A Plain-English Guide To The AA 12 Steps

How The AA Promises Build Real Freedom In Sobriety

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2563205/fan_mail/new] I break down the AA promises in plain English and talk about why they can sound impossible when you are new and hurting. I share how they unfold over time through honesty, support, and real life, not perfection.  • the AA promises coming from the Big Book after Step Nine  • why early sobriety makes the promises feel unrealistic  • freedom from obsession, hiding, and morning panic  • shame and regret shifting into perspective and growth  • serenity as calm that does not come from escaping  • fear of people and money worries easing with honest living  • learning to pause and respond instead of react  • why the promises are gradual and not automatic  • the deeper message that you do not have to stay stuck forever  You can also find everything, episodes, updates, and more on my website, marcybackhusmedia.com You can write to me there, and I would love to hear from you.

A Plain-English Guide To The AA 12 Steps

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2563205/fan_mail/new] We break the Alcoholics Anonymous 12 Steps down into plain English so they feel like a path instead of a threat. We trade perfection for honesty and explain how step work supports long-term sobriety by treating the thinking and pain under the drinking.  • why the 12 steps sound scary at first and how we soften the fear  • the steps as a framework for healing relationships and changing thinking  • why words like inventory, defects, amends, and higher power trigger people  • a simple translation of Steps 1 through 12  • why Step Four is about patterns not self-hatred  • why Step Five reduces shame by ending secrecy  • amends as accountability without causing more harm  • daily maintenance and staying connected through reflection or spirituality  • service as a tool for staying sober  • why you do the steps slowly and revisit them over time  You can also find everything, episodes, updates, and more on my website, Marcybacchusmedia.com.  On my website, marcybackhusmedia.com is a link to Alcoholics Anonymous. There's also a link to Al Anon if you have a person in your life that has a drinking problem.

How Relapse Really Starts Long Before The Drink

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2563205/fan_mail/new] Relapse is the topic most people in recovery whisper about, even though it’s one of the most common turning points in sobriety. I’m Marcy, and I’m going to say the quiet part out loud: relapse is usually not a random moment of chaos. It often starts weeks earlier with isolation, stress, resentment, exhaustion, and the slow drift away from support. When we understand that, relapse prevention becomes less about willpower and more about spotting patterns early. We walk through the kind of relapse thinking that sounds smart in the moment “I can handle one,” “It wasn’t that bad,” “Nobody would know” and why your brain can feel so convincing when it wants comfort. I share what has kept me grounded in long-term recovery, why connection beats secrecy, and why disappearing after a slip is the most dangerous move you can make. If you’ve relapsed recently, I want you to hear this clearly: you are not starting from scratch. You are starting from experience. We also talk to the people who love someone in recovery. Shaming doesn’t create change, it pushes people deeper into addiction. Support can look like helping someone get to a meeting, finding therapy, and making space for honest conversation without excuses or humiliation. Recovery is complicated, human, and rarely a straight line. It’s returning, recommitting, learning, adjusting, and trying again. If this lands close to home, listen, share it with someone who needs it, and then take one small action toward connection today. Subscribe to Unbottled, leave a review, and tell me: what’s the earliest sign you’re drifting away from your sobriety?

The AA Big Book

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2563205/fan_mail/new] We kick off our AA series by taking the fear out of the Big Book and talking about why it still helps people get sober and stay sober nearly 90 years after it was first published. We share how to approach the language, the stories, and the process without trying to be perfect, so you can focus on growth and real support.  • why we start the AA series with the Big Book  • what the Big Book is and why it got that nickname  • why lived experience beats theory in alcohol recovery  • how stories create connection and reduce shame  • how to handle outdated language without losing the message  • what happened at my first Big Book meeting and why small meetings can help  • the main parts of the book: the Doctor’s Opinion, stories, and the 12 steps  • how to read it in chunks, use it with a sponsor, and treat it like a tool  If you're loving these conversations, I have two other podcasts you need to check out. You can find everything, every episode, updates, and more on my website, marcybackusmedia.com.

90 Meetings In 90 Days;

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2563205/fan_mail/new] We start a new AA-focused chapter of Unbottled and get real about why “90 meetings in 90 days” keeps showing up in early sobriety. I share how daily meetings helped me survive the trigger-heavy first months, build a routine, and stay sober one day at a time for 38 years.  • why I’m shifting into AA-focused episodes and what AA offers  • what “90 meetings in 90 days” actually is and why it’s a suggestion  • how early sobriety triggers work and why the first 90 days feel shaky  • using meetings to replace bar time and home-drinking time  • repetition as a way to build habits, routine, and stability  • familiar faces and real accountability that keeps you connected  • giving a meeting three tries before you decide it’s not for you  • permission to be imperfect, leave early, stay quiet, and still count it  • common resistance thoughts and how they keep people stuck  • trying different meetings and deciding based on experience  If you ever want to get a hold of me, marcybackhusmedia@gmail.com