Damn, am I the problem ?

As If We Know About RITUALS

What if rituals were never about perfection, productivity or discipline… but about meaning?In this episode, we explore the blueprint for Rituals. The small intentional acts that give shape to our lives, help us feel present, and create a sense of structure in a world that often feels rushed and disconnected.From beauty routines and morning coffee to family gatherings, rites of passage and collective traditions, we explore why humans have always needed rituals and what happens when many of them disappear.When did routine become something we optimize instead of something we experience?Why are we craving structure while resisting repetition?And what moments in our daily lives could become more meaningful if we approached them with intention?If you’re trying to reconnect with presence, rhythm, community and yourself, this episode is for you.

As If We Know about FUN

Somewhere along the way, fun becomes something you schedule, contain, or even outgrow.But what if that’s the real problem?In this episode, we explore when fun stopped being part of everyday life, and why so many of us feel stuck between pressure, routine, and the need to “have it all figured out.”From childhood play to adult seriousness, we unpack how we’ve been conditioned to disconnect fun from success, discipline, and purpose, and what that’s costing us.What if fun isn’t a distraction…but a tool?From creativity and curiosity to resilience and momentum, we explore how fun might actually be one of the most powerful ways to move forward, take risks, and imagine new possibilities.This conversation is for you if life feels heavy, overly optimized, or stuck in routine… or if you’ve forgotten what “fun” even means for you.The system taught you to be serious. What happens when you choose to play anyway?

As If We Know about REST

What if rest wasn’t something you had to earn?Most of us were taught to stay busy. To produce, achieve, keep going. And only then… maybe rest. But somewhere along the way, rest became something we justify, optimize, or even feel guilty about.In this episode, we challenge that blueprint.We talk about burnout, overstimulation, and the quiet anxiety of doing nothing. Why scrolling isn’t rest. Why being constantly “on” disconnects us from ourselves. And what happens when you start treating rest as essential, not optional.Because rest isn’t the opposite of progress but might be the thing that makes it possible.

As If We Know about WORK

The default blueprint for Work came with a promise: you study, you get a job, you work hard, you succeed. But what happens when that promise no longer holds for everybody? In this episode, we explore why work feels heavier and more uncertain than ever, and why so many people are questioning their careers, pivoting, or starting over. From side hustles and career shifts to “micro-retirements” and redefining success, we explore the new blueprint of work, one that’s no longer linear, stable, or predefined. This conversation is for you if you’re questioning your career path, feeling uneasy at your job, or craving more meaning, flexibility, or freedom in work. The system is changing. How will you redefine your place in it?

Damn, am I the problem ?

In this first episode, Cath and Alvio set the tone. They introduce their take on “life blueprints” : the invisible frameworks shaping how we work, love, define success, and build our identity and our life. They reveal what shifts when we consciously reclaim ownership over what was handed to us by default. Through their personal stories, they take you to the pivotal moments that made them question everything, and realize there was more to life than the path they had inherited. This is your invitation to start seeing differently, and to explore, through lived experiences and powerful stories, how to create a life that feels truly aligned, meaningful, and your own.