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How do we advocate for our desires the same way we advocate for our limits? How do we see ourselves as valid even if we’re bedroom-only? How can a safe word be heard through a ball gag? Lina has practical answers to all of the above, including a (ASMR?) demonstration for one of them…. you’ll never guess which!! Become a Patreon [http://www.patreon.com/askasub] member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to memo.fm/askasub [http://memo.fm/askasub] and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby substack here [http://askasub.substack.com/subscribe]. See the paid post archive here [http://askasub.substack.com/t/paid]. Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com [http://www.momotaroapotheca.com] with code LINADUNE Twitter [http://www.twitter.com/askasub] | @Lina.Dune [http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune] | @askasub2.0 [http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0] CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner [https://www.kayleighdenner.com/] Music by Dan Molad [http://danmolad.com/]

A caller wants to know what to do when a threesome fantasy about a friend becomes a sudden turn-off. Lina does some Ick Forensics™️ on what could be bothering them, and breaks down the realities of being your own Threesome BFF. Also a bonus pep talk for bi girls who are afraid of other girls — tl;dr if the world is burning you better be kissing someone about it so help me god. Read Unicorn Hunters On Trial [https://open.substack.com/pub/askasub/p/unicorn-hunters-on-trial] on substack. Become a Patreon [http://www.patreon.com/askasub] member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to memo.fm/askasub [http://memo.fm/askasub] and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby substack here [http://askasub.substack.com/subscribe]. See the paid post archive here [http://askasub.substack.com/t/paid]. Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com [http://www.momotaroapotheca.com] with code LINADUNE Twitter [http://www.twitter.com/askasub] | @Lina.Dune [http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune] | @askasub2.0 [http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0] CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner [https://www.kayleighdenner.com/] Music by Dan Molad [http://danmolad.com/]

Today Lina answers one of life’s age old questions, one that’s debated frequently in a public forum much like the God question or origins of the universe — should Doms be subs before they Dom? Together we’ll weigh the benefits of gaining that empathetic perspective while also balancing the hot take that nobody should do anything sexually they don’t want to do. Also — a bonus discussion of Lina in a room with power advocating for sexuality creates online! Thanks to you! Become a Patreon [http://www.patreon.com/askasub] member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to memo.fm/askasub [http://memo.fm/askasub] and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby substack here [http://askasub.substack.com/subscribe]. See the paid post archive here [http://askasub.substack.com/t/paid]. Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com [http://www.momotaroapotheca.com] with code LINADUNE Twitter [http://www.twitter.com/askasub] | @Lina.Dune [http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune] | @askasub2.0 [http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0] CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner [https://www.kayleighdenner.com/] Music by Dan Molad [http://danmolad.com/]

Sydney Baloue [https://www.instagram.com/sydneybaloue/] is a writer, performer, event producer and advocate for racial, social, and gender justice, LGBTQ+ rights, and for trans-masculine visibility in voguing, boxing and in the film and television industry. He opened up with us about the gay male rumspringa he had after transitioning, and how he’s found refuge in the wildest of places — gay male saunas and in the arms of various Daddies to name a few.  To get the full version of this episode Join Patreon [http://www.patreon.com/askasub] at $11/month or substack [http://askasub.substack.com/subscribe] at $8/month. Subscribe to the subby substack here [http://askasub.substack.com/subscribe]. See the paid post archive here [http://askasub.substack.com/t/paid]. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com Go here [http://www.askasub.com/podcast] for information on how to record a voice memo Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com [http://www.momotaroapotheca.com] with code LINADUNE Twitter [http://www.twitter.com/askasub] | @Lina.Dune [http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune] | @askasub2.0 [http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0] CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner [https://www.kayleighdenner.com/] Music by Dan Molad [http://danmolad.com/]

A long-married caller wants to know how to jumpstart a 24/7 dynamic with a partner who may have some reservations. Lina validates that your 24/7 dynamic is supposed to breathe with you, not suprise choke unwanted breath play on you. Something like that.  Use code FIRST50 for 50% off your first office hours booking [http://www.askasub.com/officehours]. Become a Patreon [http://www.patreon.com/askasub] member to gain access to all the Ask A Sub benefits including our discord server, ad-free podcast feed, archive of premium audio and written posts, as well as our new podcast within a podcast, OTK with Lina and Mr. Dune. Submit questions for this podcast by going to memo.fm/askasub [http://memo.fm/askasub] and recording a voice memo. Subscribe to the subby substack here [http://askasub.substack.com/subscribe]. See the paid post archive here [http://askasub.substack.com/t/paid]. Get 20% off your order at http://www.momotaroapotheca.com [http://www.momotaroapotheca.com] with code LINADUNE Twitter [http://www.twitter.com/askasub] | @Lina.Dune [http://www.instagram.com/lina.dune] | @askasub2.0 [http://www.instagram.com/askasub2.0] CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner [https://www.kayleighdenner.com/] Music by Dan Molad [http://danmolad.com/]