Part Two: Communication Breakdowns, Windows of Tolerance & Parenting Through Crisis

Part Two : 10 True or False Facts on Separation, Divorce and Parenting Apart

In Part Two of this eye-opening episode, host Katy Harris is once again joined by Lucy Morrison-Childs as they continue to tackle some of the most common and often misunderstood beliefs around separation, divorce, and co-parenting. Katy and Lucy continue to un-pack the 10 true or false statements. From the emotional realities of family breakdown to the practical workings of the family court system, each myth is unpacked with warmth, clarity, and professional expertise. Katy and Lucy provide compassionate, real-world context to help parents and supporters better understand the truth behind the legal and emotional journey of separation. If you're looking for honest answers and expert-led guidance delivered with empathy and insight, this episode is a must-listen. About the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast: Hosted by professional family mediator Katy Harris, the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast offers practical tools, real-life experiences, and expert conversations to help families navigate separation with clarity and compassion. Each episode brings together voices from across the family support landscape to offer direction, support, and hope. 🔗 For mediation support, visit mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk [https://www.mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk] 🎧 Powered by Paragon Creative Studios [https://www.paragoncreativestudios.co.uk/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Part One: 10 True or False Facts on Separation, Divorce and Parenting Apart

In Part One of this interactive and insightful episode, Katy Harris and Lucy Morrison-Childs take a closer look at the common myths and misconceptions surrounding separation, divorce and co-parenting as they separate fact from fiction. Presented in a fun and thought-provoking game format, Katy and Lucy give 10 statements, and our producers and listeners have to guess wether they are true or false. With each statement, Katy and Lucy unpack the reality behind the myth, offering compassionate and practical insights grounded in their experience. Listeners will come away with greater clarity about what really happens in family court. Whether you're navigating a separation yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode delivers essential truths with empathy and expert perspective. About the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast: Hosted by professional family mediator Katy Harris, the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast provides expert guidance, real-life experiences, and supportive tools to help families navigate separation with clarity and compassion. Each episode brings together voices from across the family support landscape, offering hope, direction and a fresh perspective on co-parenting, communication, and healing. For compassionate mediation support, visit Katy Harris at Mediation Matters Midlands: mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk [https://mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21195062526&gbraid=0AAAAADjmXnTPsNa0U5d9PgYqViL4bKnVD&gclid=Cj0KCQjw64jDBhDXARIsABkk8J6NXd4DOaSXeSm-j0H54p0-0bgMFnM0qWjo_vYEvD3LENJQ9a2pU5waArAXEALw_wcB] Powered by Paragon Creative Studios [https://www.paragoncreativestudios.co.uk/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Part Three: Perfect Parenting Doesn’t Exist – Parental Alienation, Men’s Emotions & Real Talk

In the third and final part of this heartfelt series, Katy Harris and Penny Ruth Willis are joined by podcast producer and father Rob Spence for a real and honest conversation. Rob shares his personal experience of parenting apart and reflects on the emotional challenges fathers can face during and after separation. Together, the trio discuss the damaging pressure of striving for “perfect parenting,” and how letting go of unrealistic expectations can actually lead to better outcomes for both parents and children. They tackle the complex and often misunderstood topic of parental alienation, and highlight the importance of recognising men’s emotional journeys during family breakdowns. This episode is a compassionate, thought-provoking end to the series — offering raw, relatable perspectives and a reminder that there’s no perfect script for parenting through separation. Just connection, compassion, and a willingness to keep showing up. About the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast:Hosted by professional family mediator Katy Harris, the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast provides expert guidance, real-life experiences, and supportive tools to help families navigate separation with clarity and compassion. Each episode brings together voices from across the family support landscape, offering hope, direction and a fresh perspective on co-parenting, communication, and healing. For compassionate mediation support, visit Katy Harris at Mediation Matters Midlands: mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk [https://mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk] To learn more about NVR or access counselling and psychotherapy for individuals, couples, families and young people, visit Penny Ruth Willis at NVRnorthampton: nvrnorthampton.co.uk [https://nvrnorthampton.co.uk] Produced by Paragon Creative Studios [www.paragoncreativestudios.co.uk]. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Part Two: Communication Breakdowns, Windows of Tolerance & Parenting Through Crisis

In part two of this engaging three-part series, Katy Harris and Penny Ruth Willis continue their conversation on parenting through separation and conflict. This episode focuses on how communication — or the lack of it — can deeply affect both parents and children during and after a breakup. They introduce the concept of the “window of tolerance,” a psychological model that helps parents understand emotional regulation. Penny explains how recognising when children (and adults) are outside of their window of tolerance can improve responses to extreme behaviours. They also explore practical tools for managing breakdowns, rebuilding connection, and staying grounded during emotional storms. Whether you’re navigating a high-conflict separation or looking for ways to stay calm and responsive with your children, this episode offers powerful strategies and reflections to support families in crisis. About the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast: Hosted by professional family mediator Katy Harris, the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast provides expert guidance, real-life experiences, and supportive tools to help families navigate separation with clarity and compassion. Each episode brings together voices from across the family support landscape, offering hope, direction and a fresh perspective on co-parenting, communication, and healing. For compassionate mediation support, visit Katy Harris at Mediation Matters Midlands: mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk [https://mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk] To learn more about NVR or access counselling and psychotherapy for individuals, couples, families and young people, visit Penny Ruth Willis at NVRnorthampton: nvrnorthampton.co.uk [https://nvrnorthampton.co.uk] Produced by Paragon Creative Studios [www.paragoncreativestudios.co.uk]. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Part One: It Takes a Village – Adverse Childhood Experiences, NVR and the Parent’s Promise

In the first episode of this powerful three-part series, host Katy Harris is joined by Penny Ruth Willis, Founder of NVRnorthampton and an expert in Nonviolent Resistance (NVR), to explore how we can support children through separation and challenging behaviours. Together, they discuss the importance of community support — the idea that “it takes a village to raise a child” — and how building a network around parents can make a vital difference. Katy and Penny also unpack the concept of the ‘Parent’s Promise’, a commitment to keeping children’s needs front and centre during difficult transitions. They delve into the impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs), and how early trauma or conflict can shape a child’s behaviour and emotional resilience. Whether you're a parent, carer, or professional supporting young people, this episode is packed with insights and practical thinking to help you handle separation, co-parenting, and conflict with empathy and strength. About the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast: Hosted by professional family mediator Katy Harris, the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast provides expert guidance, real-life experiences, and supportive tools to help families navigate separation with clarity and compassion. Each episode brings together voices from across the family support landscape, offering hope, direction and a fresh perspective on co-parenting, communication, and healing. For compassionate mediation support, visit Katy Harris at Mediation Matters Midlands: mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk [https://mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk] To learn more about NVR or access counselling and psychotherapy for individuals, couples, families and young people, visit Penny Ruth Willis at NVRnorthampton: nvrnorthampton.co.uk [https://nvrnorthampton.co.uk] Produced by Paragon Creative Studios [www.paragoncreativestudios.co.uk]. ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.