It's NOT about YOU! How to stop taking things personally and protect your peace

No One Told Us This (About Menopause)

Menopause isn’t just hot flashes and mood swings — and if that’s all you’ve heard, you’re not getting the full picture. In this honest and relatable episode of Two in the Closet, Beth and Jen dive into the emotional, spiritual, and identity shifts that come with perimenopause and menopause. From unexpected grief to surprising freedom, this conversation explores what really happens when your body — and your life — start changing. ✨ In this episode, we cover: * The emotional rollercoaster of menopause * Why no one talks about the deeper shifts * Grief, identity, and major life transitions * The “second act” mindset * Creativity, reinvention, and new beginnings * How menopause can spark personal growth * Real-life stories and experiences * Simple ways to support your mental and emotional well-being 💡 You’ll also hear: * Why menopause can feel like a wake-up call * How societal views impact the experience * The surprising sense of freedom on the other side 👉 This is Part 1 of a 2-part series. In Part 2, we’ll break down the physical changes and what’s happening in your body.

From Chaos to Calm: The Power of Daily Rituals

Feeling overwhelmed, scattered, or stuck in the same patterns? In this episode of Two in the Closet, Beth and Jen explore how daily rituals can shift your life from chaos to calm — without adding more to your plate. Rituals aren’t about perfection or religion — they’re about intention. You’ll learn: * The difference between habits and rituals * How rituals calm your nervous system and reduce anxiety * Why intention + attention is the key to transformation * How to turn everyday actions (coffee, showers, bedtime) into meaningful rituals * Real-life examples of rituals that work — and ones that don’t If your life feels reactive instead of intentional… this episode is your reset. If you have a friend who would love this - please share with them!

Breathe - Before You Snap!

Are you breathing… or just surviving? In this episode of Two in the Closet, Beth and Jen explore how something as simple as your breath can completely change your nervous system, your mood, and even your health. After hearing from a former pharmacist who turned to breathwork instead of medication, we had to try it—and talk about it. You’ll hear: * A real-life story of anxiety and dysregulation * Why shallow breathing makes everything worse * The science behind breathwork (without the overwhelm) * A guided breathing exercise you can follow along with Plus, we talk about: ✨ nervous system regulation ✨ trauma and the body ✨ neuroplasticity (yes, your brain can change) ✨ and how to feel calm without needing a reason 👇 LINKS Join our mailing list (free guided breath coming soon): https://bit.ly/4v5cp8y Buy us a coffee ☕: https://buymeacoffee.com/bethodell Listen to the podcast that inspired this episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x5iDQ9kj5u4 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x5iDQ9kj5u4] Sign up for the FREE Soma Breath Training: https://www.somabreath.com/ 👍 Like, Subscribe & Share Because midlife deserves a mic.

It's NOT about YOU! How to stop taking things personally and protect your peace

Why do we take things so personally—even when we know it’s probably not about us? In this episode of Two in the Closet, Beth and Jen unpack the emotional, psychological, and even physical impact of taking things personally—and how to stop the spiral. From unanswered texts to feeling ignored or disrespected, they explore how old wounds, nervous system responses, and ego-driven stories shape our reactions. If you’ve ever: * Overanalyzed a text message * Felt instantly rejected or “too much” * Got stuck in your head replaying conversations * Or struggled to separate fact from story …this episode is for you. What you’ll learn: * Why taking things personally isn’t about being “too sensitive” * How your nervous system is trying to protect you * The difference between intuition and trauma responses * How to reframe triggering moments in real time * A simple 7-day practice to break the pattern Key Takeaway: “It’s rarely personal… even when it feels personal.” Resources Mentioned: * The Four Agreements – Don Miguel Ruiz * Your Erroneous Zones – Wayne Dyer Follow & Subscribe: Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe so you never miss an episode.

When Everything Feels Like Too Much… Start Here

When Everything Feels Like Too Much… Start Here | Two in the Closet Podcast Description: Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck? You’re not alone—and you’re not broken. In this episode of Two in the Closet, Beth and Jen dive into the real-life experience of overwhelm—how it shows up in your body, your thoughts, and your daily life. From racing thoughts and frozen energy to overworking and shutting down, they unpack what’s really happening beneath the surface. More importantly, they share simple, practical ways to begin breaking free—without adding more pressure to your plate. In this episode, we cover: * What overwhelm actually feels like (and why it’s different for everyone) * The connection between overwhelm and your nervous system * Why “powering through” doesn’t work * Simple tools to calm your mind and body * How to stop the spiral and focus on one thing at a time * The importance of boundaries, breathing, and stepping away Key Takeaways: * Overwhelm is often a buildup—not just one big thing * Your body will signal when something isn’t sustainable * Regulating your nervous system is the first step to clarity * Small actions create momentum * You’re allowed to pause Coming Next Week: When overwhelm turns into taking things personally—and how to stop that cycle. 🎧 Listen now and take your first step back to calm.