The Other Woman And The Wife

This week on TOWTW Podcast Chelsea is joined by guest Kara Nance to explore the unconscious nature of desire, attachment styles, and the three key instinctual energies that drive human behavior—self-preservation, social, and sexual. Together, they delve into the delicate balance required in partnerships, how unmet trauma can perpetuate cycles of pain, and the ongoing challenge of maintaining sexual energy in long-term relationships. They also emphasize the critical importance of authenticity, personal growth, and facing difficult truths in relationships. Guest Bio: Kara Nance is an MD who has navigated multiple long-term relationships while raising four children. After becoming disillusioned with the traditional healthcare system, she left to create her own practice, bringing a unique perspective to both medicine and relationships. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit [https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit] ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here [https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/ask?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast] HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community [https://theotherwomanandthewife.com/community?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast]: Use Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membership Apply for 1:1 Coaching [https://theotherwomanandthewife.com/coaching?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast] OUR LINKS Website: https://towtw.com/ [https://towtw.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ [https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife [https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife] GUEST LINKS: https://wellessencemd.com/about/kara-j-nance-m-d-f-a-c-p/ [https://wellessencemd.com/about/kara-j-nance-m-d-f-a-c-p/]

Sometimes the harshest critics become the most profound teachers. In this follow-up episode of TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea reconnects with one of her original TikTok trolls. Avid listeners might remember him from Episode 35—”From Trolling To Dialogue”. He spent months processing his wife's infidelity by trolling her in the comments. Nearly a year later, he's back with a completely different perspective, sharing his journey from anger to healing and proving there really is life after infidelity for everyone involved. This isn't your typical "happily ever after" story—it's a real look at how our biggest critics are often fighting battles we can't see, and how transformation happens when we choose growth over grudges Pt. 1: Episode #35 From Trolling To Dialogue Links: Youtube: Here [https://youtu.be/EWUyPSOWb2I?feature=shared] Spotify: Here [https://open.spotify.com/episode/6wuyyzEFA1SCtgLGkh2bbL?si=QRjoenYdQ9G0xV73yd9fjQ] Apple Podcast: Here [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/35-from-trolling-to-dialogue-a-betrayed-spouse/id1685932363?i=1000646787666] SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit [https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit] ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here [https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/ask?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast] HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community [https://theotherwomanandthewife.com/community?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast]: Use Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membership Apply for 1:1 Coaching [https://theotherwomanandthewife.com/coaching?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast] OUR LINKS Website: https://towtw.com/ [https://towtw.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ [https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife [https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife]

This week on TOWTW Podcast, Chelsea flips the script and puts Ann Marie in the hot seat. You know that familiar voice who's been weaving through our episodes? Time to meet the woman behind it. Ann Marie opens up about her own messy, beautiful journey with infidelity and reveals how she went from podcast listener to now co-conspirator in creating this safe harbor for complicated humans like us.  This isn't just Ann Marie's origin story – it's a love letter to everyone who's ever felt like they needed permission to be human. If you're still reading remember: You don't need permission, but you deserve to feel less alone. Welcome to the messy, transformative world of finding your voice. SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit [https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit] ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here [https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/ask?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast] HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community [https://theotherwomanandthewife.com/community?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast]: Use Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membership Apply for 1:1 Coaching [https://theotherwomanandthewife.com/coaching?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast] OUR LINKS Website: https://towtw.com/ [https://towtw.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ [https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife [https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife]

This week on TOWTW Podcast Chelsea sits down with returning guest Carolina Vilalva. Together they discuss how to move from the drama triangle (where we play hero, villain, or victim) into the empowerment triangle where we claim our personal power as creators, facilitate self-empowerment as coaches, and provoke positive action as challengers. If you’ve been feeling ‘stuck’ in your circumstance this episode is for you! Referenced Image: https://images.app.goo.gl/t9pvMGvezTcd7EhV7 SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit [https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit] ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here [https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/ask?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast] HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community [https://theotherwomanandthewife.com/community?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast]: Use Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membership Apply for 1:1 Coaching [https://theotherwomanandthewife.com/coaching?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast] OUR LINKS Website: https://towtw.com/ [https://towtw.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ [https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife [https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife] Carolina’s Bio: Carolina is a certified Executive and Life Coach from Columbia University with over 11 years of experience specializing in life transitions for couples, executives, teenagers, and parents. She holds a B.A. in Clinical Psychology and International Relations from Tufts University and a Master’s in International Education. Her training includes EFT, IOPT, DISC assessments, and she is pursuing licensure in Neurofeedback. A Third Culture Kid and part of a blended multicultural family, she has lived on four continents and is currently based in Maputo, Mozambique, where her husband serves as a diplomat.

In this raw episode of The Other Woman & The Wife, Chelsea and Ann Marie explore the painful aftermath of being ghosted by an affair partner after 3.5 years. When someone who shared your deepest secrets suddenly vanishes, what happens to all that unresolved emotion? From processing relationship trauma to sending 500 crickets to at least make a statement, this judgment-free discussion offers insights for anyone who's ever been left to write their own ending when no one else would. TOWTW creates a judgment-free space for exploring the messy, complex world of relationships. We're here to help you understand yourself better and make choices that align with your authentic self SUBMIT YOUR OWN STORY https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit [https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/submit] ASK US A QUESTION We answer questions from other women and wives on our podcast: Submit yours here [https://www.theotherwomanandthewife.com/ask?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast] HOW WE CAN HELP Join the Other Women Community [https://theotherwomanandthewife.com/community?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast]: Use Code PODCAST to receive $10 off a community membership Apply for 1:1 Coaching [https://theotherwomanandthewife.com/coaching?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_content=EP035&utm_medium=Epsiode&utm_source=Podcast] OUR LINKS Website: https://towtw.com/ [https://towtw.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/ [https://www.instagram.com/theowandthewife/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife [https://www.tiktok.com/@theowandthewife]