposes only and does not constitute financial or investment advice.

Moving Aging Parents: What Families Need to Know Before the Move

Moving an aging parent is rarely just about boxes, trucks, and logistics. It is about memories, family roles, downsizing, difficult decisions, safety, health changes, and the emotional work of letting go. In this episode of Real Estate Connections, Mary Foerster talks with Ryan Hegarty about what happened when a moving professional had to help move his own parents. Ryan has spent more than 16 years in the moving industry, but he says helping his parents move twice gave him a much deeper understanding of how exhausting and emotional a transition can be for families. He shares how his parents first moved from their longtime Waltham home into a smaller apartment and later moved closer to Ryan and his family in Billerica. Ryan explains why the physical move is often the easiest part. The harder work can be decluttering, deciding what to keep, preparing a home for sale, navigating health changes, packing, managing timelines, and helping parents feel respected throughout the process. Mary and Ryan also discuss the role of move managers, professionals who help families coordinate downsizing, sorting, packing, organizing, moving day, unpacking, and settling into a new home. Ryan explains why this support can be especially valuable when adult children are trying to help aging parents without becoming overwhelmed themselves. This episode is for anyone helping a parent move, considering downsizing, preparing for assisted living, moving closer to family, or trying to understand how to make a major transition feel more manageable. WHAT YOU WILL HEAR * Ryan’s personal experience moving his parents twice * Why moving parents can shift family roles quickly * The emotional side of leaving a longtime family home * Why downsizing decisions can feel overwhelming * How health changes can accelerate a move timeline * Why the moving truck is often the easiest part * How adult children can become partners instead of pushers * What a move manager does * How move managers support downsizing and senior moves * Why professional movers and move managers work well together * What can go wrong with DIY moving solutions * When portable storage containers may or may not make sense * Why listening is one of the most important service skills * How moving companies build trust with clients * Why families should plan before a move becomes urgent Ryan Hegarty is the Director of Residential Sales at Olympia, a full-service moving and relocation company. He has been with Olympia for more than 16 years, beginning his career on moving crews before transitioning into office and leadership roles. Today, Ryan helps clients plan local, interstate, and complex residential moves with a focus on communication, problem-solving, and reducing stress during major life transitions. Olympia identifies Ryan as its Director of Residential Sales and notes that its moving consultants work directly with clients to understand needs and create detailed move plans. In this episode, Ryan shares the personal experience of moving his own parents twice, first from their longtime family home in Waltham and later closer to family in Billerica. His perspective offers a rare combination of professional moving expertise and firsthand understanding of the emotional realities families face when parents downsize or relocate. GUEST CONTACT  Olympia Website: https://olympiamoving.com/ [https://olympiamoving.com/] Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2553466/fan_mail/new] This episode is intended for informational purposes only and does not constitute financial or investment advice.

Best YouTube Channels and Podcasts for Homebuying and Retirement Planning

In this solo episode of Real Estate Connections, Mary Foerster shares two YouTube channels she believes are especially helpful for people thinking about buying a home, preparing for retirement, improving financial confidence, or making sense of long-term care costs. First, Mary recommends How to Buy a Home with David Sidoni, a consumer-focused resource designed to help future homeowners understand the homebuying process, challenge common myths, and make a step-by-step plan for purchasing a property. While David’s work is especially focused on first-time homebuyers, Mary explains why his content can also be useful for anyone trying to better understand real estate vocabulary, mortgage calculators, credit preparation, affordability, and long-range planning. Mary also shares why she has become a fan of Erin Talks Money, a YouTube channel focused on personal finance, retirement planning, long-term care, retirement spending, investing, and financial decision-making. This episode is not financial advice. It is a resource-sharing conversation for listeners who want more information, better questions, and greater confidence as they make decisions over time. What You Will Hear * Why Mary recommends David Sidoni’s How to Buy a Home * How parallel planning can help future homeowners * Why mortgage calculators can be useful but incomplete * How credit, income, savings, and timing affect homebuying decisions * Why real estate vocabulary matters more than people think * Why Mary recommends Erin Talks Money * How to think about retirement spending * Why long-term care planning can feel overwhelming * How personal finance education can reduce fear * Why planning one step at a time matters Resources Mentioned How to Buy a Home with David Sidoni  Website: https://howtobuyahome.com/ [https://howtobuyahome.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HowToBuyAHome [https://www.youtube.com/@HowToBuyAHome] Erin Talks Money  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@erintalksmoney [https://www.youtube.com/@erintalksmoney] Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2553466/fan_mail/new] This episode is intended for informational purposes only and does not constitute financial or investment advice.

Massachusetts ADU Law Explained: What Homeowners Need to Know

Can Massachusetts homeowners now build an accessory dwelling unit on their property? In this special episode, originally recorded for Married to Real Estate at Westford Community Access Television, Mary Foerster and Mary McCauley interview Massachusetts State Representative James “Jim” Arciero about the state’s new accessory dwelling unit law and its potential impact on homeowners, families, municipalities, renters and real estate investors. The Massachusetts Affordable Homes Act made qualifying accessory dwelling units available by right in single-family zoning districts. Under the statewide law, an ADU may be located within a home, attached to an existing residence or built as a detached structure on the same property. State law generally defines a qualifying ADU as being no larger than 900 square feet or half the gross floor area of the principal dwelling, whichever is smaller. Representative Arciero explains why the state changed the previous approval system, how long special-permit processes could take, and why legislators viewed ADUs as one tool for addressing Massachusetts’ housing shortage. The conversation also explores the people who may benefit most from ADUs, including: * Older adults who want to age in place * Families caring for relatives with disabilities * Young adults struggling with housing affordability * Homeowners seeking rental income * Families interested in multigenerational living * Investors looking for additional housing opportunities Mary, Mary and Representative Arciero also address some of the more complicated questions surrounding ADUs, including septic capacity, local permitting, construction costs, public safety, neighborhood concerns, owner-occupancy requirements and the role of individual cities and towns. Massachusetts began allowing qualifying ADUs by right statewide in February 2025 following the 2024 Affordable Homes Act. In This Episode * What qualifies as an accessory dwelling unit * What “by right” means for Massachusetts homeowners * Why the previous special-permit process created barriers * Who may benefit from building an ADU * How ADUs can support aging in place * Housing options for family members with disabilities * ADUs as potential sources of rental income * How Massachusetts is responding to its housing shortage * Attached, detached and interior ADU options * The statewide 900-square-foot standard * When a local special permit may still be required * Septic system and Title 5 considerations * Construction costs and financing resources * Public-safety benefits of legal, permitted housing * Community concerns about density and neighborhood character * Commercial-to-residential property conversions * The future of ADU construction across Massachusetts Guest Bio Massachusetts State Representative James “Jim” Arciero James Arciero is the Massachusetts State Representative for the 2nd Middlesex District. He has served in the Massachusetts House of Representatives since 2009 and represents Westford, Littleton and part of Chelmsford. Representative Arciero previously served as House Chair of the Joint Committee on Housing and played an important role in conversations surrounding housing production, accessory dwelling units and the Massachusetts Affordable Homes Act. He is a graduate of Westford Academy and holds a bachelor’s degree from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth and a Master of Public Administration from Suffolk University. About the Co-Hosts Mary Foerster Mary Foerster is a real estate professional and the host of Real Estate Connections, a podcast focused on real estate decisions, housing transitions, aging in place and the professionals who help people navigate important life and property changes. Mary McCauley Mary McCauley is a Massachusetts and New Hampshire real estate professional and one of the co-hosts of Married to Real Estate. Her work combines real estate expertise with a strong commitment to the Westford community. Episode Credit This conversation was originally recorded for Married to Real Estate at Westford Community Access Television and is being shared as a special episode of Real Estate Connections. Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2553466/fan_mail/new] This episode is intended for informational purposes only and does not constitute financial or investment advice.

Should You Move? How to Make a Smart Relocation Decision at Midlife and later in life

Have you ever dreamed about moving somewhere new, only to wonder if you're chasing a destination or a feeling? In this episode of Real Estate Connections, Mary Foerster welcomes relocation coach, corporate executive, and Moving For Smarties founder Mariette Frey for a fascinating conversation about the emotional side of moving. Together, they explore why so many people dream about relocating, how to determine whether a move is truly right for you, and the hidden psychological factors that can influence life-changing decisions. After moving 20 times in 24 years across six major U.S. cities, Mariette developed the FRED Framework, a practical decision-making process that helps people evaluate major life transitions through four key pillars: Finances, Robustness, Ecosystem, and Dreams. This conversation goes far beyond real estate. It explores identity, grief, community, purpose, retirement dreams, and how to create a life that aligns with what matters most. In This Episode * Why people often chase feelings instead of locations * How to know if a move is truly right for you * The difference between vacation thinking and relocation thinking * Why community matters more than many people realize * The hidden grief involved in moving * How identity shifts during major life transitions * The FRED Framework for decision making * Why testing a city before moving can save costly mistakes * Moving after retirement and creating a new chapter * How to reduce stress during a relocation * The power of re-parenting yourself during transitions * Why moving home can sometimes be the best move Mariette Frey is an award-winning corporate executive, certified life coach, podcast host, and relocation expert who has guided thousands of individuals through major life transitions. Known as "the guide people call when they're at a crossroads," Mariette helps people navigate relocation decisions, career changes, lifestyle redesigns, and identity shifts with confidence and clarity. Having personally moved 20 times in 24 years across six major U.S. cities, she developed the FRED Framework, a structured decision-making process that helps people evaluate finances, resilience, community, and long-term dreams before making major life changes. Today, Mariette shares practical tools and emotional intelligence strategies through her Moving For Smarties platform, podcast, coaching programs, and educational resources. Connect with Mariette Frey Website  Moving For Smarties [http://www.movingforsmarties.com?utm_source=chatgpt.com] Instagram  @mariettesonthemove [https://www.instagram.com/mariettesonthemove?utm_source=chatgpt.com] LinkedIn  Mariette Frey LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariettefrey/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] YouTube  Moving For Smarties YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@Movingforsmarties] Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2553466/fan_mail/new] This episode is intended for informational purposes only and does not constitute financial or investment advice.