The Parent's Bleachers: A Different Conversation About Being a Band Parent

The Parent's Bleachers: A Different Conversation About Being a Band Parent

Every parent eventually asks the question: "What am I supposed to do now?" In this episode, we explore the real role of a band parent—not as a manager, fixer, or sideline coach, but as a steady source of support while students grow through the challenges and opportunities that music education provides. This conversation is about trust, perspective, resilience, booster culture, and why simply showing up may be one of the most important things a parent can do. Whether you're a brand-new band parent or a seasoned veteran, this episode is a reminder that the performance belongs to the students—but the journey belongs to all of us. Follow the show, join the website. We are here to support you.

When They Come Home Different: A Drum Corps Letter to Parents

This episode is a letter to drum corps parents, especially those sending their kids off for their first summer on tour. When they come home, they may be different: tired, quiet, grieving, independent, restless, and still emotionally connected to the people and world they just left behind. That change is not something to fear. It is something to understand.

Exposure Doesn't Pay the Mortgage

Every year, as marching arts programs begin hiring staff, designers, arrangers, clinicians, consultants, and support personnel, the same conversation resurfaces: "We don't have a budget, but it would be great exposure." Today, we're tackling a difficult truth that many organizations need to hear. Creative work has value. Expertise has value. Experience has value. And while many of us gladly volunteer, donate time, and help organizations in need, charity only works when it remains a choice—not an expectation. In this episode, we discuss why compensation matters, the difference between appreciation and payment, and how sustainable support for the arts requires supporting the people who serve them. Because exposure doesn't pay the mortgage. And "for the kids" doesn't pay the grocery bill. #SoundstageEDU #MarchingArts #BandDirectors #BoosterClubs #MusicEducation #ArtsAdvocacy #CreativeProfessionals #Leadership #Culture #Governance

Your Booster Problem Isn’t Fundraising

Everywhere I look right now, I see the same conversations happening inside booster organizations across the country. “We need more fundraising.” “We can’t get volunteers.” “The boosters and director are fighting.” “The school won’t fund us.” “The same parents do everything.” “We’re exhausted.” But what if fundraising isn’t actually the real problem? In this episode, we unpack the deeper issue quietly affecting fine arts booster organizations nationwide: the complete lack of governance literacy, long-term structure, operational clarity, and sustainability planning inside many volunteer-run organizations. We dive deep into: * booster vs district responsibility, * governance breakdowns, * financial transparency, * accountability, * director/booster tension, * volunteer burnout, * asset ownership, * reimbursement concerns, * private benefit and nonprofit risk, * personality-driven organizations, * and why so many groups are operating in constant survival mode. This episode is not anti-director. It is not anti-booster. It is not anti-fundraising. It is a wake-up call. Because healthy organizations are not built on vibes, panic fundraising, emotional pressure, and institutional exhaustion. They are built on structure. If your booster organization feels overwhelmed, chaotic, emotionally tense, financially unclear, or constantly one fundraiser away from collapse… this episode is for you. Join the SoundstageEDU community for governance resources, leadership development, booster support, consulting, and real conversations about the future of arts education support organizations.

Selective Outrage: The Art We Protect vs. The Art We Fear

If controversy is the standard, then why are only certain stories considered dangerous? A Wisconsin school board removed a student concert piece because of the historical figure it honored. That decision sparked a much larger question: Why are some controversial artists, composers, and historical narratives accepted in arts education… while others suddenly become unacceptable? In this episode, Mike DeJohn takes a deep dive into the Watertown controversy surrounding Omar Thomas’s A Mother of a Revolution! and asks the uncomfortable question many people are avoiding: If educational institutions are going to scrutinize art based on identity, politics, morality, historical violence, or controversy… then why are those standards applied so selectively? This episode explores: * the inconsistency of controversy standards in arts education * composers like Tchaikovsky, Copland, Bernstein, and Wagner * protest music, political theater, and historical art movements * the role of discomfort in education * the difference between education and endorsement * why students are paying attention to how adults handle these moments * how fear quietly reshapes educational culture This is not an episode about political tribalism. It is an episode about honesty. Because once you start banning art based on controversial history, identity, or association, the entire history of performance art becomes far more complicated than many communities are prepared to admit. And students are watching how adults respond.