Adopted vs. Wasian: Why Neither of Us Felt Fully Asian

3 steps to healing your inner child

Welcome back to another episode of Bebe Teeth, let's be honest about what we hate (and love) about ourselves and get into what it takes to heal the inner child! Stay lit, love ya -Clarisse (@clubclari)

Start today or regret tomorrow

Hi kidz <3 the sound of my jade bracelet banging on the table and my tired, monotone voice.. it's a beautiful symphony of advice and and tangible things you can do today to start going after your dreams. Now go make us proud. See ya next week xx, ClubClari

it's ok if you haven't found your people yet

Hope you enjoy this flow of consciousness. Listen when you need a friend or feel lost on your journey. Love, Clari

Adopted vs. Wasian: Why Neither of Us Felt Fully Asian

Today on CLUBCLARI HOTLINE, Clarisse sits down with Emma Fuller to discuss adoption, race, and identity. Emma shares her experience being adopted under China’s One Child Policy, while Clarisse reflects on growing up primarily raised by her Vietnamese grandparents.This episode explores what it means to grow up between cultures, the effects of abandonment, navigating racial identity, and healing trauma in adulthood.⚠️ Trigger warning sections marked and skippable. Timestamps included below.Timestamps:0:00 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U] Opening – identity, culture, and growing up between worlds7:32 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=452s] Emma’s adoption story12:05 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=725s] Clarisse’s upbringing & cultural contrast18:25 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=1105s] I knew you were “whitewashed” 18:38 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=1118s] How abandonment affects relationships25:34 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=1534s] Obsessive love vs emotional breadcrumbs28:19 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=1699s] Feelings toward birth parents30:48 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=1848s] China’s One Child Policy explained34:59 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=2099s] Growing up without a father45:27 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=2727s] Attention-seeking behaviors in adolescence45:57 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=2757s] TW: CSA / Eating Disorders52:02 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=3122s] Skipping the TW section56:14 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=3374s] Career paths: startups vs nursing1:16:35 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhcVOxAJq6U&t=4595s] Final reflections Emma's socials: @emmamingfuller Clarisse's socials: @clubclari

I Believe I Can Fly | Leaving Safety & Betting On Yourself

In this first episode of CLUBCLARI HOTLINE, I talk about walking away from a stable ER nursing career, the fear of reinvention, and what it really means to bet on yourself. This episode is for anyone navigating a quarter-life crisis, identity shift, or career pivot. If you’ve ever felt stuck between safety and freedom — this one’s for you. Timestamps: 0:20 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=20s] Intro/ Backstory 1:42 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=102s] Feelings coming home3:22 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=202s] Nervous system regulation5:12 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=312s] How to change your identity 6:19 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=379s] Dirty secrets 7:37 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=457s] Social anxiety 11:00 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=660s] Changing my life (again)11:45 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=705s] Working in healthcare (nursing) 14:07 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=847s] Jumping timelines 14:35 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=875s] Finding home in Vietnam 16:00 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=960s] What I said to make new friends 16:40 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=1000s] Award ceremony (thank you to friends) 18:22 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=1102s] Recap: times i’ve changed my life 19:17 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=1157s] Posting on social media 20:50 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=1250s] Crashing out 21:52 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=1312s] The bad side of flying 23:10 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=1390s] Money 23:50 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=1430s] Making short films25:24 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=1524s] Working through the fear of being seen26:40 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=1600s] Watching people online27:06 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1g_hI3WvoY&t=1626s] Final Notes Instagram/ TikTok: ‪@clubclari‬ [https://www.youtube.com/@clubclari]