The Grief of Becoming Someone New

The Grief of Becoming Someone New

Growth doesn’t always feel exciting. Sometimes it feels like grief. In this episode of the Raising Hope Podcast, we’re exploring the hidden side of transformation: grieving old identities, old versions of ourselves, old dreams, and old ways of surviving that no longer fit who we’re becoming. If you’ve ever felt guilty for changing, scared to let go, or caught between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming, this conversation is for you. Because maybe you aren’t lost. Maybe you’re simply in the middle of becoming. www.kristygiarratano.com [www.kristygiarratano.com] Be the first to know when Becoming Her opens: Sign up here [www.kristygiarratano.com/work-with-me]

Have You Really Lost Yourself... Or Have You Just Stopped Hearing Yourself?

Have you ever caught yourself saying… “I don’t even know who I am anymore.” If so, I want you to know something: I don’t actually think most women lose themselves. I think life simply becomes so loud that they stop hearing themselves. In this special episode of the Raising Hope Podcast, we’re exploring why so many high-achieving women become disconnected from themselves—and why the first step toward creating what’s next isn’t pushing harder… It’s creating enough internal safety to hear yourself honestly. Together, we’ll explore: ✨ Why survival mode makes self-awareness so difficult ✨ The hidden cost of constantly putting everyone else’s needs first ✨ What I learned from years working in emergency medicine—and how triage became a powerful metaphor for the way so many women live ✨ Why awareness is the beginning of hope ⸻ Join the Raising Hope Guided Experience If this episode resonates with you, I’d love to invite you to join our free five-day Raising Hope Guided Experience. Together, we’ll slow down, reconnect with ourselves, regulate our nervous systems, reflect honestly, and begin creating what comes next with greater clarity, confidence, and self-trust. Join here: HERE [www.kristygiarratano.com/challenge]

Now What? What Happens in the Space After You Finally Say No

You finally said no. So why doesn’t it feel like the relief you thought it would be? In this episode, Kristy picks up right where last week left off — not the moment you say no, but the strange, disorienting space that opens up after. The guilt that creeps in. The grief for a version of yourself you didn’t even like. And the question nobody prepares you for: if that’s not who I am anymore… then who am I? This is exactly the space Kristy built Becoming Her for — a 12-week experience for high-achieving women ready to stop performing “fine” and start reconnecting with who they actually are underneath the exhaustion. Before Becoming Her opens, Kristy’s running a free 5-day challenge, Beneath the Exhaustion, starting July 6th. If this episode hit home, it’s the perfect next step — [Join the free challenge →] [www.kristygiarratano.com/challenge] Links: • Join the free 5-day challenge (starts July 6) → HERE [www.kristygiarratano.com/challenge] • Learn more about Becoming Her → HERE [www.kristygiarratano.com/work-with-me] • kristygiarratano.com [www.kristygiarratano.com] If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re listening on Apple Podcasts, a review genuinely helps a growing show — I read every one. 🧡

Why “No” Might Be the Most Powerful Word in Your Vocabulary

What if the secret to actually thriving — not just surviving — starts with a word you’ve been taught to avoid your whole life? This week on Raising Hope, I sit down with Dr. Wendy O’Connor, a Stanford-trained positive psychologist and life strategist for women. Wendy had the career, the marriage, the kids — everything she thought she wanted. Then she woke up one day with three daughters under 15 months old, two thriving private practices, and a quiet, unshakeable feeling that something was missing. We talk about: • Why high-achieving women are wired to say yes — and what it costs us • The real connection between chronic people-pleasing and your self-confidence • What “living a life by design” actually means (hint: it starts with knowing your values, strengths, and desires) • How to say no without blowing up your life or your relationships • Why your kids are watching how you handle boundaries, whether you realize it or not If you’ve been quietly drowning under everyone else’s expectations and you’re ready to reconnect with what you actually want, this conversation is your permission slip. Connect with Dr. Wendy on Instagram @drwendyoconnor, and grab her free resources HERE [https://www.drwendyoconnor.com/free-life-planner]. If you’re a high-achieving woman who’s checked every box and still feels like something’s missing — you’re in the right place. I help women like you figure out who they are underneath the exhaustion, using astrology, Human Design, and real talk (no toxic positivity allowed). Curious what’s actually misaligned in your life? Book a free Next Move Blueprint™ Session [www.kristygiarratano.com/next-move], or learn more about 1:1 coaching and Becoming Her [www.kristygiarratano.com/work-with-me], my 12-week group program, at kristygiarratano.com [www.kristygiarratano.com].

The Strong One: What It Costs to Always Be the Capable One — And What It Looks Like to Let That Identity Evolve

You have been the strong one your whole life. The one who handles it. The one everyone leans on. The onewho shows up — always, without fail — regardless of what it costs you. In this episode Kristy gets real aboutwhat that identity actually costs, what it looks like when it starts to crack, and what it means to let it evolveinto something that finally serves you instead of everyone else. Including her own story of being passed overfor a role she had already been doing for a year — and what her body did when she kept going anyway. What we cover:• Who the strong one actually is and how she got that way• The real physical and emotional cost of carrying too much for too long• Kristy's story: the senior director role, the betrayal, Covid, and the decision that changed everything• Julie's story: VP of HR, two kids under five, laid off overnight — and what she found on the other side• Four practices for letting the strong one identity evolve without losing yourself Links: * Becoming Here Waitlist → HERE [www.kristygiarratano.com/work-with-me] * Comment BLUEPRINT on @raisinghopepodcast [www.instgram.com/raisinghopepodcast] latest post to enter the giveaway * Book your Next Move Blueprint Session → HERE [https://www.kristygiarratano.com/buy/p/buynextmove] * Follow on Instagram → ⁠@raisinghopepodcast [www.instgram.com/raisinghopepodcast]