S2 E141: Why Is It Easier to Assume Than to Ask?

S2 E141: Why Is It Easier to Assume Than to Ask?

Have you ever noticed how quickly we assume what someone believes before we've actually asked them? In this episode of Unpolished But Called, I reflect on a recent conversation from my YouTube comments that reminded me how easy it is to jump to conclusions. Instead of assuming someone's heart, motives, or beliefs, what if we chose curiosity first? We'll explore the difference between biblical doctrine and personal preference, why not every disagreement is a doctrinal issue, and how humility creates space for real conversations. Using Romans 14, Mark 7, and Ephesians 4, we'll look at what Scripture says about unity, tradition, and keeping Christ at the center of our discussions. The goal isn't to win arguments. It's to point people toward Jesus with both truth and grace. Scripture referenced: * Romans 14:1 * Mark 7:8 * Ephesians 4:2–3 If you're looking for more than podcast episodes, I also send a free weekly email called Walking It Out with Kathrin. You can subscribe through my website: 🌐Website & Free Devotional: https://kathrinshaffer.com [https://kathrinshaffer.com] 🔗 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/unpolishedbutcalled [https://linktr.ee/unpolishedbutcalled]

S2 E140: When God's Answers Bring Responsibility

WHEN GOD'S ANSWERS BRING RESPONSIBILITY We often pray for answers. We ask God for clarity, direction, and wisdom. But what happens when He answers... and that answer asks something of us? In this episode, I share a personal realization from this week about stewardship, obedience, and why God's answers don't always bring the relief we expect. Sometimes they invite us into a new season of responsibility, growth, and faith. In this episode: • Why we celebrate answers until they change our lives • The difference between hearing God's Word and living it • What Jonah, Esther, and Jesus teach us about obedience • Why peace and an easy life are not the same thing • How God often answers our prayers by inviting us to grow Scripture References: • James 1:22 • Esther 4:14 • Luke 9:23 • John 14:27 🔗 Website: kathrinshaffer.com [http://kathrinshaffer.com] 🔗 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/unpolishedbutcalled [https://linktr.ee/unpolishedbutcalled]

S2 E139: Why Doesn’t God Stop Everything Bad From Happening?

Why Doesn’t God Stop Everything Bad From Happening? After watching an old episode of Highway to Heaven, I found myself sitting with a question many of us wrestle with: if God loves us, why doesn’t He stop every bad thing from happening? In this episode, I talk about suffering, illness, unanswered questions, and what it means to trust God in a broken world. I also share personal reflections from my own TIA recovery and how God’s presence became more real in the middle of something I never expected. In this episode: * Why creation itself is broken * Why Jesus never promised a life without suffering * When God sustains us instead of removing the trial * What Job teaches us about unanswered questions * My own reflections on recovery, peace, anxiety, and faith * Why suffering does not get the final word Scripture References: * Romans 8:22 * John 16:33 * 2 Corinthians 12:9 🔗 Website: kathrinshaffer.com [http://kathrinshaffer.com] 🔗 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/unpolishedbutcalled [https://linktr.ee/unpolishedbutcalled]

S2 E138: Do I Doubt God or Do I Doubt Myself?

DO I DOUBT GOD OR DO I DOUBT MYSELF? For a long time, I thought I struggled with doubting God. But recently I realized something: I don't actually doubt God nearly as much as I doubt myself. I worry about whether I'm hearing Him correctly, making the right decisions, or somehow missing His direction. Yet when I look back over my life, I see a faithful God who has continued to guide me through Scripture, people, circumstances, open doors, and closed doors—even when I wasn't sure where He was leading. In this episode, I share a personal reflection on faith, uncertainty, obedience, and the difference between doubting God's ability to lead and doubting our ability to follow. In this episode: • The difference between doubting God and doubting ourselves • Why we crave certainty before taking action • Learning to trust God with the next step • Looking back and recognizing God's faithfulness • How God guides through Scripture, people, and circumstances • Why obedience often comes before clarity • Personal reflections from my own faith journey Scripture References: • Proverbs 3:5-6 • Psalm 23:1-3 🔗 Website: kathrinshaffer.com [http://kathrinshaffer.com] 🔗 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/unpolishedbutcalled [https://linktr.ee/unpolishedbutcalled]

S2 E137: Why Does Disagreement Feel So Personal?

Why Does Disagreement Feel So Personal? Why does a simple disagreement sometimes feel like a personal attack? Why do conversations become emotional, defensive, and hostile when two people simply see things differently? In a world where everything seems divided into teams, learning how to disagree well has never been more important. In this episode, I explore why we often confuse disagreement with rejection, how we tie our identity to our opinions, and why social media has made healthy conversations more difficult. I also share personal experiences from online discussions and reflect on what Scripture teaches about humility, grace, and responding with love when others see things differently. In this episode: * Why disagreement often feels personal * The difference between disagreement and rejection * How we tie our identity to our opinions * Wanting validation instead of genuine discussion * Social media, division, and "team mentality" * Learning to disagree without hostility * Personal reflections from online conversations * Responding with truth, humility, and grace Scripture References: * Romans 14:1 * Ephesians 4:2-3 * Proverbs 15:1 🔗 Website: kathrinshaffer.com [http://kathrinshaffer.com] 🔗 Linktree: https://linktr.ee/unpolishedbutcalled [https://linktr.ee/unpolishedbutcalled] #ChristianPodcast #ChristianLiving #FaithJourney #BiblicalWisdom #Romans14 #ChristianEncouragement #SpiritualGrowth #HealthyConversations #UnpolishedButCalled