Self Rejection & Substance Abuse

If You’re a Heavy Drinker or Smoker, This is For You

The vibe is brutal honesty and tough love over here 🤷🏽‍♀️  It takes one to know one 👉🏾 this message is for the people willing to show up differently.  No victim mentality, no excuses, none of that bullshit.  I’ve been through the trauma, sa and r*pe, stress in all areas of life, anxiety, depression, grief, heartbreak, loss, betrayal, and life challenges — more than enough to want to off myself. Seriously (I tried).  So don’t talk to me about your excuses, your limitations, and whatever lies and denial you like to give yourself.  Life is hard, shit happens, and it sucks. Tough shit. Are you gonna do something about it or nah?  Being a victim and replaying “woe is me” is not a badge of honor. Change the narrative, take accountability, and do something different with the free will that God gave you.  💯 Those first 7 days of sobriety suck the most if you don't have a plan. You're fighting biology and years of habit. I’m not going to tell you to 'just try harder.' I’m going to give you the strategy I used to find over 4 & a half years of freedom. 🔥Get My 7-Day Sobriety Reset🔥 https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset] Download The No BS Pep Talk 💯  https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/the-no-bs-pep-talk- [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/the-no-bs-pep-talk-] 💫Support My Work 💸 https://paypal.me/AllTheRave555 ✨Stay Connected ✨ IG : https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/ [https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/] TikTok : https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_?_r=1&_t=ZT-916Wu39zQgo] Substack : https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady [https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady]  YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_ [https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_]   Music & Beats:  https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy [https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy]

Pep Talk 3 | Show Up Differently This Time

What if you got out of your head and things worked out this time?  🔥Get My 7-Day Sobriety Reset🔥 https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset] 💫Follow💫 IG : https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/ [https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/] TikTok : https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_?_r=1&_t=ZT-916Wu39zQgo] Substack : https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady [https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady]  YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_ [https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_]   Music :  https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy [https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy]

A Season of Obedience

Being obedient to your personal transformation and alignment looks different for everyone.  Whatever your current circumstances are, your personal mission requires you to lock in, do what it takes, and move differently this time. 🔥Get My 7-Day Sobriety Reset🔥 https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset] 💫Follow💫 IG : https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/ [https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_?_r=1&_t=ZT-916Wu39zQgo] Substack : https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady [https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady]  YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_ [https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_]   Music : https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy [https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy]

Practical Ways to Stay Sober

Sometimes sobriety and recovery can feel overwhelmingly challenging. I’ve been there. In this episode I discuss some simple ways that have helped me maintain my peace of mind over the years. Simple and practical methods to keep yourself emotionally regulated,  and handle your stress and emotions in healthy ways.  🔥Get My 7-Day Sobriety Reset🔥 https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset] 💫Follow💫 IG : https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/ [https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/] TikTok : https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_ [https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_?_r=1&_t=ZT-916Wu39zQgo] Substack : https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady [https://substack.com/@asoberblacklady]  YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_ [https://www.youtube.com/@_AllTheRave_] Music :  https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy [https://beatstore.inadot.com/prodbyleeqy]

Self Rejection & Substance Abuse

In this episode, I connect the dots between substance abuse and self rejection. A lot of us don’t even realize that our use of substances is a band-aid for rejecting different parts of your identity.  If you decided to sit with yourself fully, and accept every single part, what would your life look like ?  If this resonates, leave a comment or share with someone who might need it ✨ 🔥Get My 7-Day Sobriety Reset🔥 https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset [https://stan.store/AllTheRave/p/get-the-7day-reset] 💫Follow💫 Instagram ✨ [https://www.instagram.com/_itsalltherave_/] TikTok  [https://www.tiktok.com/@_the.rave_?_r=1&_t=ZT-943oivFzgti] Substack ✍🏾 [https://asoberblacklady.substack.com/?r=4zzrlt&utm_medium=ios]  Medium 📝 [https://medium.com/@ASoberBlackLady]  YouTube 🎥 [https://youtu.be/iqLOoUB_uLk?si=p-hVf7oaoN5En6UJ]