Ep. 45. The Basic Universe - Hot Spots incl. getting dumped, break up s*x and dating younger people.

Ep. 47. The Basic Life Of Tinatswe Pt II: Age gaps when f**kin and figuring out power & pleasure.

How do you navigate your politics and your pleasure? How do you handle age gaps and power dynamics? Why are activists messy in the sheets whilst marching in the streets? In this episode Tiff sits and chats with this feminist powerhouse about dating in these feminist streets and how it is sometimes so wild. Check out the Instagram: @basicallylife_pod Check out The Feminist Bar on I.G: thefeministbarpodcast Tina on I.G: thefeministcreative On twitter: thefeministbar Give us a 5 star review, and subscribe on all your fave platforms!

Ep. 46. The Basic Life of Kui The Fish: Sacred relationships, dating artists and healing.

Do you have to date people forever? Should we explore different regions in our s*x lives? What happens when your holiday-bae and your mama are in a whatsapp group together? In this episode Tiff sits down with her birthday mate and new homie Kui to chat about dating in Senegal, having your mom get a very sensual photo of you and what it means to heal when you are in these dating streets. Check out the Instagram: I.G basicallylife_pod Check out Kui on Instagram I.G: kuithefish Give us a 5 star review and subscribe on all your fave platforms.

Ep. 45. The Basic Universe - Hot Spots incl. getting dumped, break up s*x and dating younger people.

In this edition of HOLAA in a Hot Spot Tiff answers questions around wanting to just be in the streets after a break up, wondering why you constantly get dumped and being with younger people. Also gay p*rn, again. Rules of the game: 1. You can submit your questions anonymously 2. Just tell us where you are from so Tiff can give advice with context and focus. Links: Submit your questions here - forms.gle/Jq2xEQM1EX9CoWng9 Follow the Basically Life Instagram on basicallylife_pod Like, review and subscribe on all your fave platforms!

Ep. 44. The Basic Life of Kebone: Proteas, Race and Culture and Nude First Dates.

What is dating like in San Fran for a new queer? What sort of things to race and culture bring up? Should you go on a weekend away to a clothing optional retreat as a first date? In this episode Tiff sits down with the beautiful Kebone to discuss dating in a new country and city, dating across race and culture and how you really need to just get out there and explore when you are coming into your sexuality. Check out the Instagram: I.G basicallylife_pod Check out Kebone on Instagram I.G: kemomoloko Give us a 5 star review and subscribe on all your fave platforms.

Ep. 43. The Basic Life of Rix The Poet: Masculinity, speaking about s*x, and cat fishing.

Why don't men chat about sex? How does your childhood trauma and drama turn up in your dating life? Why are people still pulling catfish vibes in this day and age? Seriously? In this episode we have our first cis-heterosexual man! Rix the poet sits down with Tiff to discuss masculinity, co dependency, dating and finding someone who is super compatible and how at men really need to chat about the more intimate parts of being between the sheets. Check out the Instagram: I.G basicallylife_pod Check out Rix on Instagram I.G: rixpoet and afromenpod Give us a 5 star review and subscribe on all your fave platforms.