Jillian on Love

Jillian unpacks the viral "Black Cat and Golden Retriever" dating theory that has taken over social media. She explores its heteronormative roots, its misguided take on relationship dynamics, and why it sets people up for failure. She dissects the archetypes of the aloof femme fatale and the obsessive pursuer, shedding light on how they perpetuate insecurity and avoid true intimacy. She offers practical advice on fostering healthier relationships, maintaining individuality, and breaking free from toxic dating myths. Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS with Matthew Hussey at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras]  Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You", available January 14th, 2025 at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Today, Jillian opens up and dives deep into the roots of our fears in relationships, uncovering how childhood conditioning and self-esteem impact our romantic lives. She shares personal stories, profound insights, and actionable advice to help you break toxic cycles, understand your emotional triggers, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This episode is a powerful reminder that true healing begins with you. Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS with Matthew Hussey at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras] Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You", available January 14th, 2025 at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

While it's often brave to leave a relationship that's not working, Jillian delves into when the most courageous act is to stay and work it out. She discusses the importance of understanding your partner’s needs, recognizing your role in relationship struggles, and overcoming ego-driven narratives. Through real-life examples and thought-provoking questions, this episode encourages listeners to reflect deeply on their own patterns, communication breakdowns, and the transformative potential of love when nurtured with vulnerability and accountability. Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS with Matthew Hussey at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras]  Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Jillian dives deep into the emotionally charged topic of letting go, especially when it comes to relationships that are very unhealthy, misaligned, or emotionally unsafe. Sharing personal anecdotes, hard truths, and actionable steps, she explores why we cling to relationships that don't serve us and how to move forward with self-awareness and courage. She challenges listeners to confront the lies we tell ourselves, examine the beliefs keeping us stuck, and prioritize character over chemistry. Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS with Matthew Hussey at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras]  Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Jillian unpacks one of the most common yet complex relationship dilemmas: distinguishing between unmet needs and unrealistic expectations. Are you holding your partner to impossible standards, or are your needs simply not being met? Jillian takes a deep dive into the psychology of relationships, exploring how projections, attachment, and self-awareness play a role in our connections. She also answers a listener's heartfelt question about letting go of an unrequited love, offering actionable insights for reclaiming your peace and freedom. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book [https://www.jillianturecki.com/book] ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove [https://www.instagram.com/JillianOnLove/?hl=en] Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com [hello@jillianonlove.com]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049] or Patreon [http://patreon.com/jillianonlove] ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki [https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=en] TikTok: @jillian.turecki [https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en] X: @JillianTurecki [https://x.com/JillianTurecki?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor] Visit her website at jillianturecki.com [http://jillianturecki.com] ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]