Unpack This with Gloria Bailey-Ray | The Authentic Coach

You Didn't Love Him-You Loved Your Potential With Him

26 min · 8. touko 2026
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Today's episode we are unpacking something women do far too often: fall in love with the possibility of a person , then call it commitment, loyalty, patience, or grace. The real truth however, it it was projection....NOT love. You loved what you thought life could look like if he got it together. You loved the man he might become.  The husband he might grow into.  The partner he almost was.  The apology he almost gave.  The consistency he almost showed. But “almost” is not love and potential is not a relationship. Listen to Unpack This with Gloria Bailey-Ray | The Authentic Coach on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and iHeartRadio. If this episode resonated, follow the show and share it with a woman who is ready to stop overgiving and start living self-led. Connect with Gloria Bailey-Ray — The Authentic Coach: Website: https://www.gloriabaileyray.com [https://www.gloriabaileyray.com] Podcast: Unpack This with Gloria Bailey-Ray Coaching & Speaking Inquiries: gloria@gloriabaileyray.com  What part of this episode resonated with you most? Leave a review or share your takeaway.

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