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Feeling STUCK? This tool will help you, today.

43 min · 11 de may de 2026
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In this episode, I sat down with Laura Rubin, writer, speaker, founder of AllSwell Creative, and author of The Big Unlock, for a powerful conversation about journaling, anxiety, fear, gratitude, and how writing can help us get unstuck. Laura breaks down why journaling is so much more than simply writing down your feelings. Through her approach to mindful writing, she explains how intentional prompts can help us recognize patterns, quiet our critical voice, shift our mood, and reconnect with what actually matters. Together, we explore why anxiety is often future-focused imagination, how positive memories can help calm the body, why gratitude works best when connected to the five senses, and how small practices like the “4x4” journaling method and “dopamine push-ups” can create real change in everyday life. This conversation is for anyone who feels stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, or curious about how writing can become a simple but powerful tool for mental and emotional well-being. Learn more about Laura: https://allswellcreative.com/ [https://allswellcreative.com/]  Learn more about Keesha: https://keeshascott.com/ [https://keeshascott.com/] Grab a copy of Laura's book: https://allswellcreative.com/pages/the-big-unlock [https://allswellcreative.com/pages/the-big-unlock]  00:00 — Introduction 00:58 — Welcome Laura Rubin to Cake for Dinner 01:40 — Why so many people feel stuck 02:48 — What being “stuck” looks like in real life 04:26 — The fear underneath most blocks 05:30 — Mindful writing vs. traditional journaling 06:28 — Journaling as a tool for embodiment and mood shifts 07:17 — The serotonin bath: using positive memories to calm anxiety 09:04 — Why nature is so powerful for the mind 10:21 — Awe, water, and reconnecting with something bigger 13:10 — Why journaling has a PR problem 14:31 — The stories and patterns that shape our lives 17:04 — Gratitude as a daily practice 19:19 — Using the five senses to make gratitude more powerful 20:13 — Recognizing your “big rocks” and priorities 22:15 — Writing things down to see your patterns clearly 23:20 — Why longhand journaling is so effective 24:52 — Rock stars need roadies: asking for support 27:01 — Externalizing thoughts instead of letting them loop 30:44 — The 4x4 journaling method 33:20 — Perfectionism and the critical voice 35:05 — Giving anxiety a seat, but not control 37:06 — Self-compassion and evolutionary fear 38:43 — Dopamine push-ups and healthy mood shifts 40:56 — Where to find Laura Rubin and The Big Unlock 42:16 — Closing thoughts and Cake for Dinner outro

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