Confidently Insecure

In this week’s Hoes Throughout History, Kelsey dives into the scandalous, petty, and downright iconic life of Theodora of Byzantium - the actress-turned-courtesan who flipped the script and became Empress of the Byzantine Empire. From slut-shaming gossip in the history books to changing laws for women, Theodora’s story is messy, powerful, and oh-so-relevant. We’ll cover: * Her rise from stage girl to co-ruler 👑 * The social reforms that gave hoes rights in 500 CE ✨ * The infamous “Purple is a fine color for a burial shroud” speech that saved Constantinople from burning 🔥 Get comfy, grab your coffee, and let’s talk about how a “hoe” became the woman who held an empire together. 👉 Don’t forget to rate, review, and tell me: what’s YOUR purple shroud hill? Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations [https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

✨ mental health • feminism • community living • relationships ✨ In today’s episode we’re diving headfirst into the big messy questions: what does it mean to build a life outside of men and outside of society’s “timeline”? I break down the Bird’s Nest community (a women-only living space where companionship > coupledom), the rise of the 4B movement in South Korea (spoiler: no men, no marriage, no babies, no problem?), and how timeline grief sneaks up on us when we realize we’re not living the script we were handed. We’ll talk money (aka financial independence = freedom), self-discovery, and why reinvention at literally ANY age is not only allowed, it’s necessary. Plus: I got featured in the Wall Street Journal (!!) so yeah, we’re celebrating that too. 🔑 takeaways: * Community living is changing the way women think about love + support * The 4B movement is feminism… turned up to 11 * “Timeline grief” is real, but it doesn’t have to own you * Financial independence = the sexiest thing you can give yourself * Reinvention is always on the table 🕒 chapters: 00:00 Intro 04:34 Bird’s Nest Community 12:50 The Dynamics of Male Relationships 17:40 4B Movement: A Feminist Stance 25:10 Timeline Grief + Personal Reflection 32:48 Financial Independence + Future Planning 💬 Drop me a comment if you’ve ever felt timeline grief, if you’d move into a Bird’s Nest house, or if you’re secretly (or not so secretly) 4B curious. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations [https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

In this week’s episode, we are officially 35 — which means we'reold enough to know better but still young enough to make terrible choices...INSERT JADE EGG LITERALLY. We reflect on what this birthday actually feels like (spoiler: it’s not the crisis we thought it would be), gush about foster dog Fred... Plus, BOOK CLUB IS BACK as we dive into some recent books with badass female leads and why representation isn’t just a buzzword — it’s literally shaping how we see ourselves. Come for the birthday tea, stay for the vagina jokes and unsolicited life advice. Chapters 00:00 Celebrating 35: A Birthday Reflection 03:14 Viral Moments and Social Media Fame 05:51 Family Dynamics and Expectations 09:17 Adventures in Self-Care and New Experiences 13:06 T-Swift and Celebrity Culture 16:21 Book Club: Exploring New Reads 25:34 Closing Thoughts and Listener Engagement Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations [https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

This week on Confidently Insecure, I sit down with returning friend of the pod, author, and cosmic hype queen Madi Murphy to talk about her brand-new book In the Cosmic Zone: Embodying the 12 Astro Archetypes to Unleash Your Genius & Activate Your Authentic Self. We get into: 🌟 Why astrology should ALIGN you, not define you 🦁 The Leo Season mantra: “I need to be seen” — and why that’s not narcissism, it’s power 📅 How to actually use each zodiac season to fuel your goals ⚖️ What it means to create harmony, reclaim your power, and trust your damn self 💼 The Capricorn reminder that your life is your legacy 💥 Madi’s David vs. Goliath court case against Starbucks (yes, she won) 💡 How to turn cosmic wisdom into daily, doable action Whether you’re astrology-curious, a chart-reading pro, or a total skeptic, this episode is your permission slip to step into your cosmic zone and start living like the main character. 🎧 Grab your notebook, your birth chart, and maybe a sequin jacket — the stars (and Madi) have some things to say to you. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations [https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]

A CONTROVERSY!!!! or is it all that controversial when you hear the facts? Child-free living has never looked more desirable, but countries all over the world are SO DESPERATE to make people BONE!!! What do you think, confidantes? Lets explore the societal, financial, and personal implications of choosing not to have children. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Child-Free Movement 01:46 Understanding Child-Free vs. Childless 07:15 Personal Reflections on Being Child-Free 09:30 Financial Considerations of Parenthood 13:19 The Role of Partners in Parenting Decisions 14:41 Concerns About the State of the World 15:59 The Village Concept in Modern Parenting 18:18 The Pressure of Family Expectations 20:24 The Risks of Pregnancy and Childbirth 21:24 Declining Birth Rates and Societal Implications 23:57 Global Trends in Birth Rates 26:58 Incentives for Childbirth Around the World 30:34 Critique of Societal Pressures on Women 31:48 Community Perspectives on Being Child-Free Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations [https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations] Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands [https://redcircle.com/brands] Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy [https://redcircle.com/privacy]