The Truth About Female Desire, Orgasms, and Sex That We Were Never Taught with Dr. sally Greenwald

The Truth About Female Desire, Orgasms, and Sex That We Were Never Taught with Dr. sally Greenwald

If you've ever wondered why you don't want your husband to walk through the door and rip your clothes off anymore, this episode is for you. If you've ever quietly believed something was wrong with you because you don't orgasm easily, or at all, this episode is for you too. I sat down with Dr. Sally Greenwald, a board-certified OB/GYN with specialized training in menopause medicine, and what she shared genuinely stopped me in my tracks. We were taught to protect ourselves from pregnancy and disease. We were never taught how our bodies actually work. No one explained the difference between the desire that hits you out of nowhere and the desire that shows up once you're already in the moment. No one drew us a map of our own anatomy. No one told us what happens to any of it once perimenopause and menopause enter the picture. Dr. Greenwald walks us through the real data on desire, arousal, and orgasm. Why only a small percentage of women maintain the "spontaneous" desire we see on TV, and why that has nothing to do with being broken. What actually happens to your body hormonally and physically during this stage of life, and why so many women are quietly suffering through pain, dryness, or a total loss of interest without knowing there's a name for it and a way through it. We get into the anatomy no one taught us in school, the science behind why vibrators aren't just for fun anymore, and why scheduling sex might be the most underrated tool in your relationship. This conversation will change how you think about your own body. It might also make you a little angry about what you were never told. Both are fair. In This Episode, We Cover: * The real difference between the desire you see in movies and the desire most women actually have * Why so many women think something is wrong with them, and why they're wrong about that * What's actually happening in your body during perimenopause and menopause that no one warned you about * A simple way to figure out if your low desire is physical, psychological, or something else entirely * The one belief about your sex drive that's holding you back more than any hormone ever could * The anatomy lesson you should have gotten in school but never did * Why one tool might change your entire experience of pleasure, and the science behind it * The orgasm myth almost every woman believes, and what the data actually shows * A surprisingly simple shift that can lower pressure and bring back intimacy * Why sex might be doing more for your health than you realize This episode is for the woman who loves her partner but doesn't understand why she doesn't want sex anymore. It's for the woman who has never had an easy time reaching orgasm and has spent years quietly thinking that meant something was wrong with her. It's for anyone entering perimenopause or menopause and noticing changes in their body that no one prepared them for. And it's for every woman who is tired of comparing her real life to what she sees on a screen. Sponsors Get 30% off BATCH Gummies. Go to hellobatch.com/HORMONE [https://hellobatch.com/HORMONE] and use code HORMONE at checkout. Timeline is offering up to 39% off your first order of Mitopure. Gummies. Go to timeline.com/HORMONE [https://shop.timeline.com/HORMONE] use coupon HORMONE Try Vitali Exosomes Skin Care vitaliskincare.com/?ref=KM20 [https://www.vitaliskincare.com/?ref=KM20] use coupon KM20 to get 20% off your order! Are you in perimenopause or postmenopause and struggling with symptoms—but not getting the support you deserve? At Midlife Solutions, we specialize in hormone optimization for women in midlife. 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Quick Hits: The Hidden Influence of Sunlight and Circadian Rhythm on Blood Sugar & Metabolism

Welcome to Quick Hits — where we bring you the most impactful moments from past episodes in under 15 minutes. Today's clip comes from one of our most replayed conversations. If you want the full episode, check the link in the description below. Listen to the full episode. [https://karenmartel.com/blogs/podcast/the-hidden-influence-of-sunlight-and-circadian-rhythm-on-blood-sugar-metabolism-with-danielle-hamilton] Listen on Apple. [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-hidden-influence-of-sunlight-and-circadian/id1438772276?i=1000664890904] With Dani's guidance, we're exploring how simple changes in light exposure and grounding can revolutionize metabolic health, particularly for those grappling with conditions like PCOS, hypoglycemia, acne, or weight loss resistance. Dani shares her personal journey and expert insights on how morning sunlight can reset circadian rhythms, enhance metabolic functions, and improve overall well-being. We also discuss practical tips for safely incorporating natural light into daily routines, the benefits of UVA and UVB light, and the impact of blue light on sleep and metabolic health. In the full episode we discuss: * Why light exposure and grounding are crucial for improving metabolic health. * How morning sunlight can reset circadian rhythms and enhance metabolic functions. * The roles of UVA and UVB light in producing melanin and vitamin D. * Why sunglasses and sunscreen may not always be necessary. * How blue light affects sleep quality and metabolic health. * The benefits of using blue-blocking glasses and strategic light exposure. * How seasonal eating and deuterium depletion contribute to metabolic health. * The connection between lead toxicity and low vitamin D levels. * How infrared light and grounding improve redox potential and cellular health. * Why aligning light exposure and meal times with natural cycles is essential. * How UVA light enhances mood, fat burning, and detoxification. * The surprising role of infrared light in daytime melatonin production. * Why spending time outside can improve mental health. * The impact of LED lights and indoor environments on health. * How natural sunlight supports vitamin D synthesis and overall well-being. * Tips for safe sun exposure and building a solar callus. * The effectiveness of different colored light bulbs and blue-blocking glasses. * Why maintaining a pitch-black bedroom is important for melatonin release. Dani Hamilton Health website: https://www.daniellehamiltonhealth.com/ [https://www.daniellehamiltonhealth.com/] Sponsors Grab your DHEA MOOD, MUSCLE AND MOJO Supplement and get 20% off! [https://midlifesolutions.org/product/dhea-10-mg/] Are you in perimenopause or postmenopause and struggling with symptoms—but not getting the support you deserve? At Midlife Solutions, we specialize in hormone optimization for women in midlife. Our all-female clinical team offers telehealth care across all 50 U.S. states, with the ability to prescribe bioidentical estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, and thyroid medication. Book your FREE Hormone Discovery Call [https://karenmartel.practicebetter.io/#/67d0cf50491239829215fece/bookings?s=67d2f5acdf0275ca88b6bbef] Find out what's really driving your symptoms and what your next best steps are. [https://karenmartel.practicebetter.io/#/67d0cf50491239829215fece/bookings?s=67d2f5acdf0275ca88b6bbef] Visit the website: https://karenmartel.com [https://karenmartel.com/] Shop the Midlife Solutions Store Over-the-counter bioidentical hormone creams and oils — no prescription needed. Including: • Progesterone • Estrogen Face Cream • Vaginal Moisturizer [https://karenmartel.com/collections/all-products] and more! Take the Hormone Quiz [https://coaching.karenmartel.com/karens-hormone-quiz] Discover hidden hormone imbalances that could be driving your symptoms. [https://coaching.karenmartel.com/karens-hormone-quiz] Get personalized results (and yes, they may surprise you). [https://coaching.karenmartel.com/karens-hormone-quiz] Women's Peptide Weight Loss Program [https://karenmartel.com/pages/womens-peptide-weight-loss-program] Clinically guided, hormone-aware weight loss for midlife women. [https://karenmartel.com/pages/womens-peptide-weight-loss-program] Midlife RESET HRT Program [https://karenmartel.com/pages/hrt-program] A complete, supportive approach to hormone replacement therapy in midlife. [https://karenmartel.com/pages/hrt-program] Your host: Karen Martel Certified Hormone Specialist, Transformational Nutrition Coach, & Weight Loss Expert Karen's Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/karenmartelhormones/] Karen's Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/karenmartelhormones/]

Part 3 The Midlife Stress Crash: What Your Midlife Breakdown Is Actually Trying to Tell You

You've made it to part three, and this is the one that ties everything together. If parts one and two left you with a clearer picture of your stress system and your sleep, this episode takes you somewhere deeper: into your thyroid, your brain chemistry, and a layer of midlife that almost nobody talks about on a podcast about hormones. I'm breaking down why your thyroid and your adrenal system are locked in a relationship that most doctors never explain, and why a normal TSH does not mean your thyroid is actually working. Then we go into your neurotransmitters. Serotonin, dopamine, GABA, the gut connection. If you've ever wondered why you suddenly feel less resilient, less motivated, or like you don't know who you are anymore, this is the missing piece. And if you've been prescribed an antidepressant during perimenopause or menopause, I want you to hear this part especially. But this episode also goes somewhere I don't always go. We talk about the identity and spiritual layer of this transition. The old patterns, the buried feelings, the relationships and jobs that suddenly feel impossible to keep tolerating. I share something personal about what came up for me last year, and why I believe what feels like falling apart in midlife might actually be something else entirely. And because I know all of this can feel like a lot, I close the series with exactly where I'd start if I were you. What to test, what to ask for, and what I actually do every night for my own sleep. In This Episode, We Cover: * Why a normal TSH result does not mean your thyroid is functioning properly * The two way relationship between chronic stress, cortisol, and thyroid hormone conversion * Why so many women are prescribed antidepressants in perimenopause and menopause when the real driver may be hormonal * How estradiol affects serotonin (your sense of okay-ness) and dopamine (your motivation and drive) * The role of progesterone and GABA in anxiety, racing thoughts, and the 2 to 4 AM wake up * How chronic cortisol elevation disrupts neurotransmitter balance across the board * Why 90 percent of your serotonin is made in your gut, not your brain * The spiritual and identity layer of perimenopause and menopause, and why old patterns resurface now * A personal story about a repeating pattern Karen had to finally face * What Karen recommends first: the four point cortisol and DHEA test, and why it matters more than a single blood draw * Karen's actual nightly routine for sleep, including HRT and magnesium Who This Episode Is For This one is for you if you have been told your labs are normal but you do not feel normal. It's for the woman who has been on an antidepressant for years and has quietly wondered if her hormones were ever part of the conversation. It's for anyone who feels more anxious, less motivated, or less like themselves than they used to, and cannot figure out why. And it's for the woman who feels like midlife is cracking something open in her, whether that shows up as a relationship that no longer fits, a job that drains her, or a feeling she cannot quite name yet. Sponsors Timeline is offering up to 39% off your first order of Mitopure. Gummies. Go to timeline.com/HORMONE [https://shop.timeline.com/HORMONE] use coupon HORMONE Get 15% off Masszymes By BiOptimzers at bioptimizers.com/hormone [https://bioptimizers.com/hormone] with coupon code HORMONE. Are you in perimenopause or postmenopause and struggling with symptoms—but not getting the support you deserve? At Midlife Solutions, we specialize in hormone optimization for women in midlife. 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Why You Struggle to Build Muscle in Midlife (Even If You're Doing Everything Right) with Liz Plosser

You're eating "pretty well." You're moving your body. So why does it feel like your muscle is disappearing and your effort isn't paying off the way it used to? In this episode, I sit down with Liz Plosser, former editor-in-chief of Women's Health and a woman who has spent her entire career reporting on health and fitness, to talk about what changes in midlife and why the old rules stop working. Then we go deep on amino acids, what they actually are, why your body becomes less efficient at using them as estrogen declines, and why an essential amino acid supplement might be one of the smartest, simplest things you can add to your routine. We also break down the real difference between amino acids and creatine, why BCAAs may not be worth your money, and how to build a stack that actually fits a real life, not a biohacker's spreadsheet. If you've ever felt like your body stopped responding to the things that used to work, this episode will explain why, and more importantly, what to do about it. In This Episode, We Cover: * How perimenopause changed Liz's approach to fitness after decades as a cardio-focused marathoner * Why muscle loss accelerates in midlife and what that means for your metabolism, strength, and aging * The injury that led Liz to fall in love with strength training and chase a 280-pound deadlift PR * Why it's okay to want to look strong, lean, and confident, not just "healthy" * What essential amino acids are and why your body can't use protein without all nine * Why women become less efficient at absorbing amino acids from food as estrogen declines * The difference between amino acids and creatine, and why you likely need both * Why branched-chain amino acids (BCAAs) may not be worth the hype or the money * New research on creatine and brain health, including higher doses on high-demand days * How to build a simple, realistic daily protein and supplement routine, especially if you're on a GLP-1 Who This Episode Is For This episode is for the woman who feels like her body just isn't responding the way it used to, no matter how "right" she's doing things. It's for women in perimenopause and menopause who are confused about protein, curious about amino acids and creatine, or tired of conflicting advice from every corner of the internet. It's also for anyone on a GLP-1 medication who needs a realistic way to protect muscle while eating less. If you want a stack that's simple, effective, and grounded in real research instead of trends, this one's for you. Visit getkion.com/hormone for 20% off! [https://getkion.com/hormone] Sponsors Get a free 8-count Sample Pack of their most popular flavors with any purchase at www.DrinkLMNT.com/KarenMartel [http://www.drinklmnt.com/KarenMartel] Try the Lemonade Iced Tea. Try the classics. Find your favorite — or share it with someone who could use a cleaner afternoon boost. If you are ready to upgrade your sleep, head to CozyEarth.com [https://www.cozyearth.com] and use my code HORMONES for up to 20% off sitewide. 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Part 2 The Midlife Stress Crash: Why Midlife Women Wake Up at 3 AM and Can't Fall Back Asleep

If you are exhausted all day, wired at night, and waking up between 2:00 and 4:00 AM with your heart pounding and your brain suddenly wide awake, this episode is for you. Because midlife sleep issues are rarely just about needing more progesterone or taking a melatonin gummy. They are usually a sign that a whole system is asking to be recalibrated. In this episode, I go deeper into the sleep side of the midlife stress puzzle and break down what may actually be happening beneath the surface. In this episode: * Why so many women in midlife feel exhausted all day but wide awake at night * Why progesterone can help sleep, but is not always the whole answer * How oral progesterone works through allopregnanolone and the GABA system * Why stress affects progesterone through disrupted ovulation, not "progesterone steal" * How estradiol affects serotonin, dopamine, acetylcholine, and your circadian rhythm * Why estrogen decline can destabilize sleep, mood, body temperature, and stress resilience * How melatonin really works and why it is more than just a sleep supplement * Why blood sugar drops can trigger cortisol and adrenaline spikes in the middle of the night * What adrenaline wakeups feel like and why they are so common in midlife * How to start becoming your own detective with sleep, stress, hormones, and testing Who this episode is for This episode is for women in perimenopause and menopause who are waking up between 2:00 and 4:00 AM, struggling to stay asleep, feeling anxious for no clear reason, or finding that the old sleep advice is no longer working. It is especially for women who want a deeper understanding of what is happening hormonally and neurologically, instead of being told to just take more progesterone and hope for the best. Use coupon code SLEEP to get 20% off our Progest Sleep oil. [https://midlifesolutions.org/product/progest-sleep-oil/] Get 15% off DHEA 10 mg capsules here. Use coupon code DHEA15! Order your own Adrenal Stress Kit or DUTCH kit here. [https://midlifesolutions.org/product/dhea-10-mg/] Sponsors Get 30% off BATCH Gummies. Go to hellobatch.com/HORMONE [https://hellobatch.com/HORMONE] and use code HORMONE at checkout. Get 15% off BiOptimzers Masszymes and all other products at bioptimizers.com/hormone [https://bioptimizers.com/hormone] with coupon code HORMONE. Try Mito Q Hormone and metabolic control www.mitoq.com/karenmartel [https://www.mitoq.com/karenmartel] Code: MARTEL10 Are you in perimenopause or postmenopause and struggling with symptoms—but not getting the support you deserve? At Midlife Solutions, we specialize in hormone optimization for women in midlife. Our all-female clinical team offers telehealth care across all 50 U.S. states, with the ability to prescribe bioidentical estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, and thyroid medication. Book your FREE Hormone Discovery Call [https://karenmartel.practicebetter.io/#/67d0cf50491239829215fece/bookings?s=67d2f5acdf0275ca88b6bbef] Find out what's really driving your symptoms and what your next best steps are. [https://karenmartel.practicebetter.io/#/67d0cf50491239829215fece/bookings?s=67d2f5acdf0275ca88b6bbef] Visit the website: https://karenmartel.com [https://karenmartel.com/] Shop the Midlife Solutions Store Over-the-counter bioidentical hormone creams and oils — no prescription needed. Including: • Progesterone • Estrogen Face Cream • Vaginal Moisturizer [https://karenmartel.com/collections/all-products] and more! Take the Hormone Quiz [https://coaching.karenmartel.com/karens-hormone-quiz] Discover hidden hormone imbalances that could be driving your symptoms. [https://coaching.karenmartel.com/karens-hormone-quiz] Get personalized results (and yes, they may surprise you). [https://coaching.karenmartel.com/karens-hormone-quiz] Women's Peptide Weight Loss Program [https://karenmartel.com/pages/womens-peptide-weight-loss-program] Clinically guided, hormone-aware weight loss for midlife women. [https://karenmartel.com/pages/womens-peptide-weight-loss-program] Midlife RESET HRT Program [https://karenmartel.com/pages/hrt-program] A complete, supportive approach to hormone replacement therapy in midlife. [https://karenmartel.com/pages/hrt-program] Your host: Karen Martel Certified Hormone Specialist, Transformational Nutrition Coach, & Weight Loss Expert Karen's Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/karenmartelhormones/] Karen's Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/karenmartelhormones/]