Episode 113: Celebrate Them While You Can

Episode 113: Celebrate Them While You Can

Your dad’s birthday. An ordinary Tuesday dinner. The friend on the other end of the phone. We almost never miss the big days, and somehow the regular ones, the ones that make up most of our life with the people we love, slip right past us while we are looking the other way. This week’s episode is a celebration: an invitation to savor the people still at your table this summer, before the season scatters everyone again. Inside this episode: • Why the people closest to you are the easiest ones to stop fully seeing, and what shifts the moment you notice it • How something you say out loud can stretch a good moment and make it last for both of you • Why this particular summer is the right time to slow down and pay attention Scripture: Psalm 92:14 Research note: Drawing on savoring research (Bryant and Veroff) and studies on sharing positive moments with the people we love (Gable and colleagues). Ready for your next step? FREE 5-Minute Daily Reset (instant download): YourNextBestStep.com  [https://YourNextBestStep.com] Weekly encouragement + practical tips: YouTube @CoachJanetJ [https://www.youtube.com/@CoachJanetJ] Instagram: @janetjjaecks [https://www.instagram.com/janetjjaecks/ ] If this episode resonated with you, please follow/subscribe and share with a friend who needs their next step.   One small step. One day at a time.

BONUS: You're Allowed to Be the Guest (YNBS 112)

The party starts for everyone else the moment they walk in the door. For you, it started days ago. So what happens if you’re the one who is ALWAYS hosting? Join me for more in the latest episode where we get into the research that explains why the planning and the cleanup always seem to land on you, and the small change that makes the next gathering lighter.  Ep 112: "Red, White, and Worn Out" Ready for your next step? FREE 5-Minute Daily Reset (instant download): YourNextBestStep.com  [https://YourNextBestStep.com] Weekly encouragement + practical tips: YouTube @CoachJanetJ [https://www.youtube.com/@CoachJanetJ] Instagram: @janetjjaecks [https://www.instagram.com/janetjjaecks/ ] If this episode resonated with you, please follow/subscribe and share with a friend who needs their next step.   One small step. One day at a time.

Episode 112: Red, White, and Worn Out

You love the cookout. You really do. So why are you the one stacking plates while everyone else sinks into a lawn chair? If the planning and the cleanup always seem to land on you, this episode is for you. In Episode 112, you'll learn: * See the hidden shape of hosting work — the part that starts days before and ends long after the last guest leaves *  Meet the one woman in Scripture who would completely understand your kitchen  * Walk away with a simple three-part adjustment for the next gathering, without giving up the parts you love Scripture: Luke 10:38–42 (NIV) Research note: Allison Daminger's research on the cognitive labor of running a household (American Sociological Review). Ready for your next step? FREE 5-Minute Daily Reset (instant download): YourNextBestStep.com  [https://YourNextBestStep.com] Weekly encouragement + practical tips: YouTube @CoachJanetJ [https://www.youtube.com/@CoachJanetJ] Instagram: @janetjjaecks [https://www.instagram.com/janetjjaecks/ ] If this episode resonated with you, please follow/subscribe and share with a friend who needs their next step.   One small step. One day at a time.

BONUS: Who Are You Really Performing For? (YNBS 111)

At the next gathering, notice the audience in the back of your mind keeping score. Here is what the research says about that feeling, and why the real room is kinder than the one in your head.  Join us for the latest episode “The Freedom You Actually Need This Summer’ (Ep 111) where I share the one word in Galatians 5:1 that reframes the whole weekend, and the single thing worth setting down before Saturday. Ready for your next step? FREE 5-Minute Daily Reset (instant download): YourNextBestStep.com  [https://YourNextBestStep.com] Weekly encouragement + practical tips: YouTube @CoachJanetJ [https://www.youtube.com/@CoachJanetJ] Instagram: @janetjjaecks [https://www.instagram.com/janetjjaecks/ ] If this episode resonated with you, please follow/subscribe and share with a friend who needs their next step.   One small step. One day at a time.

Episode 111: The Freedom You Actually Need This Summer

This weekend the whole country celebrates freedom, and a lot of us will spend it proving, pleasing, and performing through a backyard full of people, then wonder why a holiday about freedom leaves us feeling everything except free. If a day off has ever failed to feel like one, this episode is for you. You will understand why an open calendar and a long weekend do not deliver the freedom you are hoping for.  You will see the named pattern underneath the urge to prove and please, and why it is more common than you might think.  And you will leave with one obligation you can set down before the cookout even starts. Scripture: Galatians 5:1 (NIV) Research note: On socially prescribed perfectionism, the perception that the people around us expect us to be perfect (Hewitt and Flett, 1991), a pressure researchers have tracked rising over recent decades (Curran and Hill, 2019). Ready for your next step? FREE 5-Minute Daily Reset (instant download): YourNextBestStep.com  [https://YourNextBestStep.com] Weekly encouragement + practical tips: YouTube @CoachJanetJ [https://www.youtube.com/@CoachJanetJ] Instagram: @janetjjaecks [https://www.instagram.com/janetjjaecks/ ] If this episode resonated with you, please follow/subscribe and share with a friend who needs their next step.   One small step. One day at a time.