Finding Love: Flawed, Imperfect but Still Deserving

Better. Not Perfect Season 1 Finale

In Episode 8, Dr. Shai shares what "Better" looks like in the metamorphosis and evolution of a woman. No longer would she see herself as damaged goods with a negative perspective about herself and life. She shares openly about what her life is like now, as perfectionism declines and positivity grows. On the path to abundant living, Dr. Shai speaks from the heart as she wraps up Season 1 of the Better. Not Perfect Podcast and invites listeners to join her in Season 2, which will air in October. Until then, continue to join tune into her channel for "Better Moments" brief motivations that will air twice weekly in the month of September. During these segments, Dr. Shai will share more about purpose positioning as she continues to support others on their journey of learning, loving, and being themselves, unapologetically!

Caution: This Is Not A Drill. It's Life-So Woman Up And Live It

This week, Dr. Shai shares how she hit a wall in life, and came to an impasse in her marriage, all the while "drowning in success." Overworked, overwhelmed, overcome, she turned to alcohol to mask feelings of imperfection as she tried to do it all, be it all and have it all. From a glass to a bottle, to a box, alcohol became the crutch that almost led to her losing it all. Tune in and find out how she came back from the brink of the abyss to being firmly planted back on the road to abundance. In other words, she got "Better."

Love and Everest: Both Worth The Climb

In Episode 6 Dr. Shai continues the conversation on life, love, and marriage with her husband, Dr. Odo Butler (aka Dr. Boo). In this episode, the couple advises on not giving up on love and surviving the struggles and challenges in marriage when life happens. In Better. Not Perfect the book, Dr. Shai writes "The gift of love and marriage was a blessing that at times felt like a huge burden, not because I lacked love for my family but because I received this wonderful gift with no clue that it was about to change everything about my life as it was. So, it truly was the best of times and the worst of times. the new family was the blessing; the new family completely overwhelmed me. I was drowning fast..." A perfectionist by nature, Dr. Shai was on the killer quest for the perfect marriage, the perfect career, the goal to be the perfect mom, the perfect friend, and the list goes on. Having it all and doing it all well was the unspoken mantra until she hit a wall and almost lost the "all" that she pursued (see Chapter 7). Join the conversation and hear how the "decision" to love led ultimately to the healing that saved the marriage.

Finding Love: Flawed, Imperfect but Still Deserving

We have a special guest in studio this week, Dr. Odo Butler, (aka Dr. Boo) the co-creator of the Power Couple Podcast that aired in 2019 and ran for two seasons. Together we explore how this imperfect love of ours strives for "Better" daily after 19 years together and 17 years of marriage. Today, in Part 1, we tell the story of how we met and what ingredients went into building the foundation that stood the storms that would come in Part 2: Episode 6. Going from a "Hot Mess" to a "Happy Wife " new mom, and new C-Suite executive was no easy journey. Before Mr. Right came along I had a lot of internal work to do, we both did. But as I frequently say, "Love didn't come when I was perfect. Love came when I was Better."

School Days & The Onset of Chaos

Was there ever a time in your life when you were out of control? Were you acting out negatively because you were unhappy with your life? In this episode I talk about how I looked like I was winning in life on the outside, but inside, I was messy and continually making bad choices. I was on the hot pursuit of perfection and the idea of "having it all." The problem was, I wanted it "all" for all of the wrong reasons. I was on a quest to prove to the world, something that I wasn't able to prove to myself. I felt like an imposter daily and yet I pursued more education, more awards, wealth, position, love, etc. but nothing could fill the emptiness inside. Sound familiar, in you, or someone you know. There is a root cause and finding it is the key to attaining and living a "Better" life.