EP025: Embracing Grief: The Night A Cheeseburger Changed Everything!

EP025: Embracing Grief: The Night A Cheeseburger Changed Everything!

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2589219/fan_mail/new] Grief can make you feel like your body is electric, like you’re back in the storm without warning, even years later. We wanted to tell the truth about that, so we invited David Linnell back to the show. David is the Director of Meals on Wheels Diablo Region, a CrossFit guy, and a servant-hearted leader but today he shares the part of his life that reshaped everything: losing his son Justin after a 14-year battle with opioid addiction that began when Justin was just 14 years old and ended with fentanyl.  We talk through what addiction looks like inside a family: the fear of “the call,” the chaos of relapse, and the fragile wins that can come with treatment tools like Vivitrol. David also walks us into the aftermath, including the federal case and the victim impact statement he was asked to give in court. Then the story takes an unexpected turn: the night before court, a stranger feeds him after hours and introduces himself with the same first name as the dealer. That moment flips David’s posture from rage to a kind of grounded compassion, leading him to speak to the dealer’s mother with empathy and a challenge to keep showing up for her son.  We also get practical about healing in the fourth quarter of life: grief counseling, leaning on friends, finding peace outdoors through camping and fly fishing, and giving ourselves permission to cry when it hits. David’s hurricane metaphor for grief is one you’ll want to share with someone you love.  If this conversation moves you, please subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review. And if you want to support our community work, look for the donation link for Meals on Wheels and come out for Ted’s birthday challenge on July 18.

EP024: Lisa Gets Her Buzz From Climbing Mountains, Not Drinking Coffee!

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2589219/fan_mail/new] A lot of people say they want to “age well.” Lisa Enea Giuliano actually lives it and she does it with muddy shoes, ski edges, a pickleball paddle, and a mindset that refuses to quit when things hurt. She’s 68, relentlessly active, and proof that the fourth quarter of life can be strong, adventurous, and deeply joyful when you commit to movement and keep adapting. We get into how her athletic identity started early, including competing alongside boys in track, and how a single moment during COVID turned into a full-on hiking mission. Lisa breaks down what it’s like to chase big mountain goals like the Catskill 3500 challenge and the Adirondack high peaks, plus how she trains at home, why she plays pickleball like it’s the championship, and what “bagging a peak” feels like when you earn the view. We also go beyond fitness. Lisa talks honestly about knee pain, injections, and the real work of staying mobile, then shares something many people miss: type 2 diabetes can be genetic even if you look “fit.” We discuss medication support, protein, strength, and why regular health checkups matter. And one of our favorite parts is “Dinner at Nana’s,” her weekly no-TV family tradition that keeps her connected to her kids and 11 grandkids. If you want practical motivation for healthy aging, active lifestyle habits after 60, and the belief that movement is medicine, hit play. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs a push, and leave us a review so more people find the show.

EP023: Do You Stop Playing Because You Get Old, Or Do You Get Old Because You Stop Playing?

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2589219/fan_mail/new] Your body changes with age, but the part of you that loves to compete doesn’t automatically disappear and pretending it should is a mistake. We sit down with Nick Lusson, Athletic Director at the Olympic Club in San Francisco, to talk about what he’s learned working with athletes across the full age spectrum, from youth players to fourth-quarter competitors and even people still setting goals in their 80s, 90s, and beyond.  We get into why unstructured “just go play” time matters, not only for kids, but for adults who want to stay sharp, confident, and engaged. Nick breaks down how pickup-style play builds problem-solving, self-efficacy, and the kind of ownership that keeps an active lifestyle from fading when motivation dips. Then we push into the bigger framework: lifespan vs healthspan and a third idea we love, your play span, how long you can keep doing the sports and activities that make you feel alive.  You’ll hear practical guidance for training in the fourth quarter of life without building a fragile, one-sport body. We talk anti-specialization, varying your routine with strength training, mobility, and balance, and why community is often the difference between “I’ll start Monday” and actually showing up. Nick also shares the mirror test and the discipline-over-motivation mindset, plus a grounded message for former athletes who want to restart after years off: forgive yourself, start small, and respect recovery.  If this resonates, subscribe, share the episode with a friend who needs a push, and leave a review so more people can find The Fourth Quarter. What’s one goal you want to train for this year?

EP022: What If Your Dad’s Greatest Lesson Was Unspoken

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2589219/fan_mail/new] Father’s Day can be joyful, complicated, or both and sometimes it’s the one day that makes you replay your whole childhood in a few minutes. We go off the cuff with raw stories about our dads: what we misunderstood when we were young, what we admire now, and what we’re still working through as men living in the fourth quarter of life. We talk about dads who weren’t always at the games because they were grinding to provide, and how adulthood changes the way we read that absence. We dig into the unspoken lessons that shaped us anyway: honesty in business, treating people with dignity, staying calm when things go wrong, and the kind of leadership that never asks others to do what you won’t do yourself. Along the way, we share family-business memories, laugh at a couple of “how did that even happen?” moments, and reflect on generosity that expects nothing in return, including caring for people on the margins. We also zoom out into longevity and health mindset: why family becomes the strongest motivation to stay fit, why men’s health and prostate health matter as we age, and a perspective shift we love when stress hits hard: “Could money solve that problem?” If yes, maybe it’s not the real problem. We close with a tender song tribute and a simple challenge to choose a better perspective, even if your story with your dad is imperfect. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave us a review. Then tell us: what’s one thing your father did that you only understand now?

EP021: Wrinkles, Stairs, And A Beer On The Beach

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2589219/fan_mail/new] She’s about to turn 83, she flew to Greece alone, hiked rocky gorges and crater rims, and somehow came home with more energy than most people half her age. That’s why we call Betty Stanfield our guiding light. We start by catching up on what it takes to keep moving in the fourth quarter of life, even when travel, schedules, and fatigue hit hard. We also share an update on Mitch, who’s starting GLP-1 medication and doing it with a plan. We talk plainly about GLP-1 weight loss, the real risk of muscle loss, and why strength training, high-protein nutrition, and quality foods matter even more when your appetite drops. If you’re curious about GLP-1s, sustainable fat loss, addiction recovery support, or just building a healthier routine, this part is packed with practical direction. Then Betty breaks down how she prepares for healthy aging and solo travel: research the terrain, pack light, expect stairs and cobblestones, and “pretend like you’re training for a marathon” before you go. We get into jet lag strategy, listening to your body, and why everyday movement (bending, walking, taking the stairs) is not a hassle, it’s a gift. We close with a reminder to give yourself grace and to focus less on wrinkles and more on the energy you bring into a room. Subscribe for more stories and coaching, share this with someone who needs a nudge to move, and leave us a review so more people can find the show.