From Vending Machine to Table: Transforming the Way You Seek God

Ghosted: What God Says About Being Cut Off & How to Heal

Ghosting — abruptly cutting off all communication without explanation — is more common than ever. And it's not just in dating. It's happening in friendships, churches, workplaces, marriages, and even between parents and adult children. In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer talk openly about the pain of being ghosted, the lack of integrity behind doing it, and — most importantly — what God's Word says about how to heal and move forward. They explore David's raw, honest wrestling in Psalm 55 and his moment of crisis in 1 Samuel 30, where even his own men turned against him — and how he found his footing by encouraging himself in the Lord. Because here's the truth: God will never ghost you. Whether you're hurting from a friendship that vanished, a dating relationship that ended without a word, a congregation member who disappeared, a spouse who has gone silent, or an adult child who has cut off contact — this episode will give you biblical, practical tools to find closure, cast your care on God (1 Peter 5:7), and refuse to let it define you. 💬 Topics covered: ghosting in dating, ghosting in marriage, silent treatment, church ghosting, estranged adult children, how to pray when you've been ghosted, writing letters for closure, encouraging yourself in the Lord. 📖 Key Scriptures: Psalm 55 | 1 Samuel 30:6 | 1 Peter 5:7 🏠 Bring hope home to your life today. Don't forget to subscribe, share, and leave us a comment — we'd love to hear from you! Resources: Schafferministries.com [http://Schafferministries.com] How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz [https://schafferministries.com/marriage-quiz] Follow us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/coletteschaffer/] Join our monthly newsletter [https://schafferministries.com/newsletter] Check out our books and products [https://schafferministries.com/new-products]

From Vending Machine to Table: Transforming the Way You Seek God

Have you ever walked away from prayer feeling like God just didn't come through? You gave your tithes, read your Bible, sent up your request — and still nothing. If you're honest, maybe God has started to feel a little like a vending machine. You put something in. You expect something out. In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer tackle this subtle but soul-shaping mindset head-on. Drawing from Philippians 4:19, Matthew 6:33, and the life of Joseph, they uncover why the "vending machine" approach to God leaves us disappointed, distant, and spiritually dry — and what God is truly inviting us into instead. Spoiler: He's not a machine. He's a table. And there's a big difference. Whether you're brand new in your faith, a longtime believer, or somewhere in between, this episode will challenge the way you come to God and open your heart to a relationship that's richer, deeper, and more transformative than you imagined. Key Takeaways: * The vending machine mindset — what it is and why it sneaks up on us * What Philippians 4:19 really means (it's not what you think) * Why Matthew 6:33 is the antidote to transactional faith * How the story of Joseph shows God working through hard seasons, not around them * The beautiful invitation from God: come to the table Bring hope home to your life today. Resources: Schafferministries.com [http://Schafferministries.com] How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz [https://schafferministries.com/marriage-quiz] Follow us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/coletteschaffer/] Join our monthly newsletter [https://schafferministries.com/newsletter] Check out our books and products [https://schafferministries.com/new-products]

The Invisible Weight You're Carrying — Stress, Anxiety & Letting God In

We all carry things we were never meant to hold. In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer unpack the invisible stress and weight that quietly drains couples, parents, and families — and how to start putting it down. Colette opens up about her own experience with unrecognized anxiety, panic attacks, and postpartum depression — and the moment her body finally shut down and said enough. If you've ever pushed through the hard stuff without telling anyone, this conversation will hit home. Together, Bryce and Colette walk through practical, faith-filled steps to help you manage the mental load: how to delegate and communicate with your spouse, why setting new boundaries is an act of wisdom (not weakness), how to create more grace for yourself, and why giving God your day — before the to-do list takes over — changes everything. They also talk about the often-overlooked connection between physical health, diet, and anxiety, and why your body can't sustain what your spirit is refusing to release. 📖 Scripture: Matthew 11:28-30 | Romans 8:28 📚 Resource: Planted by Colette Schaffer — a guided study for a peace-filled life in an anxiety-filled world. If your home is going to be a peaceful sanctuary, it starts with putting down what you were never meant to carry. Bring hope home to your life today.

Maycember Moms: Honoring Mothers, Finding Balance & Raising Kids Who Hear From God

It's "Maycember" — and in the middle of the busiest stretch of the year, we stop to celebrate the moms who make it all happen. In this Mother's Day episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer honor their own incredible moms, reflect on the beautiful chaos of motherhood, and share three powerful encouragements for every mom in every season of life. You'll hear why Ephesians 5:15-16 is a lifeline for overwhelmed moms, what Mary (yes, that Mary) teaches us about the power of pondering, and why the most important legacy you can leave your kids has nothing to do with their trophies or accomplishments. Whether you're a new mom just finding your footing, a seasoned mom wondering if you did enough, or somewhere in between — this episode was made for you. Key takeaways:  ✔️ Prioritize your own needs — without guilt  ✔️ Understand the difference between choices and sacrifices  ✔️ Keep the end goal in focus: raising kids who can hear from God Happy Mother's Day. You are seen, you are celebrated, and you are more than enough. "Bring hope home to your life today." Resources: Schafferministries.com [http://Schafferministries.com] How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz [https://schafferministries.com/marriage-quiz] Follow us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/coletteschaffer/] Join our monthly newsletter [https://schafferministries.com/newsletter] Check out our books and products [https://schafferministries.com/new-products]

How to Beat Discontentment: Finding Biblical Peace in a Comparison-Driven World

Does discontentment have a grip on your life — or your marriage? In a world of highlight reels and social media comparison, it's easier than ever to feel like you're falling behind, stuck, or just not enough. But what does God's Word actually say about contentment — and how do we learn it the way Paul did? In this episode of Bringing Hope Home, Bryce and Colette Schaffer get real about the struggle of discontentment — including their own. Drawing from Philippians 4:11-13, the story of the Israelites in the wilderness, and years of pastoral wisdom, they walk you through five practical, Biblical steps to break free from the comparison trap and cultivate a peace-filled heart right where God has planted you. You'll discover:  ✔️ Why discontentment is really a lack mindset — and how to shift it  ✔️ The danger of a fixed mindset vs. the freedom of a growth mindset  ✔️ How gratitude and thanksgiving literally change your trajectory  ✔️ Why saying "yes" to God quickly is one of the most powerful things you can do  ✔️ How to find your daily assignment and get your eyes off yourself No matter what season of life you're in — whether your marriage is thriving or struggling, whether you feel stuck or just stretched — God values you right where you are. This episode is your reminder that discontentment doesn't have to be your story. 📖 "I have learned, in whatever situation I am, to be content." — Philippians 4:11 Bring hope home to your life today. Resources: Schafferministries.com [http://Schafferministries.com] How Healthy Is Your Marriage? Take the Quiz [https://schafferministries.com/marriage-quiz] Follow us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/coletteschaffer/] Join our monthly newsletter [https://schafferministries.com/newsletter] Check out our books and products [https://schafferministries.com/new-products]