Is It Menopause or Do I Just Hate Everyone

The Sidebar: Pop Culture, Style & Girl Talk

Surprise! It's a bonus episode for a rainy Memorial Day Weekend. We catch up on all things pop culture (Off Campus, Met Gala fashion, Euphoria, closet clean outs, the Cold Play scandal and more). So get cozy, get a cocktail or a coffee and gab with us. Let us know in the comments what you thought of this episode and if you want more of this kind of content. Don't forget to follow us so you never miss an episode :) The information shared on BeforeBoca is for general informational and entertainment purposes only. Thehosts are not medical, legal, or financial professionals, and nothing discussedon this podcast should be considered professional advice. Any actions takenbased on the content of this podcast are done at the listener’s own discretion.Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individualcircumstances. #midlifereinvention #midlifepurpose #womenover50 #style

Is It Menopause or Do I Just Hate Everyone

If menopause has ever made you feel like a stranger in your ownbody — like you've lost a piece of yourself and can't quite find your way back— this episode is for you. We sit down with Stacy Lauber, a menopause educator and advocate who is on a mission to cut through theconfusion, silence, and misinformation surrounding one of the most significanttransitions in a woman's life. We talk about perimenopause symptoms nobody prepares you for, the mood shifts and identity loss that feel impossible to explain, why menopause misinformation is so rampant — and what menopause support and treatment actually look like when you finally get the right help. In this episode: -Why so many women feel completely"off" — and why that feeling is valid -The mood shifts, libido changes, and loss ofself that come with menopause symptoms -Why menopause misinformation is dangerous — andhow to protect yourself -What menopause treatment options actually exist(and who to ask) -How the right menopause support can changeeverything Whether you're deep in perimenopause symptoms, newlypost-menopausal, or just starting to feel not quite yourself — Stacy's insight will help you feel less alone and more empowered to advocate for your own health. This is the conversation we all needed someone to have with us. 🎙️ Guest:Stacy Lauber — Menopause Educator & Advocate 📌 Subscribe to Before Boca for weekly conversations on midlife reinvention, purpose, and what comes next for women over 50. 0:00 - Is it menopause or do I just hate everyone? 02:15 - Weekly Intos & Overs: What we are loving (and over) this week 08:40 - The moment you realize your fuse is completely gone 13:10 - Is it hormone shifts or just midlife boundary setting? 19:55 - How menopause rage impacts our marriages and friendships 26:15 - Reclaiming your peace: Getting your time back in this chapter 32:40 - Navigating the emotional side of perimenopause symptoms 39:10 - Final thoughts: You aren’t crazy, you’re just reinventing The information shared on Before Boca is for general informational and entertainment purposes only. The hosts are not medical, legal, or financial professionals, and nothing discussed on this podcast should be considered professional advice. Any actions taken based on the content of this podcast are done at the listener’s own discretion. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual circumstances.

The Daily Show's Jen Flanz: By the Time You're 50 You've Survived More Than You Think

What if everything you've been through — the cancer diagnosis, the divorce, the heartbreak, the hard years — was actually the thing you should be most proud of?Jen Flanz, Executive Producer and Runner of The Daily Show, sits down with us for one of the most honest conversations we've had on Before Boca. Jen has survived cancer, navigated divorce, fallen in love again, and collected Emmy Awards along the way. But what strikes you most about her isn't the resume — it's the way she owns every scar. In this episode we talk about: •What a cancer diagnosis teaches you about what actually matters •How divorce can be a beginning, not just an ending •Finding love again when you thought that chapter was closed• What it really means to build a career you're proud of •Why midlife is the perfect time to stop apologizing for what you've been through By 50, most of us have survived more than we give ourselves credit for. This conversation is your permission slip to wear those war scars with pride.If you've ever wondered whether everything you've been through has been worth it — this episode is for you. 🎙️ Listen to the full Before Boca podcast wherever you stream podcasts. 📩 Join our community on Instagram @before_boca #DailyShow #JenFlanz #womenover50 #midlifereinvention #cancersurvivor #beforeboca #midlifepodcast #startingover50 The information shared on Before Boca is for general informational and entertainment purposes only. The hosts are not medical, legal, or financial professionals, and nothing discussed on this podcast should be considered professional advice. Any actions taken based on the content of this podcast are done at the listener’s own discretion. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual circumstances.

College Admissions Minus The Spiral

College admissions have officially become a full-time job — for parents and teenagers alike. The pressure, the competition, the endless group chats, the essays, the campus tours… it's enough to make even the most grounded mom spiral.Sydney Friedman, founder of Friedman College Consulting, joins us to help you navigate this process without losing your mind — or your relationship with your kid. We talk about the four biggest mistakes parents make (including "photoshopping your kid's resume"), why rejection might actually be good for them, and why the final college decision should belong to your teen — not you.If you're a mom of a high school junior or senior trying to stay sane through this process, this one's for you.🎙️ Subscribe for more real conversations about midlife, parenting, and what comes next → [your channel link]00:26 🗣️ The hosts introduce the topic of the college application process, highlighting its stress for both students and parents, and the guilt associated with making the process work. They mention that today's guest, Sydney Friedman, will help navigate this process while preserving family relationships.01:14 🎓 Sydney Friedman, founder of Friedman College Consulting, is introduced.02:39 🎯 Sydney's philosophy: empowering families while reducing external pressures.04:49 🧘‍♀️ Stop collecting acceptances — start finding the right fit.06:08 🧑‍🎓 Your teen is not a product to be optimized.08:51 🚫 Why rejection is actually good for your kid.11:14 🏫 Why everyone chases the same 10 schools — and why that's a trap.13:19 🗺️ How to cast a wider net without feeling like you're settling.15:04 ❌ The #1 mistake parents make: an unbalanced college list.20:07 📝 4 mistakes parents make — including "photoshopping your kid's resume."28:40 🤝 How to be a project manager — not a helicopter parent.35:01 ⚖️ Eligible vs. admissible — and why it's not about your kid's worth.39:01 💭 Should your kid have a dream school? Here's the honest answer.40:25 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 The final decision: why it needs to be theirs.41:42 ✍️ Essays and activities lists: what most families get wrong.The information shared on Before Boca is for general informational and entertainment purposes only. The hosts are not medical, legal, or financial professionals, and nothing discussed on this podcast should be considered professional advice. Any actions taken based on the content of this podcast are done at the listener’s own discretion. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual circumstances.

Manifestation After 50: Why This is Your Most Powerful Chapter Yet

Manifestation after 50, why this chapter is the most powerful to manifest the life you want.Most of us spent our 30s and 40s manifesting for everyone else — a good school, a better job for our spouse, a healthy family. But now the house is quieter. The kids are gone. And for the first time in maybe decades — we actually get to ask: what do I want?In this episode, we're getting into manifestation — not the vision board, love-and-light version, but the real kind. The kind that's about aligning your energy with what you want to experience so it can flow naturally into your life without you controlling every outcome. In this episode we cover: Why your quieter house is actually the perfect launching pad for manifestation What manifestation really is (hint: it's not magic — it's energy alignment) Why what you focus on expands — and how to redirect that focus toward possibility Gratitude as a daily practice, not just a feeling — and why it changes everything How to trust the universe before you can see the outcome Why you should stop judging events as good or bad (the Chinese Farmer parable) The "Selfish AF" phase — and why embracing it is long overdue Books & Resources We Loved: 📖 Wishes Fulfilled by Dr. Wayne Dyer• 📖 Thank and Grow Rich by Pam Grout• 🎙️ Gabby Bernstein's 21-Day Manifestation Challenge 00:40 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=40] 🗣️ Michelle and Lisa introduce themselves and the podcast, announcing episode 16 will focus on manifesting the life you want in midlife through simple mind shifts and practices.01:01 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=61] 🎯 Lisa explains that midlife is a time to refocus on personal desires after decades of prioritizing family — the shift to what "I really want."02:36 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=156] 💡 Lisa clarifies that manifestation is NOT wishful thinking or vision boards — it's the "behind the scenes" hard work and intentionality required to achieve goals.04:42 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=282] 🔄 Michelle highlights the principle: "What you put out into the world is what your world becomes."05:31 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=331] 📚 Michelle and Lisa share their research — Gabby Bernstein's 21-day challenge, Dr. Wayne Dyer, and Pam Grout.08:04 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=484] 🙏 Michelle shares her daily gratitude journaling practice — writing 3 things she's grateful for each morning.09:33 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=573] 🌌 Lisa introduces trusting the universe — letting go of fear before seeing the outcome.11:24 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=684] 🧠 Michelle explains: "What you focus on determines your reality" — focusing on possibilities expands them; focusing on barriers creates more barriers.13:40 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=820] 🛑 Lisa discusses stopping micromanagement and letting things flow — her personal struggle with anxiety-driven control.16:15 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=975] 🧲 Michelle: "The state you're in influences what shows up" — you are a magnet attracting the energy you put out.17:00 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=1020] 🛣️ Lisa reframes obstacles as detours in the right direction, not roadblocks.18:21 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=1101] ⚖️ Michelle shares the Chinese farmer proverb — stop judging events as good or bad; you don't know the long-term outcome.21:40 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=1300] 🧘‍♀️ Michelle reflects on midlife as a time of feeling stronger, more connected, and unafraid of the future.26:33 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=1593] 🚫 Lisa's final takeaway: "We are not stuck, we are avoiding it" — face the fear underneath the procrastination.27:47 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=1667] 💖 Michelle closes: Manifestation isn't about wanting more — it's about believing you deserve what you want.28:48 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=1728] 😂 Lisa's "ins and overs" — TikTok creator Plumes, and compilations of people falling without getting hurt.30:43 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=1843] 🗣️ Lisa's "overs" — small talk and large groups of bicyclists on busy roads.31:58 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=1918] 📺 Michelle's "ins" — documentaries: "Trust Me, the False Prophet" and "Margot is Having Money Trouble" (Michelle Pfeiffer).33:41 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=2021] 🖨️ Michelle's "over" — printers forcing you to use color ink even when printing in black and white.34:53 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MQFtdX2CeSA&t=2093] 📢 Outro — like, follow, subscribe, and check out their Linktree for gift ideas and shopping recommendations. 📲 Follow us on Instagram: @before_boca #manifestation #womenover50 #midlifereinvention #emptynestsyndrome #startingover50 #midlifewomen #beforeboca #manifestationpractice #gratitude #midlifepodcastT