Checking In with Dr. Therese Mascardo
You’ve done everything right. You’ve hit the milestones, built the life, checked the boxes. And joy still feels like it’s somewhere just ahead of you — one more goal, one more accomplishment, one more thing away. This is the Season 2 Finale of Checking In. This is the episode that ties together everything we talked about during this season. Joy is not what most high achievers think it is. It’s not a reward. It’s not the feeling you get when things go according to plan. It’s not something you earn by working hard enough, healing enough, or becoming the right version of yourself. In this finale, Dr. Therese lays out five truths about joy that change the whole picture. Listen now: YouTube: Apple Podcasts: Spotify: In This Episode Why achievement and joy aren’t the same thing Most high achievers have spent years optimizing for achievement. But achievement and joy use completely different muscles — and this episode is about learning which ones you’ve been neglecting. 5 things joy actually is: * Joy coexists with grief — you don’t have to resolve the pain before you’re allowed to feel good * Presence is the whole practice, not a reward for getting everything done * Waiting for the other shoe to drop is foreboding joy — Brené Brown’s research on why we brace against good moments, and what it costs us * Joy is somatic before it’s cognitive — your body knows before your brain does * Joy doesn’t rely on your plans going right — holding them loosely is how it finds you What every Season 2 guest was actually saying From gut health to financial shame to sleep to truth-telling — Dr. Therese traces the thread running through every conversation this season and lands on what all of it was pointing toward. 🔥 Season 3 is coming: Learning from the Stories That Changed Everything 🔥 Subscribe so you’re there when it drops. Key Quotes “Achievement and joy are not the same thing.” “Joy lives in the room with grief. You don’t get one without making space for the other.” “Presence isn’t a luxury. It’s the whole practice.” “Waiting for the other shoe to drop doesn’t prevent the loss. It just steals the good part.” “Gratitude is how you choose to stay in the room when joy is happening.” “Joy is somatic before it’s cognitive. It’s something you feel before it’s something you understand.” “The most honest thing you can offer someone is the view from inside the hard thing, not from the other side of it.” “Joy isn’t waiting for you at the finish line. It’s already here. The question is whether you’re present enough to feel it.” “Where are you already one foot out the door?” If You Loved This Episode 💌 Share it with someone who’s been chasing joy in the wrong direction. 📝 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It takes two minutes and makes a real difference in helping this show reach more people who need it. 🔔 Subscribe on YouTube, Apple, or Spotify so you don’t miss Season 3. About Checking In This podcast is for high-achievers, perfectionists, and eldest daughters who look like they have it all together but are silently struggling. Think of Dr. Therese like a big sister with a doctorate who’s been there too and knows what actually helps. No confusing academic jargon or pretending she has all the answers. Just real conversations about building a life you don’t need to escape from. New episodes every Thursday. Episodes Mentioned * How to Cope When the World Is on Fire w/ Dr. Marie Fang [https://open.substack.com/pub/exploringtherapy/p/how-to-cope-when-the-world-is-on?r=1po6k&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web] “What is the bare minimum I can actually do right now?” * Are You Building the Wrong Life? w/ Jodie Cook [https://exploringtherapy.substack.com/p/are-you-building-the-wrong-life] — Fear, powerlifting, and whether you’re building the right life * Loneliness Epidemic w/ David Gate [https://exploringtherapy.substack.com/p/loneliness-epidemic] — Saying something true as the first act of rebellion * Why Your Gut Issues Are Ruining Your Mental Health w/ Abi Owens [https://exploringtherapy.substack.com/p/why-your-gut-issues-are-ruining-your?r=1po6k] — What chronic stress does to your gut, and why that line explains the whole season * The Psychology of Money w/ Lindsay Bryan-Podvin [https://exploringtherapy.substack.com/p/the-psychology-of-money-breaking?r=1po6k] — What financial shame has to do with how you feel Resources Mentioned * Daring Greatly [https://www.amazon.com/Daring-Greatly-Courage-Vulnerable-Transforms/dp/1592408419] by Brené Brown — foreboding joy [https://www.amazon.com/Daring-Greatly-Courage-Vulnerable-Transforms/dp/1592408419] About Dr. Therese Dr. Therese Mascardo is a Filipina-American psychologist and author of Love The Journey. For over a decade, she’s been in therapy rooms noticing patterns most people never get to see: what happens right before someone breaks through to genuine joy, what keeps people stuck, what actually helps when everything feels heavy. Her mission is to help people love their lives so they never want to leave them. 💙 Sponsored by TherapyNotes This episode is made possible by TherapyNotes — the all-in-one practice management software built for therapists who are tired of spending Sunday nights catching up on notes. Scheduling, billing, telehealth, and HIPAA-compliant documentation all in one place. Their TherapyFuel AI drafts progress notes in seconds so you can close your laptop and actually be present in the rest of your life. Try it free for 2 months with code DRTHERESE This is a public episode. 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