Real Finds Podcast: Commercial Real Estate Unfiltered
Dr. Carey Chronis has spent more than 25 years running a pediatric practice in Ventura, California, and somewhere in the middle of it he discovered that the skill of connecting with a four-year-old, a defiant teenager, and a frustrated employee is fundamentally the same skill. His forthcoming book, Connection Rethink: Team Culture from Home to Boardroom, argues that the leaders who win at work and lose at home are usually making one mistake in both places: they jump in to solve instead of stopping to listen. In this episode of The Real Finds Podcast, Gordon Lamphere sits down with Dr. Chronis to unpack why connection is infrastructure, not an afterthought, and why the biggest threat to a multi-generational real estate portfolio is rarely the market. It's the family. We get into the discipline of listening without solving, the trap of micromanaging heirs and employees alike, and the "take two" technique for defusing conflict before it hardens. Most importantly for our audience, we dig into why family offices and multi-generational real estate families see portfolios collapse not from bad deals, but from family stress and misalignment, and what the family dinner table has to teach the boardroom. What we cover: - Why the connection you build with a team and the connection you build with a family run on identical skills - Listening without solving, and how high performers quietly train their people to stop coming to them - Connection as infrastructure: the daily huddle, the weeknight family dinner, and why rituals beat intentions - The micromanaging trap, from the helicopter parent to the founder who won't let an heir deploy capital - Building daily trust by asking what the system got wrong, not who's to blame - The "take two" technique for resetting a conversation that came out wrong - Grading stress across home, work, and friends on a zero-to-ten scale, and knowing when to bring in help- Why family offices and multi -generational real estate families lose portfolios to misalignment, not markets - Phones, screens, and self-discipline: protecting mealtime and the hour before bed - His ten-year view: the built environment shifting from efficiency toward spaces designed for human connection New episodes drop every Wednesday at 3 PM CT on YouTube and Spotify. Subscribe so you never miss a conversation. The Real Finds Podcast is hosted by Gordon Lamphere, J.D., a fourth-generation commercial real estate broker and Vice President of Sales and Leasing at Van Vlissingen and Co., Chicagoland's oldest private commercial real estate firm, founded in 1879. Recognized by independent industry publications among the region's top brokers, Gordon and his team close 100+ transactions annually across industrial, office, retail, medical office, land, and investment properties in Greater Chicagoland and Southeastern Wisconsin. Learn more at vvco.com or call 847-846-6902. Connect with Dr. Carey Chronis: Website: www.CareyChronisMD.com [http://urlscanner.mailmarshal.cloud/?c=22645&d=uofN6idzmDvC0NYHvia-2L5QUu1l5QsdpLk4AwDXPg&s=218&u=http%3a%2f%2fwww%2eCareyChronisMD%2ecom] Book: Connection Rethink: Team Culture from Home to Boardroom LinkedIn: Carey Chronis, MD #CommercialRealEstate #FamilyOffice #RealEstateInvesting #FamilyBusiness #Leadership #TeamCulture #CRE #SuccessionPlanning #MultiGenerationalWealth #RealFindsPodcast
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