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Ep 14 - Letting Go of Parental Guilt, Perfectionism & the Pressure to Get Parenting "Right"

1 h 1 min · 7 de jun de 2025
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Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you’re not “getting it right” as a parent? You're not alone. Parental guilt, perfectionism, and the constant pressure to do more are stories many of us carry,  often without realising it. In this episode, Jackie and mum Amanda explore: - Why guilt and perfectionism show up in parenting - How the pressure to “get it right” affects our nervous system - How old beliefs shape our reactions — especially when raising neurodivergent kids - Gentle ways to shift these patterns and meet ourselves with more compassion Beneath Behaviour is the podcast where we explore what’s really going on -  beneath the behaviour. 👇 Subscribe to Beneath Behaviour for more in-depth conversations with parents, experts, and advocates. For more information about the lenses and what Jackie Hall teaches, you can go to www.parentalstresscentre.com #ParentingPodcast #ParentalGuilt #ParentingPerfectionism #ParentingPressure #ParentingBurnout #NeurodivergentParenting #MindfulParenting #ParentingStress #BeneathBehaviour #SelfCompassion #autismmum

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episode Ep 14 - Letting Go of Parental Guilt, Perfectionism & the Pressure to Get Parenting "Right" artwork

Ep 14 - Letting Go of Parental Guilt, Perfectionism & the Pressure to Get Parenting "Right"

Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you’re not “getting it right” as a parent? You're not alone. Parental guilt, perfectionism, and the constant pressure to do more are stories many of us carry,  often without realising it. In this episode, Jackie and mum Amanda explore: - Why guilt and perfectionism show up in parenting - How the pressure to “get it right” affects our nervous system - How old beliefs shape our reactions — especially when raising neurodivergent kids - Gentle ways to shift these patterns and meet ourselves with more compassion Beneath Behaviour is the podcast where we explore what’s really going on -  beneath the behaviour. 👇 Subscribe to Beneath Behaviour for more in-depth conversations with parents, experts, and advocates. For more information about the lenses and what Jackie Hall teaches, you can go to www.parentalstresscentre.com #ParentingPodcast #ParentalGuilt #ParentingPerfectionism #ParentingPressure #ParentingBurnout #NeurodivergentParenting #MindfulParenting #ParentingStress #BeneathBehaviour #SelfCompassion #autismmum

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