Your feelings are redundant

THE DESIRE OF ILLUSION AND INTEREST

This week on Scenic Reality, Temi and Ise are joined by Rukayat and Wonuola for a conversation that starts casually but quickly spirals into something deeper, sharper, and unexpectedly revealing. From the streets to the systems, we take a hard look at design in Nigeria how something so creative has started to feel repetitive, almost monopolized, with everyone chasing the same aesthetic while truly local, meaningful design gets overlooked. It raises a bigger question: are we creating for expression or just for acceptance? That thought flows into the curious case of churches why do so many exist side by side, almost like competitors in the same space? Is it community, or quiet rivalry? And somewhere in the middle of all this, we touch on a heavier reality: bail. Who it really serves, who it leaves behind, and why fairness sometimes feels like a luxury. Wonuola brings a strong perspective on communication or the lack of it and how it silently fuels many of these issues. That opens the floor to a deeper introspection: where do these problems actually begin? But the heart of the episode settles on something even more personal manipulation, deceit, and dishonesty. We unpack the real impact of people who twist truth, especially when it comes from those who claim to care about us. How dangerous can they be? And how much damage do they leave behind? Then comes the twist: is manipulation always negative, or can it be a tool especially in business? What starts as a simple question turns into a full dissection, with perspectives clashing, aligning, and evolving in real time. It’s honest, it’s layered, and it’s one of those conversations that lingers long after it ends. Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast. Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms. Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypod Tiklok: @sr_pod YouTube: @scenicrealitypod Twitter: @sr_pod You can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing. https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast? utm_source=linktree_profile_share

DRUGS AS A COPING MECHANISM

This episode of Scenic Reality is a chaotic but honest reflection of what it really feels like to exist right now. From the unbearable heat and everyday frustrations to deeper conversations about how we cope, we unpack the different ways people try to survive the pressure. We talk about crowd behavior, individualism, and the subtle ways society pushes us into survival mode. The conversation also takes a turn into coping mechanisms both harmless and harmful including sex, escapism, and drug use. We share real-life encounters, question the normalization of certain habits, and challenge the idea that substances enhance creativity or make life easier. Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast. Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms. Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypod Tiklok: @sr_pod YouTube: @scenicrealitypod Twitter: @sr_pod You can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing. https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast? utm_source=linktree_profile_share

WHAT IS THE NEW NORM?

Guess who’s back? Temi and Ise have dusted off the microphones and reopened the famous kobo notebook for a brand new season of Scenic Reality and yes, there are plenty of cases inside. In this episode, the duo returns with unfiltered conversations about Nigeria and the strange way we seem to be moving backwards instead of forward… even though we clearly have the power to change things. They also get into serious conversations about rape, molestation, and how society keeps sexualizing almost everything these days. And of course, the conversation somehow finds its way to the growing BBL era—beauty standards, pressure, and the things people are doing to keep up. Expect honest opinions, a few laughs, some “wait… what?” moments, and the kind of chaotic conversation you’ve probably missed. Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast. Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms. Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypod Tiklok: @sr_pod YouTube: @scenicrealitypod Twitter: @sr_pod You can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing. https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast? utm_source=linktree_profile_share

THE HOLIDAY CHOAS: Decembizzy Routine

December is not just a season in Lagos, it’s a lifestyle, and on this episode, Ise and Temi spoke head-first into all the madness we love! From non-stop music blasting everywhere, back-to-back parties, sparkling decorations, and food that refuses to let you diet, we relive what Christmas in Lagos truly feels like. We talk about the joy (and drama) of traveling to the village, family gatherings that start calm and end loud, and the beautiful chaos that makes the holidays unforgettable. We also take a moment to reflect, celebrating our accomplishments, and acknowledging how far we’ve come this year. Most importantly, this episode is filled with gratitude. We’re thankful for you — every listener who tuned in, shared an episode, laughed with us, and kept this podcast alive. Your love and support mean everything, and we don’t take it for granted at all. Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast. Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms. Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypod Tiklok: @sr_pod YouTube: @scenicrealitypod Twitter: @sr_pod You can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing. https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast? utm_source=linktree_profile_share

Your feelings are redundant

On this episode of Scenic Reality, Temi and Ise reflect on the unpredictable rhythm of life in Nigeria, from the playful idea of buying a boat to prepare for rainy days, to the curious way people feel entitled to correct others simply because they disagree. They talked on how emotions shape our reactions, and why it’s perfectly human to feel vulnerable sometimes. It’s not every day you have to be tough; sometimes, what we really need is a gentle word and a bit of understanding. Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast. Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms. Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypod Tiklok: @sr_pod YouTube: @scenicrealitypod Twitter: @sr_pod You can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing. https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast? utm_source=linktree_profile_share